For a Lost Soldier

For a Lost Soldier

Year: 1992

Runtime: 92 mins

Language: Dutch

Director: Roeland Kerbosch

DramaMoving relationship storiesEmotional teen coming-of-age storiesEmotional LGBTQ relationshipsTouching and sentimental family stories

During the final months of WWII in occupied Netherlands, teenage Jeroen Boman is sent from Amsterdam to live with an adoptive family in the countryside. There he befriends Canadian soldier Walt Cook. Their bond deepens into a tentative romantic connection, portrayed with restraint and sensitivity, focusing on the emotional impact of a wartime coming‑of‑age experience.

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1

Jeroen's search begins in the 1980s

In the 1980s, middle-aged ballet dancer Jeroen grows dissatisfied with his dancers' interpretation of an autobiographical ballet and confides in Laura, showing a photo of his younger self and a pair of vintage sunglasses. He reveals he's searching for a Canadian soldier named Walt and decides to visit the village where his foster family lived, carrying the sunglasses and speaking to his teenage self.

1980s Jeroen's office
2

Memory drags him to the past

Jeroen travels to the countryside to reach the village of his foster family and engages in a mental dialogue with his teenage self as the memory unfolds. The narrative then shifts back to 1944, plunging us into the war time chapter.

1980s (flashback to 1944) Countryside village
3

Jeroen arrives at his foster family

At age 11, Jeroen is sent to a foster family in the countryside to escape hunger. The mix-up—they expected a girl—does not prevent the family from treating him kindly and beginning to anchor him in a new sense of belonging.

1944 Foster family's countryside home
4

First night and awakening

On his first night, Jeroen wets the bed while sharing a bed with Henk, the older son. He also starts to realize he is gay as he discovers his attractions.

1944 Foster family bedroom
5

Plane crash and fascination

A Canadian warplane crashes near the village beach, capturing Jeroen's imagination. He and his bisexual friend Jan try to explore the wreck but fail.

1944 Village beach
6

Liberation and meeting Walt

When Canadian liberators arrive, Jeroen meets Walt, a soldier, and they begin flirting. The attraction marks the beginning of a secret connection across the war.

1944 Village/beach area
7

Secret dance and growing bond

At a party, Jeroen and Walt secretly dance and grow closer. The two meet again later, and Jeroen accompanies Walt to the soldiers' hotel.

1944 Party; soldiers' hotel
8

Beaches, jeep and first intimacy

They join others at the beach, then return to the hotel to retrieve a jeep, only to find Walt's comrades have disabled it. Walt sneaks inside to fix it and later showers before rejoining Jeroen.

1944 Beach and soldiers' hotel
9

Sunday drive and hidden photo

On the following Sunday, Jeroen fends off another assault by Jan. He and Walt attend a church service, and Walt gives him a driving lesson. After more intimacy, Jeroen hides one of Walt's photos inside his shirt.

1944 Foster village; church and roads
10

Photo plan and ruined negative

Walt's comrades arrive and suggest a group photo with Jeroen's foster family. While developing the photos, Jeroen ruins the negative, then comforts Walt and promises they will always be together, unaware Walt is leaving the next day.

1944 Foster family's garden and darkroom
11

Departure heartbreak

The next day, Jeroen overhears that Walt is leaving. He searches for Walt, becomes distraught, pushes his younger sister off her bike in a moment of anger, and a stormy night leads him to impale his hand on barbed wire after mistaking a scarecrow for Walt wearing a tag.

1944 Village streets and barbed wire area
12

Hait's quiet intervention

Hait finds him, burns the scarecrow the next morning, and later secretly places Walt's camera films in Jeroen's suitcase. He also passes Walt's sunglasses to Jeroen's mother to relay to Walt, and asks for a photo of them together.

1944 Foster family's home
13

Return to the present and closure

Back in the 1980s, Jeroen's dancers perform with renewed resolve as he guides them through the final rehearsal. Laura hands him an envelope containing an enlarged photo of his foster family and a zoomed image of Walt's identification tag, revealing Walt's contact information.

1980s Dance studio

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