The Wedding Banquet

The Wedding Banquet

Year: 1993

Runtime: 108 mins

Language: Chinese

Budget: $1M

RomanceDramaComedyMoving relationship storiesRelationship comedy

A Taiwanese‑American man lives contentedly in New York with his American boyfriend, but his traditional Chinese parents pressure him to marry. To keep them appeased and help a Chinese woman obtain a green card, he stages a marriage of convenience. When his parents fly in for the wedding, the ruse unravels, sparking comic chaos and cultural clashes.

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1

Wai-Tung and Simon's life in Manhattan

Wai-Tung and his partner Simon live openly as a couple in Manhattan, but Wai-Tung has not come out to his traditional parents in Taiwan. They navigate a future where family expectations loom while keeping their relationship private. The tension between desire for freedom and cultural duty threads through their daily life.

Manhattan, New York
2

Parents hire a dating service

Mr. and Mrs. Gao hire a dating service back in Taiwan to find a suitable fiancé for their son. The couple tries to stall by inventing ridiculous requirements that seem impossible to meet. The agency begins a search that will pull Wai-Tung into a deception about his life.

Taiwan
3

The service finds an almost perfect fiancée

The service locates a woman who is nearly perfect in many regards, though she has only one PhD instead of two. She is gracious and understands their predicament, while concealing her own secret relationship with a white man. Wai-Tung and Simon reluctantly commit to the plan and prepare to present her to his parents.

Taiwan/Manhattan
4

Simon trains Wei-Wei and hides their life

Simon explains Wai-Tung's habits and lifestyle to Wei-Wei so the pair can pretend a conventional marriage. They strip the apartment of gay imagery and replace it with Mandarin calligraphy to convey a respectable, traditional home. The deception is designed to placate Wai-Tung's parents and secure the sham.

before the parents arrive Wai-Tung's home, Manhattan
5

Gao parents arrive with gifts and cash

Mr. and Mrs. Gao arrive to visit their son, bringing gifts and US$30,000 to fund an extravagant wedding. They believe Wai-Tung is engaged to a wealthy fiancée and begin to plan a grand celebration. The lie expands as the family prepares to meet the ‘fiancée’.

Manhattan, Wai-Tung's home
6

Announcement of a JP wedding

The day after the Gaos arrive, Wai-Tung announces that he and Wei-Wei plan to marry before a Justice of the Peace. The news sets expectations high and puts pressure on everyone to maintain the deception. His mother experiences a quiet heartbreak at the idea of a small courthouse ceremony.

the day after the Gaos' arrival Manhattan
7

Courthouse wedding and mother's heartbreak

Wai-Tung and Wei-Wei proceed with a courthouse wedding, but the arrangement exposes Wei-Wei's lower social status and provokes heartbreak in Wai-Tung's mother. The family tries to hide their disappointment while continuing the lie for the sake of family harmony. This moment tests Wai-Tung's loyalty to both partners.

soon after the announcement Manhattan courthouse
8

Lavish banquet to salvage honor

To salvage the situation, Wai-Tung accepts an extravagant wedding banquet offered by Mr. Gao's former batman, who now runs a restaurant and reception hall. The event is designed to impress relatives and seal the sham marriage. The guests arrive with frenetic energy, heightening the pressure to perform the perfect family image.

after the courthouse wedding Restaurant/reception hall, Manhattan
9

After-party and the pregnancy

An after-party in the bridal suite devolves into demands that the couple consummate their marriage, and Wei-Wei becomes pregnant. The unexpected turn complicates the ruse and triggers a crisis for the trio. The moment marks a turning point in their relationships.

late night following the wedding Bridal suite, banquet venue
10

Simon's anger and the fraying bond

Simon is furious when the pregnancy and deception are revealed, and the tension among Wai-Tung, Wei-Wei, and Simon mounts. The strain threatens to break the fragile arrangement and tests each partner's commitment. The fallout changes the dynamics of their unconventional family.

after the after-party Manhattan
11

Mr. Gao's second stroke and confession

Mr. Gao suffers another stroke, and in anger after the fight Wai-Tung confesses the truth to his mother. She is shocked and pleads with him to keep the truth from Wai-Tung's father. Meanwhile, Mr. Gao senses more of the truth and begins to treat Simon as family.

after the fight Mr. Gao's home/hospital
12

Gao's acknowledgment and hongbao

Mr. Gao reveals that he knows about Wai-Tung and Simon's relationship and considers Simon his son. He hands Simon a hongbao and asks him to keep the truth secret so that the family can still have a grandchild. The gesture deepens the bond between the three and cements a nontraditional family.

after confession Gao family home
13

Wei-Wei decides to keep the baby

On the way to an abortion appointment, Wei-Wei decides to keep the baby and asks Simon to stay with Wai-Tung as the baby's father too. Their decision reframes their commitments and softens the earlier hostility. The trio contemplates a redefined family beyond the wedding ruse.

en route to abortion appointment en route to abortion clinic
14

Airport farewell and new beginnings

At the airport, Mr. Gao warmly accepts Simon and shakes his hand as the Gaos depart. Mrs. Gao bids Wei-Wei farewell, and the unconventional new family is left to figure out their future together, free from the illusion of a traditional marriage.

before the Gaos' flight home Airport

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