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Every Time We Say Goodbye (1986) Plot Summary Explained

Release, runtime and language
1986 · 95 mins · English
Directed by
Moshé Mizrahi
Starring
Tom Hanks, Cristina Marsillach, Moshe Ivgy, Benedict Taylor, Orna Porat, Anat Atzmon

During World War II, a Protestant pilot stationed in Jerusalem meets a young Jewish woman. Defying the strict social and religious divides of the era, they fall deeply in love, confronting the dangers of war, prejudice, and family expectations that constantly threaten to keep them apart.

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  1. 1 Where to watch
  2. 2 What happens: full plot
  3. 3 Plot questions answered
  4. 4 Movie threads
  5. 5 Movies like Every Time We Say Goodbye
  6. 6 Every angle

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What Happens in Every Time We Say Goodbye: Full Plot Summary

The whole story of Every Time We Say Goodbye (1986) explained, from the opening scene to the final frame: every key event, every twist and what it all adds up to. Read it as a quick recap before the sequel, to check a scene you missed, or to finally understand what really happened.

Lt. David Bradley [Tom Hanks] is an American pilot who joins the Royal Air Force (RAF) before the United States enters World War II. After his North American P-51 Mustang is shot down in North Africa, he recovers from his leg injury in Jerusalem. He is transferred to a boarding house until his leg is fully functional. During his recovery, David meets Sarah Perrara [Cristina Marsillach], a serene girl of Spanish Jewish descent. Her cousin, Victoria [Anat Atzmon], has convinced her young cousin to accompany her as an alibi, as she wants to meet up with her RAF boyfriend, Peter [Benedict Taylor].

Peter and Victoria tell David and Sarah of their upcoming wedding plans. When David is told beforehand, he tries to discourage his friend from making the serious commitment. Sarah does not approve either, reminding Victoria of the problems that it would create for her in the family.

When a drunk Australian serviceman tries to force Sarah to kiss him, her cousin, Nessim [Moni Moshonov], pops out of nowhere to aid her while David knocks him out by breaking his cane over his head. She rushes off, angry that her cousin was watching her. David feigns not knowing Sarah, to protect Victoria and Peter. Nessim, grateful for David's help, invites him for a drink. There, he confesses that he has been in love with Sarah since she was small. She is now 18, so he is hopeful. Nessim invites David to Sabbath dinner so that Sarah can thank him properly.

At the dinner, Sarah Perrara [Cristina Marsillach] sits among Sarah's many Sephardic relatives. The grandmother declares that [Tom Hanks] is a good man who will live a long life. Afterward, Sarah thanks David, for help with both the Australian incident and for maintaining Victoria's secret.

Although Sarah and David are attracted to each other, she is convinced that their diverse backgrounds mean that it could never work, so she refuses to go on a date with him. David tries to formally ask for her family's permission, but they disapprove, mostly because he is the gentile son of a Protestant minister. Soon realizing their disapproval, David makes a quick exit.

David and Sarah next see each other at Peter and Victoria's brief wedding. Although they keep running into each other in the small community, they part as frequently as they meet. They take a walk; when David asks Sarah to definitively tell him whether she wants him to leave her alone, she says yes, but then kisses him on the mouth for the first time.

The next day, as Nessim again speaks of loving her and of their possible future wedding, Sarah implies that she may love someone else. At a boxing match of one of her relatives, she tells him that she is leaving, then connects with David. Going for a walk, they dance briefly and kiss. Needing to see her again, David insists that they meet again, which one of her brothers witnesses. Sarah talks to her grandmother about her dilemma. The older woman senses her turmoil, but cannot offer any advice.

After David and Sarah spend the day together on a day trip out of town, he takes her to his boarding house. They are nearly intimate, but she again backs out. Before he is able to take her home, several of her younger family burst in, knock him out and drag her away.

Sarah is confined to her house, and they confiscate her clothes. A brother helps her sneak out; she goes to David's boarding house, and they spend the night together. Before he awakens, Sarah goes to Nessim's and, despite loving David, asks him to marry her. They make wedding plans while David is away in Egypt. He returns as he had promised, two days before the wedding. Just before he has to return, Sarah catches up to him. She promises that she will wait for him and write. They kiss and he flies away.

Last updated: October 09, 2025 at 14:39

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Plot questions answered

Every Time We Say Goodbye Plot Explained: Your Questions Answered

The questions people ask most about Every Time We Say Goodbye (1986): what happens in the confusing scenes, why the characters do what they do, the twists, hidden details and what the ending means. Each answer contains spoilers.

Q1

Why does Sarah refuse to go on a date with David despite being attracted to him?

Sarah believes their different backgrounds make a future together impossible. She is Sephardic Jewish and David is a gentile Protestant, and she knows her family would never approve. Despite her attraction, she initially refuses to pursue a relationship she views as doomed from the start.

  • Sarah Perrara
  • David Bradley
  • Jewish
  • Protestant
  • interfaith romance
  • family disapproval
Q2

Why does David pretend not to know Sarah after the incident with the Australian serviceman?

David pretends not to know Sarah to protect Victoria and Peter, his friend and Victoria's cousin. If word got out that David was involved in the altercation, it might create a scandal that could harm Victoria's upcoming wedding to Peter, as Sarah's family was already suspicious of the couple's relationship.

  • Victoria
  • Peter
  • scandal
  • wedding
  • protection
  • secret
Q3

Why does Sarah decide to marry Nessim when she clearly loves David?

