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Every Time We Say Goodbye (1986) Timeline Explained – Every Event in Order

Release, runtime and language
1986 · 95 mins · English
Directed by
Moshé Mizrahi
Starring
Tom Hanks, Cristina Marsillach, Moshe Ivgy, Benedict Taylor, Orna Porat, Anat Atzmon

During World War II, a Protestant pilot stationed in Jerusalem meets a young Jewish woman. Defying the strict social and religious divides of the era, they fall deeply in love, confronting the dangers of war, prejudice, and family expectations that constantly threaten to keep them apart.

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  1. 1 Where to watch
  2. 2 Events in order (16)
  3. 3 Timeline questions answered
  4. 4 Movie threads
  5. 5 Movies like Every Time We Say Goodbye
  6. 6 Every angle

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16 events in order · contains spoilers

Every Time We Say Goodbye Timeline: Events in Chronological Order

Every key event of Every Time We Say Goodbye (1986) in order, scene by scene, with when and where it takes place. Use it to untangle flashbacks, time jumps and parallel storylines, to refresh your memory before the sequel or to find the exact scene you are thinking of.

  1. David joins the RAF before America enters WWII

    Lt. David Bradley, an American pilot, signs up with the Royal Air Force as tensions rise in Europe. He prepares for combat long before the United States will enter the war. This marks the start of his WWII service.

    When
    Pre-US entry WWII
    Where
    RAF bases in Europe
  2. Shot down over North Africa and evacuated to Jerusalem

    David's P-51 Mustang is shot down during a mission over North Africa and he sustains a leg injury. He is airlifted to Jerusalem to recover from his wounds. The injury sidelines him and begins a long convalescence far from the front lines.

    When
    During WWII
    Where
    North Africa; Jerusalem
  3. Recovery in Jerusalem and a fateful meeting

    While recovering, David is transferred to a boarding house in Jerusalem until his leg is fully functional. There he meets Sarah Perrara, a serene Sephardic Jewish woman whose family dynamics complicate their budding connection. The encounter sets the stage for a romance across cultural boundaries.

    When
    During recovery
    Where
    Jerusalem
  4. Wedding plans emerge as Peter and Victoria bond with David and Sarah

    Peter and Victoria share their upcoming wedding plans with David and Sarah, signaling the start of a social entanglement that tests loyalties. The announcements reveal the stakes of the relationship within a tight-knit community. The scene establishes the cross-cultural pressures facing the couple.

    When
    Early in the relationship
    Where
    Jerusalem boarding house
  5. David discourages the engagement; family disapproval looms

    David tries to discourage Peter from committing to Victoria, fearing the complications of their union. Sarah shares concerns about how her family would be affected by such a match. Their caution foreshadows the resistant pressures they will face.

    When
    Around wedding planning
    Where
    Jerusalem boarding house
  6. An assault on Sarah; Nessim intervenes; David intervenes

    A drunk Australian serviceman forces himself on Sarah, prompting Nessim to step in. David retaliates by breaking the aggressor's cane and knocking him out, sparing Sarah but leaving the powerful undercurrent of protective tension unresolved.

    When
    During recovery
    Where
    Boarding house vicinity
  7. David feigns not knowing Sarah; Sabbath dinner invitation

    To protect Victoria and Peter from scandal, David pretends not to know Sarah. Nessim, grateful for his aid, invites David to a Sabbath dinner where Sarah's family can thank him. Tensions rise as old loyalties and new passions collide.

    When
    Following the incident
    Where
    Nessim's home
  8. Sabbath dinner with Sarah's Sephardic relatives

    At the Sabbath dinner, Sarah's Sephardic relatives pepper David with questions about his background. He reveals that he is a minister's son, a detail the grandmother praises as a sign of a good, long life. Sarah expresses gratitude for his help and presence.

    When
    During Sabbath dinner
    Where
    Nessim's home / Sarah's family gathering
  9. Religious and cultural barriers threaten the romance

    Despite their mutual attraction, Sarah believes their different backgrounds make a future together impossible. David seeks his family's permission to pursue her, but disapproval from her community and his own faith background complicates any path forward. He exits, signaling the social obstacles ahead.

    When
    After Sabbath dinner
    Where
    Sephardic community in Jerusalem
  10. Peter and Victoria's wedding; a painful moment of resolve

    David and Sarah attend Peter and Victoria's wedding. They take a walk together, and when David asks whether she wants him to leave her alone, he is told yes. She then kisses him for the first time, marking a silent, bittersweet acknowledgment of their bond.

