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Straight Up (2020) Plot Summary Explained

Release, runtime and language
2020 · 95 min · English
Echo score 73
JustWatch #7,893 21
Directed by
James Sweeney
Starring
Randall Park, Tracie Thoms, Betsy Brandt, Brendan Scannell, Dana Drori, Hillary Anne Matthews
Budget
$300K

Todd is a highly articulate and obsessive-compulsive gay man in his twenties, grappling with a fear of dying alone. This fear leads him to question his sexuality, leading him to believe he might not be gay. His life takes an unexpected turn when he meets Rory, a clever and struggling actress who also battles her own insecurities. The two form a unique and engaging relationship characterized by constant conversation but a surprising lack of physical intimacy, as they navigate their individual anxieties and search for connection.

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  1. 1 Where to watch
  2. 2 What happens: full plot
  3. 3 Plot questions answered
  4. 4 Movie threads
  5. 5 Movies like Straight Up
  6. 6 Every angle

Where to watch

Where to Watch Straight Up (2020)

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What Happens in Straight Up: Full Plot Summary

The whole story of Straight Up (2020) explained, from the opening scene to the final frame: every key event, every twist and what it all adds up to. Read it as a quick recap before the sequel, to check a scene you missed, or to finally understand what really happened.

Todd, a twenty-something man from Los Angeles with OCD, struggles in romantic relationships due to a strong aversion to bodily fluids. He likes the men he dates, but aside from an attempt at oral sex, he has never had penetrative sex with them. Eventually he decides to try dating women, and attempts to hook up with a girl after getting drunk with her but freaks out when her hymen breaks. His psychoanalyst, Dr. Larson, Tracie Thoms, wonders if this exploration of sexuality is a good idea, but Todd fears being alone and resolves to continue trying.

While exploring his options, he meets Rory, Katie Findlay, a struggling actress who has trouble emotionally connecting with others, in the self-help section of a library. They immediately take a liking to each other, as they both have the same eccentric sense of humor. Rory Katie Findlay quickly moves in with Todd and joins him on his various house-sitting jobs.

Todd's friends oppose his relationship with Rory as they view it as a manifestation of Todd's internalized homophobia, and frequently undermine the validity of their relationship. Rory agrees to pursue a romantic relationship with him—though sex is off the table. After Todd introduces Rory to his parents, he worries that they might like him more because he's now dating a woman.

At an awkward Christmas party with Todd's friends where they play truth or dare, Rory walks in on Todd in a compromising position with his gay friend and leaves. Rory becomes increasingly unhappy with her life in LA, and decides to move to Seattle. During their break up conversation, Rory says she may want kids (they had previously agreed neither wanted children) and Todd goes into a panic attack.

Some time later Rory has an established office job in Seattle, but still has problems connecting with her coworkers. Todd refuses to date anyone since Rory left. One of Rory's coworkers takes an interest in her, but she realizes they are too different. She calls Todd but hangs up before he can pick up. When she leaves work at the end of the day she finds Todd waiting for her. In an attempt at a grand romantic gesture, Todd proposes, but Rory declines. Todd makes an impassioned plea to her, tells her he loves her, and does not want to be with anyone else.

While Todd and Rory chat over a tile game, another man sits between them to join the conversation, with an intimacy apparently evolving among the trio.

Last updated: January 20, 2026 at 17:12

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Plot questions answered

Straight Up Plot Explained: Your Questions Answered

The questions people ask most about Straight Up (2020): what happens in the confusing scenes, why the characters do what they do, the twists, hidden details and what the ending means. Each answer contains spoilers.

Q1

Why does Todd start dating women after being with men?

Todd's fear of dying alone drives him to question his sexuality. Though he likes the men he dates, he has never been able to have penetrative sex with them due to his aversion to bodily fluids. When his psychoanalyst suggests his exploration of women might be self-destructive, Todd decides to continue because he'd rather try anything than face loneliness.

  • tod sexuality
  • gay
  • dating women
  • fear of being alone
Q2

Why do Todd's friends think his relationship with Rory is internalized homophobia?

Todd's friends believe his attraction to Rory proves he's been repressing his true sexuality. They view the relationship as a way for Todd to appear 'straight' to his family and himself, rather than a genuine connection. This tension exists because Todd himself worries his parents might like him more for dating a woman.

  • internalized homophobia
  • tod's friends
  • rory relationship
Q3

Why does Rory agree to date Todd but not have sex?

Rory has her own struggles with emotional connection and insecurity. She admits to having trouble connecting with others, and both characters share a deep intellectual bond but lack physical intimacy. Their relationship is built on constant conversation and shared humor rather than traditional romance.

  • rory
  • no sex
  • intimacy
  • relationship
Q4

What happens at the Christmas party that makes Rory leave?

