Grown-Ups

Grown-Ups

Year: 1980

Runtime: 93 mins

Language: English

Director: Mike Leigh

Drama

Dick and Mandy, a young working‑class couple, move into a council house in Canterbury and discover that their new neighbour is Mr. Butcher, one of their former teachers. Mandy’s unmarried sister, Gloria, keeps turning up uninvited, refusing to take the hint that they need privacy, and her constant intrusions finally force the couple to take action.

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Timeline – Grown-Ups (1980)

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1

Move into their first home and meet the Butchers next door

Dick and Mandy move into a council-owned house and begin their married life. They soon discover that their new neighbours are their schoolteacher Ralph Butcher and his wife Christine. The setting starts to reveal tensions and dynamics that will shape their days ahead.

Council house neighborhood
2

Dick and Mandy's disagreement over starting a family

The couple debates whether to have children, exposing differing desires and anxieties about their future. The tension hints at underlying fault lines in their relationship. This disagreement becomes a recurring undercurrent in their interactions.

Their home
3

Gloria's frequent visits strain the couple

Gloria, Mandy's older sister, keeps appearing at their doorstep, intruding on their privacy. Dick grows frustrated with the constant interruptions. Mandy tries to manage the situation despite the mounting tension.

Dick and Mandy's home
4

Gloria locks herself in the toilet at the Butchers' house

One visit ends with Gloria locking herself in the toilet at the Butchers' after Dick throws her out. She seeks refuge next door, escalating the crisis between the couples. The moment marks a turning point in their strained dynamic.

Butchers' house
5

Dick confronts Gloria, Ralph intervenes

Christine persuades Gloria that Dick has left, and she is helped downstairs. Dick, still furious, grabs Gloria as she tries to exit, but Ralph stops him from forcing her out. The confrontation tests the boundaries of anger and restraint in the group.

Butchers' house
6

Mandy reacts with anger after Christine slaps her

Dick leaves the scene, followed by a hysterical Mandy who has just been slapped by Christine. The incident deepens the rift within the group and forces a moment of reckoning. Gloria's safety and wellbeing become a shared concern again.

Butchers' house
7

Ralph and Christine mediate and calm Gloria

Ralph and Christine soothe Gloria with tea and help her settle down for a nap on their sofa. Christine then goes next door to speak with Mandy and Dick to de-escalate the situation. They arrange for Gloria to be taken back to her mother to restore some order.

Butchers' house and next door
8

Mandy and Sharon escort Gloria home

Mandy and Sharon return to the Butchers' house to take Gloria home. They hire a taxi and have a tense ride back, arguing along the way. The trip underscores the fragility of the arrangement and the toll of the conflict.

Butchers' house to Gloria's mother's location
9

Evening decision to try for a baby

That evening, Dick and Mandy decide to try for a baby after all, signaling a renewed commitment to their marriage. The moment contrasts with Christine's earlier attempts to push for a family life. The couple hopes this change will bring them closer.

Dick and Mandy's home
10

Christine voices her own desire for a sex life and family

At the Butchers' house, Christine angrily tells Ralph that she also wants a sexual relationship and a family. Ralph remains absorbed in his reading, indicating emotional distance or inability to engage with her plea. The moment highlights differing life goals between couples.

Butchers' house
11

Months pass; Christmas nears; reconciliation and pregnancy

Some months later, Dick, Mandy, and Gloria have reconciled their issues. Mandy is heavily pregnant, signaling a hopeful turn for the couple and their extended circle. Gloria appears to have found stability, even as she navigates a new boyfriend and social outings.

Around Christmas Home and Gloria's social circle
12

Gloria's party plans and Dick's joke about the boyfriend

On the eve of the holiday, Gloria leaves to go to a party, and Dick jokes about whether her new boyfriend will show up. The banter hints at a fragile peace and the ongoing changes in their lives. The story closes with a sense of cautious optimism and anticipation.

Gloria's home / party location

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