Your Friends & Neighbors

Your Friends & Neighbors

Year: 1998

Runtime: 100 min

Language: english

Director: Neil LaBute

DramaComedy

In this wickedly witty drama, four lives intertwine in a tangled web of desire and deception. A discontented businessman and his writer wife find solace in extramarital affairs, while their friends, too, succumb to temptation, blurring the lines between love, lust, and lies.

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Timeline – Your Friends & Neighbors (1998)
Trace every key event in Your Friends & Neighbors (1998) with our detailed, chronological timeline. Perfect for unpacking nonlinear stories, spotting hidden connections, and understanding how each scene builds toward the film’s climax. Whether you're revisiting or decoding for the first time, this timeline gives you the full picture.
1

Couples' Discontent

In an unnamed Midwestern American city, two urban middle-class couples are grappling with their own versions of happiness. Jerry, a theater instructor, and his wife Terri face significant issues in their marriage fueled by Jerry's overbearing masculinity.

Midwestern American city
2

The Dinner Party

A seemingly routine dinner with friends Mary and Barry exposes the cracks in Jerry and Terri's relationship. Mary shares her plans for writing a column exploring couples' conflicts while Barry dismisses others' struggles as trivial.

3

Jerry's Bold Move

After the dinner, Jerry boldly invites Mary out on a date, an invitation she reluctantly accepts. This decision is driven by Mary's growing dissatisfaction with her partner, Barry, creating tension and restlessness.

4

Terri's Secret Romance

Not long after, Terri begins a clandestine romance with Cheri, a gallery worker she meets. Cheri provides the emotional and physical satisfaction that Terri lacks in her marriage with Jerry.

Art gallery
5

Cary's Manipulation

Cary, a conniving doctor, further complicates matters by persuading Barry to explore a non-monogamous lifestyle. Barry struggles between his commitment to his marriage and the influence of Cary’s predatory suggestions.

6

The Hotel Encounter

During a secret hotel rendezvous, Jerry's self-esteem takes a hit as he fails to perform. In a fit of misogyny, he blames Mary for his impotence, leading her to end their affair in frustration.

Hotel
7

Barry's Misguided Return

Weeks later, Barry unwittingly brings Mary back to the same hotel they once shared, triggering painful memories of her affair with Jerry. This lack of awareness highlights the ongoing tumult in their lives.

Hotel
8

A Not-So-Secret Gathering

A gym meet-up between Jerry, Barry, and Cary spirals into discomfort as Cary shares a chilling story from his past. This unsettling exchange prompts Jerry to reveal he had sex with Barry's wife, leaving Barry speechless.

Gym
9

Confrontation and Betrayal

Tensions culminate as Barry confronts Mary about her affair, while Terri discovers Jerry's betrayal during a trip to a bookstore. In a moment of recklessness, Terri reveals her relationship with Cheri, showing no remorse.

Bookstore
10

Jerry's Rage

Infuriated by Terri's infidelity, Jerry confronts Cheri at the gallery only to be met with her indifference. This moment underscores the deep divide and distress within their relationships.

Art gallery
11

Breaking Apart

As both couples unravel, Terri moves in with Cheri, though their emotional dynamics become complex and challenging. Meanwhile, Jerry continues to engage in relationships with his theater students.

12

Barry's Despair

Amidst the chaos, Barry descends into despair, grappling with his feelings of impotence and frustration. His emotional state reflects the ruin of his marriage and the unfulfilled desires he faces.

13

Mary's Cold Reality

Mary, now living with Cary, faces a reality of being treated coldly despite being pregnant. This stark situation reveals the emptiness of her attempts to find fulfillment outside of her previous relationship with Barry.

14

A Bitter Conclusion

In a haunting finale, Mary lies in bed with Cary, realizing that her new relationship is even more suffocating than her last. This moment marks a painful conclusion to their individual searches for happiness.

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