Torture Me But Kill Me with Kisses

Torture Me But Kill Me with Kisses

Year: 1968

Runtime: 104 mins

Language: Italian

Director: Dino Risi

Comedy

Marino travels to Rome for an event and unexpectedly meets Marisa, who becomes his great love. Their romance is tested by his disapproving father, the father’s death, and gossip that convinces Marino she has been unfaithful, causing her to flee. Remorseful, he searches and, by chance, finds her again, even confronting a deaf‑mute husband, proving love can survive any obstacle.

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1

First meeting in Rome

Marino and Marisa meet for the first time during a folklore festival in Rome. Marino chats her up politely, but Marisa shows little interest and keeps her distance, setting the tone for their rocky dynamic.

During a folklore festival Rome
2

Marino arrives in Sacrofante Marche and begins courting Marisa

A year later, Marino arrives in Sacrofante Marche and finds work as a barber. He begins courting Marisa with quiet persistence, and the pair slowly falls in love and talks of a future together, while Marisa's father disapproves.

Later that year Sacrofante Marche
3

Father's disapproval and obstacles

Marino and Marisa's hopes are challenged by Marisa's father's stern disapproval, which casts a shadow over their plans. The couple clings to the dream of a shared life despite the social obstacle.

Early in their relationship Sacrofante Marche
4

Desperate suicide attempt on the rails

Desperate, they lie on railroad tracks hoping to escape their troubles, a scene that tests their resolve. The train conductor's quick scolding interrupts the act and drives home the danger of their passion.

During a period of despair Railroad near Sacrofante Marche
5

Marisa's father's death

Providence seems to tilt in their favor when Marisa's father dies of natural causes, lifting his veto on their union. The loss opens the door to a brighter future and renewed hope.

Later that year Sacrofante Marche
6

Jealous landlady sows doubt

The landlady's accusation fuels Marino's jealousy, and he confronts Marisa. Heartbroken, Marisa decides to leave for Rome.

Shortly after his father's death Sacrofante Marche
7

Marisa moves to Rome; Marino searches

In Rome, Marisa seeks new work while Marino, penniless, tries to follow but ends up wandering the streets as he searches for her. His pride sinks as he confronts the distance between them.

After Marisa's departure Rome
8

Marisa finds work with Umberto Ciceri

In Rome, Marisa finds employment with Umberto Ciceri, a deaf and mute tailor. His kindness helps heal her from heartbreak and gives her a new sense of hope.

After settling in Rome Rome
9

Marino's New Year suicide attempt and rescue

Marino hits rock bottom and resolves to end his life by jumping into the Tiber on New Year. He is saved by a man named Mr Okay and is taken to the hospital for treatment.

New Year Tiber River, Rome; hospital
10

Marisa visits the hospital

Marisa visits Marino in the hospital after reading about his suicide attempt. She reveals that she has become Mrs. Ciceri, having married her employer. The revelation stings, as she still cares for him but cannot be with him.

Shortly after the hospital admission Hospital, Rome
11

Bedmate helps win the lottery

In the hospital, a bedmate turns Marino's misfortunes into a scheme around lottery numbers, and they win when the lottery payoff comes through. The sudden wealth changes Marino's outlook.

After hospital stay Hospital
12

Marino rich and arrogant in Umberto's lab

Some time later, Marisa finds Marino in her husband Umberto's tailor laboratory, now rich and somewhat arrogant. He seeks to toy with Marisa again, while Umberto remains kind despite his deafness.

Sometime later Umberto's tailor lab
13

Rekindled love and plan to kill Umberto

Marisa and Marino's love is rekindled, but she remains married to Umberto. They hatch an evil plan to kill Umberto so they can be together.

After rekindling Umberto's lab
14

Gas explosion backfires; Umberto vows monkhood

A disguised gas explosion fails to kill Umberto, who regains his voice and hearing. He explains that he had vowed to become a monk if he ever recovered his senses, and he blesses their union.

During the murder attempt Umberto's lab
15

Blessing and reunion

With Umberto's blessing, Marisa and Marino can finally be together. The obstacles of marriage and misunderstanding are resolved, and their future appears secured.

After the confession Umberto's blessing

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Q1

Why do Marino and Marisa attempt suicide on the railroad tracks?

A.

Desperate to escape the obstacles keeping them apart, primarily Marisa's father's stern disapproval of their relationship, Marino and Marisa lie on the railroad tracks in a moment of reckless impulsiveness. The act is driven by fear, longing, and a sense that their love has no viable path forward. A train conductor's stern scolding interrupts their plan and reminds them of the fragility of life.

Their earlier desperation stems from Marisa's father's open opposition, which casts a long shadow over their hopes for a shared future.

suicide attemptrailroaddesperate loveMarisa's father disapproval
Q2

Why does Marisa marry Umberto Ciceri?

A.

After fleeing to Rome following the painful misunderstanding with Marino, Marisa takes on various temporary jobs and eventually finds work with Umberto Ciceri, a deaf and mute tailor. His quiet kindness, patience, and practical decency offer her comfort and stability after the trauma of her separation. She marries him not out of passion, but out of gratitude and the need for security.

