Phileine Says Sorry

Phileine Says Sorry

Year: 2003

Runtime: 95 mins

Language: Dutch

Director: Robert Jan Westdijk

ComedyRomanceDrama

Max, a talented young Dutch actor, lands a year-long theatre program in New York. His burgeoning career is thrown into disarray when he meets the mercurial Phileine in Utrecht. She toys with his emotions, alternately withdrawing and reappearing jealous and possessive, sparking misunderstandings that culminate in a tangled, emotionally charged finale.

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1

Arrival in New York and Max’s circle

Phileine flies to New York to be with Max and quickly meets his circle of friends upon arriving at his house. On the plane, Fabian and Lena offer to give her a tour and Fabian hands her his number. She attends a welcome party at Max's place, but fatigue and alcohol lead her to an early bedtime.

Day 1, evening New York City (Max's house)
2

Morning note and budding friendship

Max leaves for rehearsal, promising a dinner together. Phileine finds a note and heads into the living room where she meets Gulpje and they quickly become friends, planning to have lunch together.

Day 1, morning Max's apartment, New York City
3

A tour that crosses boundaries

Phileine takes a guided tour around the city offered by Fabian, but it becomes too personal as he presses his advances. She firmly reminds him that he has a wife, setting a boundary early on.

Day 1, afternoon New York City (with Fabian)
4

Dinner absence and a playful night

Max cannot make the planned dinner due to rehearsal, so Phileine spends the night with Max's friends. Gulpje joins in, and the group is teased and provoked with jokes at others’ expense.

Day 1, night Max's house
5

Romeo and Juliet premiere controversy

Phileine attends the premiere of Romeo and Juliet with the company. The play’s explicit sexual content and nudity shocks portions of the audience, who leave during the break, while Phileine remains to see how it ends.

Day 2, evening Theatre, New York City
6

After party confrontation

At the after party, Phileine seeks explanations from Max and the director Reginald but receives none, leading to a quarrel with Max. The dispute lingers until they settle it later in a pub.

Day 2, night Theatre/After party venue, then pub
7

Restaurant antics echo When Harry Met Sally

The next day Phileine and Gulpje visit the restaurant where a scene from When Harry Met Sally was filmed. Two men invite them to their table and watch as they perform tricks with panting and moaning, which becomes embarrassing when they start screaming.

Day 3, midday Restaurant, New York City
8

Harassment discussion and Jules revealed

The women later run into Jules and discuss sexual harassment. After an insulting remark by Phileine, Jules departs, and Phileine discovers that Jules is not female but male.

Day 3, afternoon Cafe/Street, New York City
9

Revenge on LT

Phileine meets LT, the boyfriend of ‘terrible Joanna,’ on his boat and engages in sex with him as revenge for Joanna’s earlier on-stage escapade with Max.

Day 3, evening LT’s boat, New York waters
10

Final show and disruptive protest

The next day they attend the last performance; from the back of the theater Phileine sees Max about to sleep with Joanna and disrupts the scene. Max defends his action as art, but the audience sides with Phileine.

Day 4, daytime Theatre, New York City
11

Media attention and Letterman appearance

Newspapers cover the on-stage incident, and Phileine is invited to TV shows. She takes control on David Letterman’s show, winning the audience’s support and receiving money to stay in a hotel.

Day 5 David Letterman show, TV studio
12

AIDS Gala confrontation

The next day Max arrives at Phileine's door to take her to an AIDS Gala for his friend Leonard. She refuses to go, and he lifts her over his shoulder into a taxi.

Day 6, morning Phileine’s apartment and taxi
13

Public apology on stage

The atmosphere remains hostile, and Phileine finally grasps why everyone is angry with her. She delivers a heartfelt speech on stage, apologizing for the first time in her life and ends with the line 'Sorry that I exist.'

Day 6, evening AIDS Gala stage

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