    When
    Shortly after the dinner
    Where
    Wedding venue, Jerusalem
  11. Nessim's confession; a potential alternative future

    The next day Nessim reiterates his love for Sarah and imagines a possible future wedding. Sarah hints that she may love someone else, intensifying the emotional tension and leaving her future uncertain.

    When
    Following Peter/Victoria wedding
    Where
    Jerusalem
  12. A boxing match and a pivotal change of plans

    During a boxing match among Sarah's relatives, she tells Nessim that she is leaving him. She then reconnects with David and they share a renewed moment of closeness as they walk together. The encounter deepens the conflict between duty and desire.

    When
    Shortly after Nessim's confession
    Where
    Jerusalem
  13. A day out of town and a disruptive interruption

    David and Sarah spend a day trip out of town, enjoying a rare moment of privacy. Just as they grow closer, younger family members burst in, knock David out, and drag Sarah away, disrupting their fragile intimacy.

    When
    After the walk
    Where
    Out of town
  14. Confinement, escape, and a sleepless night

    Back in Jerusalem, Sarah is confined to her house and her clothes are confiscated. A brother helps her slip out and she goes to David's boarding house, where they spend the night together. The romance persists despite the social barriers.

    When
    Following the escape
    Where
    Sarah's home; David's boarding house
  15. Nessim's marriage plans and David's Egyptian absence

    Sarah decides to seek Nessim's hand and they begin wedding plans while David is away in Egypt. The arrangement underscores the competing paths available to her and the distances that separate her from David.

    When
    While David is in Egypt
    Where
    Jerusalem / Nessim's home
  16. David's return and the final farewell

    David returns two days before the wedding, but time is short. Sarah catches up to him, pledging that she will wait and write, and they share a tender kiss before he flies away. The future remains unresolved, suspended between duty, love, and circumstance.

    When
    Just before the wedding
    Where
    Airfield / Jerusalem

Last updated: October 09, 2025 at 14:39

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Timeline questions answered

Every Time We Say Goodbye Timeline Explained: Your Questions Answered

When does it happen, and why in that order? The questions people ask about the chronology of Every Time We Say Goodbye (1986): time jumps, flashbacks, cause and effect between scenes and the correct order of events, each answered with spoilers.

Q1

Why does Sarah refuse to go on a date with David despite being attracted to him?

Sarah believes their different backgrounds make a future together impossible. She is Sephardic Jewish and David is a gentile Protestant, and she knows her family would never approve. Despite her attraction, she initially refuses to pursue a relationship she views as doomed from the start.

  • Sarah Perrara
  • David Bradley
  • Jewish
  • Protestant
  • interfaith romance
  • family disapproval
Q2

Why does David pretend not to know Sarah after the incident with the Australian serviceman?

David pretends not to know Sarah to protect Victoria and Peter, his friend and Victoria's cousin. If word got out that David was involved in the altercation, it might create a scandal that could harm Victoria's upcoming wedding to Peter, as Sarah's family was already suspicious of the couple's relationship.

  • Victoria
  • Peter
  • scandal
  • wedding
  • protection
  • secret
Q3

Why does Sarah decide to marry Nessim when she clearly loves David?

While Sarah loves David, she feels trapped by her family's strict expectations and cultural pressures. When David is away in Egypt, she chooses to pursue a socially acceptable match with Nessim rather than continue fighting against her family's opposition. It's a decision born of exhaustion and perceived impossibility rather than genuine preference.

  • Nessim
  • marriage
  • family pressure
  • cultural expectations
  • Sarah Perrara
  • David Bradley
Q4

How does Sarah escape from her family's house after being confined?

After Sarah's family confiscates her clothes and confines her to the house to prevent her from seeing David, one of her younger brothers helps her sneak out. She then goes to David's boarding house where they spend the night together, defying her family's restrictions.

  • escape
  • confinement
  • brother
  • clothes
  • boarding house
  • Sarah Perrara
Q5

What is the significance of the Sabbath dinner scene with David's background?

At the Sabbath dinner, David reveals he is the son of a Protestant minister. Interestingly, Sarah's grandmother sees this as a positive sign, declaring he is a good man who will live a long life. This moment is significant because it shows one family member accepting David, even as others disapprove of the relationship.