Earlier, the summary notes that Umberto's steady presence contrasts with the upheavals of her past, providing the foundation for their relationship.

Marisa marries Umbertodeaf tailorcomfort after heartbreak
Q3

Why does Marino confront Marisa about Guido Scortichini?

A.

A jealous landlady who fancies Marino resentfully suggests that Marisa spent a night with Guido Scortichini, a man in their social orbit. The rumor inflames Marino's jealousy, and despite the lack of any solid evidence, he confronts Marisa directly. Heartbroken by his distrust, Marisa leaves him and heads to Rome, ending their relationship at that time.

The landlady's motive is established early: she resents Marisa's place in Marino's life and uses insinuation to drive them apart.

Guido Scortichinijealous landladyrumorMarino jealousy
Q4

How does Marino become wealthy after the lottery win?

A.

While hospitalized after his New Year's suicide attempt, Marino shares a bed with a fellow patient who helps him devise a lottery number scheme. Their shared moment of luck leads to a lottery payoff, transforming Marino from penniless wanderer to wealthy man. This sudden wealth changes his demeanor and gives him the confidence to reenter Marisa's life.

The summary notes that Marino hits rock bottom before this turn of fortune, making the lottery win a dramatic reversal of his circumstances.

lottery winMarino wealthhospital bedmate
Q5

Why do Marino and Marisa plan to kill Umberto?

A.

After rekindling their love while Marisa remains married to Umberto, Marino and Marisa devise a plan to remove Umberto from their path. They stage a gas explosion in Umberto's tailor workshop, hoping the accident will kill him so they can finally be together without the obstacle of her marriage. The plan represents the story's darkest moment, where desperation overrides morality.

The presence of Umberto, kind, patient, and loyal, has complicated their rekindled passion throughout this section of the story.

gas explosionmurder plotUmberto Ciceri
Q6

How does Umberto survive the gas explosion and regain his hearing?

A.

The gas explosion fails to kill Umberto in a dramatic reversal of luck. More remarkably, he regains his ability to hear and speak, miraculously recovering senses he lost before. He explains that he had made a vow on his mother's deathbed: if he ever regained his senses, he would become a monk. This vow ultimately reframes the trio's relationships.

The plan backfires precisely when Umberto's fortunes change most dramatically, setting up the film's final twist.

gas explosionUmberto recovers hearingmonk vow
Q7

Why does Umberto bless Marino and Marisa's relationship?

A.

After surviving the murder attempt and revealing his monk vow, Umberto chooses to bless their union rather than seek revenge. His decision stems from his vow made on his mother's deathbed, if he regained his senses, he would become a monk. By blessing them, he honors his own path toward religious devotion while freeing Marisa to be with Marino. His kindness persists even after their betrayal.

Umberto has consistently been characterized as patient, generous, and soft-hearted throughout the narrative.

Umberto blessingmonk vowsacrificeforgiveness
Q8

What happens to Marino on New Year's Eve in Rome?

A.

After months of searching for Marisa in Rome, ending up penniless and despondent, Marino hits rock bottom and decides to end his life by leaping into the Tiber River from the Cavour Bridge on New Year's Eve. A figure named Mr. Okay intervenes, saving him and bringing him to a hospital. This rescue marks a turning point from despair to fragile hope.

The summary establishes Marino's desperate state after his fruitless search, making this suicide attempt the logical culmination of his despair.

New Year's suicideTiber riverMr. Okay rescue
Q9

Why does Marisa's father oppose their relationship?

A.

Marisa's father is openly opposed to her relationship with Marino, viewing the barber as an unsuitable match for his daughter. This stern disapproval casts a long shadow over their budding romance and represents the class and family obstacles they must overcome. His death later removes this key barrier to their union.

The opposition establishes the social constraints that drive the couple toward desperate measures.

Marisa father disapprovalclass obstaclefamily opposition
Q10

How does Marino eventually find Marisa in Rome?

A.

After discovering the landlady's lie about Marisa's infidelity, Marino begins a frantic, frustrating hunt through Rome, following scattered clues but finding no solid lead. His search ends with no clear resolution in the summary text, it's only later, when he becomes wealthy, that he finds her again at Umberto's tailor workshop. The earlier search establishes his desperation and the difficulty of finding someone in the vast city.

The search represents Marino's lowest point before his fortunes change with the lottery win.

Marino searches Romefinding Marisapenniless search
Q11

Why does Marino become arrogant after winning the lottery?

A.

After his sudden wealth from the lottery win, Marino returns to Marisa's life with a new sense of confidence and entitlement. He seeks to toy with her again, displaying arrogance rather than humility for his past failures. This changed demeanor tests the boundaries of their relationship and creates tension when he encounters Umberto in his own workshop.

The lottery win is described as changing Marino's outlook, elevating his self-possession in ways that complicate reconciliation.

Marino arrogancelottery wealthreborn confidence
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