The Girlfriend

The Girlfriend

Year: 1988

Runtime: 110 mins

Language: Spanish

Director: Jeanine Meerapfel

Drama

Raquel and Maria have been close since childhood. As adults, Raquel fulfills her dream of becoming an actress, while Maria lives with her handyman husband, raises three children, and runs the household. After the 1976 Argentine coup, Maria’s eldest son Carlos is abducted, and she turns to Raquel for help. Raquel’s involvement brings the junta’s attention, forcing her to flee to Berlin. Maria joins a women’s group researching the disappeared. With democracy restored in 1983, the two friends reunite.

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1

Carlos disappears in the Buenos Aires suburb

María and Pancho grapple with the sudden vanishing of their eldest son, Carlos, while the family home in the quiet Buenos Aires suburb becomes a place of unanswered questions. The couple's grief is shared with María's longtime friend Raquel, whose support anchors their fragile hope. The absence colors every day as they search in silence, afraid of what the truth might reveal.

circa 1978 Buenos Aires suburb (south)
2

Raquel becomes a steadfast ally in grief

Raquel steps into the center of María's world as a sounding board and ally. The two women navigate a landscape of loss, while Raquel's own life—her career in theatre and the attention from her lover—adds complexity to their bond. Their friendship becomes a lifeline as the search for Carlos continues.

circa 1978 María's circle, Buenos Aires
3

Raquel's career under pressure from the dictatorship

Raquel's celebrated theatre work and high-profile connections help shield her from anti-Semitic attacks, but the repressive climate of the dictatorship nonetheless bleeds into her life. Diego, her lover and a public television executive, walks a tightrope between supporting Raquel and appeasing powerful forces. The era's censorship and fear complicate Raquel's art and relationships.

late 1970s–1983 Theatre world and public television
4

Raquel goes into exile in Berlin

As political pressure intensifies and the dictatorship discourages controversial roles, Raquel leaves Argentina for exile in Berlin. There, her Jewish identity and fearless spirit keep her connected to the culture she loves while underscoring the costs of dissent. The move isolates her from a country she still believes in.

early 1980s Berlin
5

María joins Mothers of the Plaza de Mayo

María's search for her son expands beyond a private ordeal as she joins the Mothers of the Plaza de Mayo, a growing collective of women seeking the detained. She earns the respect of fellow mothers from diverse backgrounds and finds a sense of purpose in a public, collective struggle. The movement reinforces her resolve to keep looking for Carlos.

late 1970s–1980s Buenos Aires, Plaza de Mayo
6

The quest deepens; the mission becomes life itself

What began as a personal grief evolves into a lifelong mission. María's relentless search consumes her days and reshapes her identity as a mother and activist. Her determination strains personal relationships but also galvanizes a wider circle of kin and friends around the cause.

late 1970s–1980s Buenos Aires
7

The search takes María to Berlin

Driven by hope and desperation, María travels to Berlin seeking any lead about Carlos's fate. The journey embodies the international reach of the dictatorship's reach and the personal costs of a missing child. In a foreign city, she confronts memories that echo home and questions she may never fully answer.

early 1980s Berlin
8

A German-Argentine exile claims Carlos is near death

In Berlin, a German-Argentine exile recounts having seen Carlos near death at one of the detention centers. María initially rejects the anecdote as too painful to believe, clinging to hope that her son is alive. The claim, however, forces her to confront the brutal reality of the regime and fuels her resolve to keep searching.

early 1980s Berlin
9

María returns to Buenos Aires to continue the search

Grasping at any thread of truth, María leaves Berlin and returns to Buenos Aires with renewed determination to uncover Carlos's fate. She refuses to accept silence or death as final and keeps pressing to understand what happened to her son. The city remains a backdrop to a personal crusade that will define her life.

early 1980s Buenos Aires
10

Raquel returns after democracy; Diego's marriage revealed

Following Argentina's return to democracy in 1983, Raquel returns from exile to her homeland. She discovers that Diego is unhappily married, and that María has not accepted the possibility that Carlos might be dead. The reunion with a changed nation mirrors the changes in their own lives.

1983 Argentina
11

Diego's personal life contrasts with María's hope

Diego's marriage is shown to be unhappy, revealing the personal costs of his balancing act between Raquel and public life. María's insistence on the possibility of Carlos's survival challenges their understanding of loss. The emotional landscape remains tense, yet their complex ties endure.

1983 Argentina
12

The bonds endure; friendship remains resilient

Despite separations, exile, and political upheaval, the lifelong friendship between María and Raquel persists. They find strength in shared memories and continued faith that their sons may still be alive or that truth will emerge. The film closes on a note of cautious hope and enduring connection.

post-1983

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