Trouble with Sex

Trouble with Sex

Year: 2005

Runtime: 88 mins

Language: English

Director: Fintan Connolly

A sensual romantic drama follows Dublin lawyer Michelle (Renée Weldon, IFTA Best Actress), whose upscale life hides dissatisfaction with her doctor boyfriend, and Conor (Aidan Gillen), a solitary bartender running his father's traditional pub. After Michelle orders a triple vodka one night, their attraction ignites into a tentative romance fraught with complications.

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1

Michelle's high-flying Dublin life

Michelle is an ambitious lawyer in Dublin, navigating a high-pressured career while her relationship with Ivan grows tense. Her mother Rosie has dementia and lives in a care home, a constant reminder of what she might be losing. The city itself feels intimate and indifferent, setting the tone for a life in motion.

Opening Dublin
2

A party erupts into trouble

A volatile row erupts at a party between Michelle and Ivan, with Ivan's attention divided by Eva. The argument spills out, threatening the stability Michelle seeks. The scene marks the end of quiet harmony and the start of a chance encounter.

Party night Party
3

Michelle seeks solace at Flynn's after hours

Michelle storms into Flynn's pub after hours where her friend Kathy is waiting to help her regroup. The pub's worn wood and warm lights cast a new mood, and a quiet, unobtrusive Conor appears behind the bar. A spark flickers as she seeks solace, hinting at a new possibility.

After hours, same night Flynn's pub
4

Morning light reveals a growing spark

The morning after, Michelle returns to the pub to retrieve her phone and the exchange hints at a developing attraction. Conor's quiet charm and the sense of being seen soften her guard. The pull between them deepens as the city wakes.

Morning after Flynn's pub
5

A habit forms: more time at the pub

Michelle begins spending more time in the pub, drawn by Conor's presence and the sense of being understood. Their conversations grow longer, and the distance between her old life and this new possibility narrows. The two slowly lean toward something more than friendship.

Weeks after Flynn's pub
6

Dance, invitation, and a first kiss interrupted

They go dancing with Joe and Kathy, and Michelle invites them back to her apartment. They share a first kiss, but Conor is interrupted before he can fully commit. The moment hints at a growing connection, even as expectations are tempered. There is a sense that something real could begin.

Soon after Flynn's pub; Michelle's apartment
7

Dinner, song, and deeper connection

A genuine invitation to a dinner with colleagues leads to a spontaneous music session back at the pub, where Michelle takes the stage and belts out a song. The night deepens the connection between them, and the line between work and personal life begins to blur. They leave with a shared sense of possibility.

Following dinner Flynn's pub
8

The affair takes hold

Returning to her apartment, they finally become intimate and the affair takes hold, consuming their days and nights. The intensity isolates them from friends and ordinary routines, fueling a feverish closeness. As the affair intensifies, both sense the growing risk.

Soon after Michelle's apartment
9

Ivan tests loyalty and sparks conflict

Ivan reappears, testing the boundaries of Michelle's resolve as they argue about loyalty and honesty. The clash puts pressure on Michelle and nudges her toward Conor, even as guilt and doubt pull at her.

Midpoint City apartment
10

A countryside weekend of truth and love

Michelle takes Conor away for a weekend in the countryside, where they share a rare, idyllic escape. On the last night, Conor admits that he is falling in love, and Michelle experiences both hope and fear about committing. The pair teases a possible future together beyond the city life.

Weekend Countryside near Dublin
11

Return to the city, success, and growing distance

Back in the city, Michelle is promoted and buys herself a sports car, underscoring a more polished professional life. The differences in their lifestyles become more visible, and Conor senses that Michelle's feelings may be cooling. The momentum of the affair starts to tilt toward distance.

After weekend Dublin
12

Ivan's intrusion: betrayal and distrust

Ivan arrives again, letting himself into the apartment with keys he previously refused to give back. A tense confrontation unfolds as Michelle's failure to tell Conor about Ivan fuels anger and mistrust. Conor erupts and leaves in a storm, while Michelle watches in hurt confusion.

Night of confrontation Apartment
13

The affair ends: heartbreak at the pub

The relationship collapses and Conor retreats; Michelle's attempt to apologize at the pub is met with rejection. The romance stalls as both reckon with the consequences of their choices. The city streets echo with the quiet sense of loss.

Post-breakup Flynn's pub
14

Loss drives change: death and a sale

Conor's father dies and he decides to sell the pub, signaling a shift in priorities. The two drift apart on the street, passing each other with cold civility as the life they knew recedes.

After breakup City streets / pub
15

A quiet reunion and renewed resolve

In a moment of renewed resolve, Conor stops, calls to Michelle, and they embrace, choosing to listen to each other again. The film closes with the sense that love can endure and rebind when two people commit to restarting their connection.

Final City streets

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