Three Wise Cousins

Adam Neil Amituanai is a young New Zealand-born Samoan man who dreams of becoming a ‘real island guy’ to impress his crush, Mary Gloria Blake. He leaves New Zealand to return to his homeland, traveling to Samoa to find his cousins so he can learn and practice Faʻa Sāmoa in the hope of winning Mary’s heart. In his native land, he hopes to shed his current routine and show a side of himself that aligns with the island life he admires.

Back in New Zealand, Adam is unemployed and spends most of his time on his PlayStation, while his parents wake up early for work to support the family. The contrast between his comfortable, screen-filled days and the hard-working rhythm of his family’s life weighs on him, setting the stage for a transformation he feels he must undertake to be taken seriously by Mary.

Upon arriving in Samoa, Adam feels overwhelmed and unfamiliar with his culture, realizing he does not fit Mary’s ideal of a ‘real island guy’. Motivated by the desire to change, he seeks help from his cousins Tavita and Mose, who are eager to guide him through the basics of Faʻa Sāmoa. They introduce him to the everyday practices that define island living: climbing a coconut tree, cleaning the fale, building the umu (Earth oven), and weaving baskets, among other traditional tasks. These lessons are not simple for Adam; the pace is demanding and unfamiliar, pushing him to confront his own limitations and adapt to a way of life that prizes collective effort and skill.

Despite the initial struggle, Adam begins to rise with the sun, waking early to tackle chores and help out on the plantation. The work is hard, but it also feels grounding, and he slowly finds rhythm in the daily routines that his cousins model with ease. As he endures these experiences, he experiences real growth, learning to value the cultural practices that had seemed distant before. He discovers a deeper appreciation for Faʻa Sāmoa and begins to rebuild a connection with his cultural identity, recognizing the strength that comes from communal and family bonding.

In the end, Adam’s journey is more than a personal makeover; it becomes a testament to the power of family, tradition, and shared responsibility. The story resonates with Samoan and Pacific Islanders in the diaspora, who may see their own struggles reflected in Adam’s efforts to bridge two worlds and reclaim a sense of belonging. Through his perseverance, he finds not just a sense of authenticity, but a richer understanding of where he comes from and how to carry that heritage forward.

Last Updated: October 03, 2025 at 06:45