  • Sabbath dinner
  • grandmother
  • Protestant minister
  • Sephardic family
  • acceptance
  • David Bradley
Q6

Why does Sarah kiss David after telling him to leave her alone at Peter and Victoria's wedding?

When David asks Sarah to definitively tell him whether she wants him to leave her alone, she says yes, but then kisses him on the mouth for the first time. This contradictory action reveals her true feelings despite her verbal refusal, she cannot bring herself to let him go, even as she claims she wants him to leave.

  • kiss
  • wedding
  • Peter
  • Victoria
  • contradictory feelings
  • first kiss
  • Sarah Perrara
Q7

Why does David quickly exit after Sarah's family disapproves of him?

When David formally asks for Sarah's family's permission to pursue her, they disapprove primarily because he is a gentile son of a Protestant minister. Recognizing the depth of their opposition and realizing their relationship has no viable path forward within her community, David makes a quick exit rather than continue to push against insurmountable barriers.

  • permission
  • family
  • disapproval
  • Protestant minister
  • exit
  • David Bradley
  • gentile
Q8

Why do Sarah's younger family members interrupt David and Sarah at the boarding house?

After David and Sarah spend a day trip out of town and return to his boarding house, several of her younger family members burst in, knock David out, and drag Sarah away. This is an attempt by her family to physically prevent their intimacy and further enforce her confinement, showing the extent her family will go to separate them.

  • interruption
  • family
  • boarding house
  • violence
  • separation
  • David Bradley
  • Sarah Perrara
Q9

What happens at the end between Sarah and David?

David returns from Egypt two days before Sarah's wedding to Nessim. She catches up to him just before he has to return to duty. Sarah promises to wait for him and write letters, and they share a tender kiss before he flies away. The ending remains hopeful but uncertain, their future is unresolved, suspended between her promise and the realities of war.

  • wedding
  • promise
  • wait
  • write
  • farewell
  • reunion
  • ending
  • David Bradley
  • Sarah Perrara
  • Nessim
Q10

Why does Nessim want to marry Sarah despite her initial reluctance?

Nessim reveals he has been in love with Sarah since she was small. When she turns 18, he sees his chance to finally pursue a relationship with her. His genuine, long-standing love for Sarah makes him a persistent obstacle to her relationship with David throughout the film.

  • Nessim
  • love
  • childhood
  • marriage
  • Sarah Perrara
  • cousin

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Love stories that bloom amidst the chaos and dangers of war. Find movies like Every Time We Say Goodbye that explore love stories set during wartime. If you enjoyed the tension of a romance defying social norms in a time of conflict, you'll appreciate these similar films about love persevering against all odds.

  • yearning
  • tense
  • romantic
  • dramatic
  • melancholic
  • forbidden romance
  • Tone: bittersweet, tense, romantic
  • Pacing: steady, dramatic
Why these movies?

The story pattern: Stories in this thread typically follow two individuals from different backgrounds who meet during a war. Their love story is accelerated by the high-stakes environment, but constantly threatened by external forces like family disapproval, cultural barriers, and the imminent danger of the conflict itself, leading to a journey of passion and sacrifice.

Why they belong together: Movies are grouped here for their shared core premise: a central romance that is both fueled and threatened by its wartime setting. They share a mood of yearning and tension, blending the grand scale of war with the intimate drama of a forbidden relationship.

Movies about star-crossed lovers against society like Every Time We Say Goodbye

Passionate relationships challenged by rigid social and religious boundaries. Discover more films like Every Time We Say Goodbye featuring couples divided by society. If you liked the story of a Protestant pilot and a Jewish woman fighting prejudice and family duty, explore these similar romantic dramas about love battling against entrenched social norms.

  • forbidden love
  • yearning
  • melancholic
  • dramatic
  • family conflict
  • social prejudice
  • Tone: bittersweet, dramatic, melancholic
  • Pacing: steady, character-driven
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The narrative pattern involves two characters from different worlds—be it religion, social class, or ethnicity—falling in love. Their relationship is not just a private affair but a act of defiance against their families and communities. The plot revolves around the trials they face and the personal sacrifices they must consider to stay together.

Why they belong together: These films are connected by their exploration of love as a rebellion. They share a bittersweet tone and a steady, character-driven pace, prioritizing the emotional weight of societal conflict over action. The mood is consistently one of yearning and melancholic hope.

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