The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed

Ann, a thirty-three-year-old woman, is entrenched in a long-term casual BDSM relationship with Allen, where she serves as his submissive. Despite the excitement of the lifestyle, Ann feels emotionally detached from her experiences, indicating her internal conflict.

Ann finds herself disengaged from her corporate job, which is further highlighted when she receives an award for a project she didn’t genuinely engage with. This recognition is bittersweet since she has been there for over three years, yet feels undervalued and overlooked.

She starts a brief romance with Thomas, a much younger musician who writes scores for children's movies. Unfortunately, this relationship quickly fizzles out when he reunites with his ex, leaving Ann feeling again unfulfilled in her quest for connection.

Ann's sister moves in with her, struggling with her own failing marriage due to her husband's infidelity. This situation forces Ann into a caretaker role, further complicating her own desires for independence and emotional freedom.

While Ann's workplace undergoes a shakeup, with her manager being laid off, she finds herself assigned more responsibilities and given a new title. This unexpected promotion is unwelcome, as Ann desires to escape the corporate pressures rather than embrace them.

Ann encounters Simon, a new dominant who presents a harsher, more demeaning approach to BDSM compared to her previous partners. Initially intriguing, his methods soon lead to boredom as she realizes she misses the aftercare she previously cherished.

As Ann tries to navigate her relationships, her sister becomes increasingly involved in her life, which leads to irritation for Ann. This development forces Ann to reconsider her boundaries and personal space, prompting her to request her sister to move out.

After some time away, Ann reconnects with Allen, albeit under the assumption that he did not recognize her due to a change in her online username. Their encounter is marked by a sudden withdrawal when Ann learns of his political views, highlighting her own complex feelings.

Ann takes a break from her chaotic life and goes on a vacation with her critical parents. This trip reveals the emotional strain between Ann and her parents, with their condescending behaviors exacerbating her feelings of isolation.

With support from her friends, Ann boldly decides to create a profile on a non-fetish dating site. This step represents her attempt to break away from the expectations of her past relationships and seek something more aligned with her personal desires.

On her new dating adventure, Ann meets Chris, a man she connects with over their shared love for the film 'A League of Their Own.' Their relationship develops as they navigate the complexities of love, creating uncertainty about its seriousness.

As Ann and Chris spend more time together, their bond deepens. However, Ann struggles with communication, affecting their dynamic as she is not accustomed to expressing her emotions and needs in a relationship.

With increased pressures at work, Ann starts to take on more responsibilities and reflects on her relationships with her coworkers. She expresses her appreciation for a departing colleague by framing and gifting his photographs, marking an emotional farewell.

As her relationship with Chris becomes more serious, Ann attempts to introduce him to the world of BDSM. Their initial foray into domination and submission leads to mixed feelings, with Chris expressing discomfort at times, complicating their intimacy.

The film concludes without clear resolution regarding Ann's relationship dynamics, leaving viewers questioning whether she has resumed her relationship with Allen or has been unfaithful to Chris. This open ending emphasizes the complexities of her struggles with love and identity.