Solitary Man

Solitary Man

Year: 2009

Runtime: 90 mins

Language: English

Directors: Brian Koppelman, David Levien

Budget: $15M

RomanceComedyDrama

Ben, a successful car magnate, cherishes his family almost as much as his own ego. However, his relentless pursuit of business deals and a series of romantic affairs begin to unravel both his household stability and his corporate empire, sending his personal and professional worlds careening toward disaster.

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1

Opening medical check-up

At the film's start, 54-year-old Ben Kalmen sits for his annual medical check-up in the New York area. The doctor notes an irregularity in his EKG and recommends a CAT scan to assess his heart. Ben's tone remains defiant as he considers how aging should change his reckless life.

New York area (medical clinic)
2

Six years later: a fallen fortune

Six years pass and Ben's fortune has drastically declined. He relies on oral medications but never completes the prescribed heart tests. The loss of his perceived immortality fuels a self-destructive streak of lies, illicit affairs, and risky business decisions, leaving him broke.

Six years later New York area (various)
3

Campus interview in Boston

Ben accompanies Allyson to her college interview at a Boston campus, where he remains a celebrated alumnus and donor. The setting highlights his lingering need for attention and his compromised ethics, even as he tries to act supportive.

During Allyson's college interview Boston, MA (college campus)
4

First meeting with Daniel

On campus, Ben meets Daniel, an impressionable student who appreciates his wisdom and guidance. The encounter shows that despite his flaws, Ben still wields influence and seeks validation.

During campus visit Boston college campus
5

Nighttime tryst with Allyson

That night, Ben and Allyson sleep together, crossing a sharp moral line and complicating both of their lives. The relationship exposes a clash between Allyson's world and Ben's aging, hungry for vitality.

That night during campus visit Boston campus (in dorm/guest areas)
6

Aftermath in New York: Allyson's reaction and Jordon's withdrawal

Back in New York, Ben reveals he wants to continue the relationship, but Allyson dismisses it as a one-time experiment. Jordon reacts with fury, breaks off contact, and withdraws support, threatening to derail a new auto dealership Ben hoped to open. His personal and professional prospects grow bleaker.

After campus visit New York
7

Eviction looming; Susan intervenes

Facing eviction, Ben talks with the building manager about overdue rent. Susan arrives and declares that he is no longer welcome in the family, citing past indiscretions and unreliability.

Shortly after eviction threat New York (apartment building)
8

Jimmy Marino hires Ben at a campus diner

With nowhere else to turn, Ben asks his college friend Jimmy Marino to hire him at a campus diner. The job is meant to stabilize his finances and reconnect him to his old network.

After Susan's confrontation Campus diner (on/near campus)
9

Allyson discovers the diner job

Allyson discovers Ben working at the diner near her campus. The discovery deepens the rift between them and intensifies the sense that Ben is spiraling out of control.

Shortly after starting the job Near Allyson's campus
10

Jordon's demand to leave town

Ben receives a demand from Jordon to leave town immediately, threatening to use Allyson's father's connections. The pressure mounts as his situation becomes more precarious.

Following the diner's start Campus/city environment
11

College party and the assault

At a college party, Ben recognizes a diner customer and makes a sexual advance toward Maureen, Daniel's girlfriend. An ex-police officer, hired by Allyson's father, retaliates with a brutal beating, ending the party's facade of control.

During the party College campus party
12

Hospitalization and leaving against medical advice

After a talk with Jimmy, Ben collapses and is rushed to the hospital, where Susan sits by his bedside. He eventually leaves the hospital against medical advice, seeking to salvage what remains.

Post-beating Hospital
13

Reunion with Nancy and a confession

Ben apologizes to Daniel and reunites with Nancy at the bench where they first met. Nancy reveals that she knows about his medical condition and his pattern of self-destructive behavior, while Ben confesses that aging has made him feel invisible. She reminds him that there is no excuse, yet offers him a ride back to the city.

After hospital recovery The bench where they first met (New York)
14

Ending: Ben faces a choice

In the final moment, Nancy waits in the car as Ben contemplates his future. A young woman walks past in the opposite direction, and Ben glances between them before standing and looking into the camera, leaving his next move unresolved.

Ending City street near hospital area

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