The Ref

The Ref

Year: 1994

Runtime: 97 min

Language: English

Director: Ted Demme

DramaComedyCrime

A seasoned burglar’s meticulously planned heist is thrown into chaos when he’s forced to take refuge in the home of a constantly arguing couple living in suburban Connecticut. The unlikely trio finds themselves in a tense standoff, leading to a hilarious and unexpectedly touching story about family, relationships, and the possibility of second chances. Their lives become unexpectedly intertwined as they navigate a chaotic situation.

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1

Christmas Eve in Connecticut

On a snowy Christmas Eve in the charming town of Connecticut, Dr. Wong began conducting a marriage counseling session for the Chasseur family. This session aimed to unravel the turmoil in their seemingly perfect domestic life, revealing the deep-seated conflicts between Lloyd and Caroline.

Christmas Eve Connecticut
2

Lloyd and Caroline's Conflict

Lloyd and Caroline's 15-year marriage spiraled into deep conflict, primarily due to Caroline's recent infidelity. Their ongoing arguments exposed years of unresolved issues, leaving their son Jesse as a silent observer struggling with his own hidden challenges.

Chasseur Residence
3

Gus's Heist Planning

Amidst the holiday chaos, sharp-witted cat burglar Gus was carefully planning a high-stakes heist at a luxurious mansion. As he executed his plans, he inadvertently triggered an alarm and was soon being chased by an aggressive guard dog, leading to a precarious situation.

Lavish Mansion
4

Hostage Situation Begins

In a twist of fate, Gus unexpectedly came across Lloyd and Caroline at a nearby convenience store. Seizing the opportunity, he took them hostage and coerced them to drive him to their home, all the while their marital discord raged on.

Convenience Store
5

Arrival at the Chasseur Residence

Upon arriving at the Chasseur residence, Gus quickly subdued Lloyd and Caroline. However, their bickering continued, allowing Gus to delve into the couple's complicated relationship dynamics, albeit as an unwilling audience.

Chasseur Residence
6

Gus Contacts Murray

During the hostage situation, Gus managed to reach out to his accomplice Murray via phone, instructing him to secure a getaway boat for their planned escape. Meanwhile, the town's police were actively responding to the unusual rise in criminal activity.

Chasseur Residence
7

Jesse's Return from Military School

Unbeknownst to his family, Jesse decided to leave military school early, harboring secrets of his own related to a blackmail scheme against his commanding officer. His unexpected return threatened to exacerbate the already problematic family dynamics.

Military School
8

Gus Takes Jesse Hostage

In a surprising turn of events, Gus ended up taking Jesse hostage as well. During this tense interaction, Gus delivered a stern lecture to Jesse about the dangers of his choices, challenging him to reconsider his life path.

Chasseur Residence
9

Invasion of Uninvited Guests

As the night unfolded, George arrived unexpectedly at the Chasseur home dressed as Santa, unwittingly adding to the tension. He was soon followed by Lloyd's family, intensifying the already chaotic atmosphere filled with drama and deception.

Chasseur Residence
10

Gus Pretends to be Dr. Wong

To maintain control over the situation, Gus adopted the guise of Dr. Wong, claiming to be a therapist for the family. Meanwhile, Jesse remained upstairs, helplessly witnessing the chaos unfold and the unraveling family dynamics below.

Chasseur Residence
11

Caroline's Infidelity Exposed

The tension reached a boiling point when Rose, the family matriarch, revealed her awareness of Caroline's affair. This revelation sparked explosive confrontations that Gus inadvertently catalyzed by prompting Lloyd to confront the truth about their relationship.

Chasseur Residence
12

Siskel's Arrival Complicates Matters

Just when the situation couldn't get any more chaotic, Siskel arrived, revealing more secrets complicating the family's delicate predicament. Jesse freed himself just in time to discover his parents entangled with his blackmail money, adding to the complications.

Chasseur Residence
13

Moment of Catharsis

In the midst of the turmoil, Gus inadvertently sparked a moment of catharsis for Lloyd and Caroline, allowing them to confront their issues openly. However, just as things seemed to stabilize, a chilling observation from John about 'Grandma Rose eating through her gag' reminded everyone of the precarious nature of family bonds.

Chasseur Residence
14

Decision to Surrender

As the situation settled, Lloyd faced the difficult decision of surrendering and sent Jesse to lead Gus to the docks where Murray awaited. This choice reflected the deep turmoil within the family, exposing the fragility of their reconciliation efforts.

Chasseur Residence
15

The Final Unraveling

After Gus's departure, the couple’s brief moment of unity shattered as they were left to grapple with the pain of Rose’s fate and the burden of their secrets. The night ended in a stark reminder of the lasting impact of a family's unresolved conflicts.

Chasseur Residence

Last Updated: November 17, 2024 at 20:49

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