While Sarah loves David, she feels trapped by her family's strict expectations and cultural pressures. When David is away in Egypt, she chooses to pursue a socially acceptable match with Nessim rather than continue fighting against her family's opposition. It's a decision born of exhaustion and perceived impossibility rather than genuine preference.

  • Nessim
  • marriage
  • family pressure
  • cultural expectations
  • Sarah Perrara
  • David Bradley
Q4

How does Sarah escape from her family's house after being confined?

After Sarah's family confiscates her clothes and confines her to the house to prevent her from seeing David, one of her younger brothers helps her sneak out. She then goes to David's boarding house where they spend the night together, defying her family's restrictions.

  • escape
  • confinement
  • brother
  • clothes
  • boarding house
  • Sarah Perrara
Q5

What is the significance of the Sabbath dinner scene with David's background?

At the Sabbath dinner, David reveals he is the son of a Protestant minister. Interestingly, Sarah's grandmother sees this as a positive sign, declaring he is a good man who will live a long life. This moment is significant because it shows one family member accepting David, even as others disapprove of the relationship.

  • Sabbath dinner
  • grandmother
  • Protestant minister
  • Sephardic family
  • acceptance
  • David Bradley
Q6

Why does Sarah kiss David after telling him to leave her alone at Peter and Victoria's wedding?

When David asks Sarah to definitively tell him whether she wants him to leave her alone, she says yes, but then kisses him on the mouth for the first time. This contradictory action reveals her true feelings despite her verbal refusal, she cannot bring herself to let him go, even as she claims she wants him to leave.

  • kiss
  • wedding
  • Peter
  • Victoria
  • contradictory feelings
  • first kiss
  • Sarah Perrara
Q7

Why does David quickly exit after Sarah's family disapproves of him?

When David formally asks for Sarah's family's permission to pursue her, they disapprove primarily because he is a gentile son of a Protestant minister. Recognizing the depth of their opposition and realizing their relationship has no viable path forward within her community, David makes a quick exit rather than continue to push against insurmountable barriers.

  • permission
  • family
  • disapproval
  • Protestant minister
  • exit
  • David Bradley
  • gentile
Q8

Why do Sarah's younger family members interrupt David and Sarah at the boarding house?

After David and Sarah spend a day trip out of town and return to his boarding house, several of her younger family members burst in, knock David out, and drag Sarah away. This is an attempt by her family to physically prevent their intimacy and further enforce her confinement, showing the extent her family will go to separate them.

  • interruption
  • family
  • boarding house
  • violence
  • separation
  • David Bradley
  • Sarah Perrara
Q9

What happens at the end between Sarah and David?

David returns from Egypt two days before Sarah's wedding to Nessim. She catches up to him just before he has to return to duty. Sarah promises to wait for him and write letters, and they share a tender kiss before he flies away. The ending remains hopeful but uncertain, their future is unresolved, suspended between her promise and the realities of war.

  • wedding
  • promise
  • wait
  • write
  • farewell
  • reunion
  • ending
  • David Bradley
  • Sarah Perrara
  • Nessim
Q10

Why does Nessim want to marry Sarah despite her initial reluctance?

Nessim reveals he has been in love with Sarah since she was small. When she turns 18, he sees his chance to finally pursue a relationship with her. His genuine, long-standing love for Sarah makes him a persistent obstacle to her relationship with David throughout the film.

  • Nessim
  • love
  • childhood
  • marriage
  • Sarah Perrara
  • cousin

Movie threads

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Curated lists built around what makes Every Time We Say Goodbye tick: the same mood, the same kind of story or the same emotional payoff. Each list explains why these movies belong together.

Forbidden wartime romances like Every Time We Say Goodbye

Love stories that bloom amidst the chaos and dangers of war. Find movies like Every Time We Say Goodbye that explore love stories set during wartime. If you enjoyed the tension of a romance defying social norms in a time of conflict, you'll appreciate these similar films about love persevering against all odds.

  • yearning
  • tense
  • romantic
  • dramatic
  • melancholic
  • forbidden romance
  • Tone: bittersweet, tense, romantic
  • Pacing: steady, dramatic
Why these movies?

The story pattern: Stories in this thread typically follow two individuals from different backgrounds who meet during a war. Their love story is accelerated by the high-stakes environment, but constantly threatened by external forces like family disapproval, cultural barriers, and the imminent danger of the conflict itself, leading to a journey of passion and sacrifice.

Why they belong together: Movies are grouped here for their shared core premise: a central romance that is both fueled and threatened by its wartime setting. They share a mood of yearning and tension, blending the grand scale of war with the intimate drama of a forbidden relationship.

Movies about star-crossed lovers against society like Every Time We Say Goodbye

Passionate relationships challenged by rigid social and religious boundaries. Discover more films like Every Time We Say Goodbye featuring couples divided by society. If you liked the story of a Protestant pilot and a Jewish woman fighting prejudice and family duty, explore these similar romantic dramas about love battling against entrenched social norms.

  • forbidden love
  • yearning
  • melancholic
  • dramatic
  • family conflict
  • social prejudice
  • Tone: bittersweet, dramatic, melancholic
  • Pacing: steady, character-driven
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The narrative pattern involves two characters from different worlds—be it religion, social class, or ethnicity—falling in love. Their relationship is not just a private affair but a act of defiance against their families and communities. The plot revolves around the trials they face and the personal sacrifices they must consider to stay together.

Why they belong together: These films are connected by their exploration of love as a rebellion. They share a bittersweet tone and a steady, character-driven pace, prioritizing the emotional weight of societal conflict over action. The mood is consistently one of yearning and melancholic hope.

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