During a truth or dare game at Todd's Christmas party, Rory walks in on Todd in a compromising position with his gay friend. This sudden discovery, combined with her existing unhappiness in LA, triggers her decision to leave Todd and move to Seattle.

  • christmas party
  • truth or dare
  • rory leaves
  • gay friend
Q5

Why does Todd propose to Rory in Seattle?

After Rory moves to Seattle, Todd refuses to date anyone and remains isolated in Los Angeles. When Rory calls him but hangs up, Todd travels to Seattle and makes a grand romantic gesture by proposing. When Rory declines, he passionately declares his love for her, showing he wants only her despite their unconventional relationship.

  • proposal
  • seattle
  • love confession
  • romantic gesture
Q6

What does the ending with the three people mean?

The ending shows Todd and Rory playing a tile game in Seattle when another man sits between them, and an intimacy appears to be developing among the three. This ambiguous conclusion hints at a potential polyamorous dynamic, suggesting both characters may be moving toward an unconventional relationship arrangement.

Foreshadowing: Earlier, both Todd and Rory struggle with traditional intimacy, and neither wants children, indicating they're already open to unconventional relationship structures.

  • ending
  • trio
  • polyamorous
  • three people
  • ambiguous
Q7

Why does Rory decide to move to Seattle?

Rory becomes increasingly unhappy with her life in Los Angeles and her relationship with Todd. After walking in on him at the Christmas party, she decides to seek a fresh start in Seattle, hoping to build a life where emotional connections feel possible outside of their complicated relationship.

  • rory moves
  • seattle
  • fresh start
  • los angeles
Q8

Why does Todd freak out when the woman's hymen breaks?

Todd has severe OCD and a strong aversion to bodily fluids. When he attempts to hook up with a woman after getting drunk, the moment her hymen breaks and he encounters blood, his anxiety and OCD trigger a panic response. This event reinforces his difficulty with physical intimacy regardless of gender.

  • hymen
  • panic
  • ocd
  • bodily fluids
Q9

Why does Todd refuse to date anyone after Rory leaves?

After Rory moves to Seattle, Todd isolates himself emotionally and refuses to date anyone. This demonstrates how deeply connected he became to Rory despite their unconventional relationship, showing his commitment to her specifically rather than to any romantic partner.

  • tod refuses to date
  • alone
  • rory breakup
Q10

Why doesn't Rory's coworker work out for her?

Rory reconnects with a coworker in Seattle who takes an interest in her, but she realizes they are too different to form a lasting relationship. This reinforces her ongoing struggle with emotional connection and highlights why she ultimately calls Todd instead.

  • coworker
  • seattle
  • not compatible
  • rory dates

Movie threads

More Movies Like Straight Up, by Mood & Story

Curated lists built around what makes Straight Up tick: the same mood, the same kind of story or the same emotional payoff. Each list explains why these movies belong together.

Witty Romance Without the Physical like in Straight Up

Character-driven stories where intellectual connection replaces physical intimacy. Find movies like Straight Up that explore relationships built on intellectual chemistry over physical intimacy. These films feature sharp dialogue, neurotic characters, and a focus on emotional connection, perfect for viewers seeking romances that challenge conventional storytelling.

  • talkative
  • introspective
  • neurotic
  • unconventional
  • tender
  • anxious
  • Tone: bittersweet, witty
  • Pacing: steady, conversational
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The narrative follows characters who form a deep, often unconventional, bond rooted in conversation and shared neuroses. The central conflict revolves around their internal anxieties and the societal pressure to conform to a traditional romantic or sexual dynamic, leading to a journey of self-discovery about intimacy.

Why they belong together: These films are grouped together because they share a core focus on intellectual and emotional intimacy as the driving force of romance. They balance witty, talk-heavy scripts with a bittersweet tone, exploring themes of loneliness, identity, and the search for connection in a non-traditional format.

Anxious Minds Navigating Intimacy like in Straight Up

Stories about characters grappling with fears of connection. Discover films like Straight Up that delve into the lives of anxious, self-aware characters struggling with intimacy. If you enjoyed the nuanced exploration of OCD and sexuality in Straight Up, you'll find similar thoughtful and character-driven stories here.

  • anxious
  • introspective
  • lonely
  • unconventional
  • tender
  • quirky
  • Tone: bittersweet, introspective
  • Pacing: steady, character-driven
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The narrative pattern focuses on a protagonist grappling with a specific internal struggle that acts as a barrier to intimacy. The plot unfolds through their attempts to connect with others, often leading to unconventional relationships that force them to confront their fears and redefine what connection means for them.

Why they belong together: These movies are united by their deeply character-focused exploration of anxiety and its impact on relationships. They share a moderate pacing that allows for introspection, a medium emotional weight that balances seriousness with humor, and an ambiguous or bittersweet feel reflective of life's complexities.

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