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Torture Me But Kill Me with Kisses (1968) Timeline Explained – Every Event in Order

Release, runtime and language
1968 · 104 mins · Italian
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Directed by
Dino Risi
Starring
Livio Lorenzon, Ugo Tognazzi, Pamela Tiffin, Nino Manfredi, Checco Durante, Moira Orfei

Marino travels to Rome for an event and unexpectedly meets Marisa, who becomes his great love. Their romance is tested by his disapproving father, the father’s death, and gossip that convinces Marino she has been unfaithful, causing her to flee. Remorseful, he searches and, by chance, finds her again, even confronting a deaf‑mute husband, proving love can survive any obstacle.

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  1. 1 Where to watch
  2. 2 Events in order (15)
  3. 3 Timeline questions answered
  4. 4 Movie threads
  5. 5 Movies like Torture Me But Kill Me with Kisses
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15 events in order · contains spoilers

Torture Me But Kill Me with Kisses Timeline: Events in Chronological Order

Every key event of Torture Me But Kill Me with Kisses (1968) in order, scene by scene, with when and where it takes place. Use it to untangle flashbacks, time jumps and parallel storylines, to refresh your memory before the sequel or to find the exact scene you are thinking of.

  1. First meeting in Rome

    Marino and Marisa meet for the first time during a folklore festival in Rome. Marino chats her up politely, but Marisa shows little interest and keeps her distance, setting the tone for their rocky dynamic.

    When
    During a folklore festival
    Where
    Rome
  2. Marino arrives in Sacrofante Marche and begins courting Marisa

    A year later, Marino arrives in Sacrofante Marche and finds work as a barber. He begins courting Marisa with quiet persistence, and the pair slowly falls in love and talks of a future together, while Marisa's father disapproves.

    When
    Later that year
    Where
    Sacrofante Marche
  3. Father's disapproval and obstacles

    Marino and Marisa's hopes are challenged by Marisa's father's stern disapproval, which casts a shadow over their plans. The couple clings to the dream of a shared life despite the social obstacle.

    When
    Early in their relationship
    Where
    Sacrofante Marche
  4. Desperate suicide attempt on the rails

    Desperate, they lie on railroad tracks hoping to escape their troubles, a scene that tests their resolve. The train conductor's quick scolding interrupts the act and drives home the danger of their passion.

    When
    During a period of despair
    Where
    Railroad near Sacrofante Marche
  5. Marisa's father's death

    Providence seems to tilt in their favor when Marisa's father dies of natural causes, lifting his veto on their union. The loss opens the door to a brighter future and renewed hope.

    When
    Later that year
    Where
    Sacrofante Marche
  6. Jealous landlady sows doubt

    The landlady's accusation fuels Marino's jealousy, and he confronts Marisa. Heartbroken, Marisa decides to leave for Rome.

    When
    Shortly after his father's death
    Where
    Sacrofante Marche
  7. Marisa moves to Rome; Marino searches

    In Rome, Marisa seeks new work while Marino, penniless, tries to follow but ends up wandering the streets as he searches for her. His pride sinks as he confronts the distance between them.

    When
    After Marisa's departure
    Where
    Rome
  8. Marisa finds work with Umberto Ciceri

    In Rome, Marisa finds employment with Umberto Ciceri, a deaf and mute tailor. His kindness helps heal her from heartbreak and gives her a new sense of hope.

    When
    After settling in Rome
    Where
    Rome
  9. Marino's New Year suicide attempt and rescue

    Marino hits rock bottom and resolves to end his life by jumping into the Tiber on New Year. He is saved by a man named Mr Okay and is taken to the hospital for treatment.

    When
    New Year
    Where
    Tiber River, Rome; hospital
  10. Marisa visits the hospital

    Marisa visits Marino in the hospital after reading about his suicide attempt. She reveals that she has become Mrs. Ciceri, having married her employer. The revelation stings, as she still cares for him but cannot be with him.

    When
    Shortly after the hospital admission
    Where
    Hospital, Rome
  11. Bedmate helps win the lottery

    In the hospital, a bedmate turns Marino's misfortunes into a scheme around lottery numbers, and they win when the lottery payoff comes through. The sudden wealth changes Marino's outlook.

    When
    After hospital stay
    Where
    Hospital
  12. Marino rich and arrogant in Umberto's lab

    Some time later, Marisa finds Marino in her husband Umberto's tailor laboratory, now rich and somewhat arrogant. He seeks to toy with Marisa again, while Umberto remains kind despite his deafness.

    When
    Sometime later
    Where
    Umberto's tailor lab
  13. Rekindled love and plan to kill Umberto

    Marisa and Marino's love is rekindled, but she remains married to Umberto. They hatch an evil plan to kill Umberto so they can be together.

    When
    After rekindling
    Where
    Umberto's lab
  14. Gas explosion backfires; Umberto vows monkhood

    A disguised gas explosion fails to kill Umberto, who regains his voice and hearing. He explains that he had vowed to become a monk if he ever recovered his senses, and he blesses their union.

    When
    During the murder attempt
    Where
    Umberto's lab
  15. Blessing and reunion

    With Umberto's blessing, Marisa and Marino can finally be together. The obstacles of marriage and misunderstanding are resolved, and their future appears secured.

    When
    After the confession
    Where
    Umberto's blessing

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Torture Me But Kill Me with Kisses Timeline Explained: Your Questions Answered

When does it happen, and why in that order? The questions people ask about the chronology of Torture Me But Kill Me with Kisses (1968): time jumps, flashbacks, cause and effect between scenes and the correct order of events, each answered with spoilers.

Q1

Why do Marino and Marisa attempt suicide on the railroad tracks?

Desperate to escape the obstacles keeping them apart, primarily Marisa's father's stern disapproval of their relationship, Marino and Marisa lie on the railroad tracks in a moment of reckless impulsiveness. The act is driven by fear, longing, and a sense that their love has no viable path forward. A train conductor's stern scolding interrupts their plan and reminds them of the fragility of life.

Foreshadowing: Their earlier desperation stems from Marisa's father's open opposition, which casts a long shadow over their hopes for a shared future.

  • suicide attempt
  • railroad
  • desperate love
  • Marisa's father disapproval
Q2

Why does Marisa marry Umberto Ciceri?

After fleeing to Rome following the painful misunderstanding with Marino, Marisa takes on various temporary jobs and eventually finds work with Umberto Ciceri, a deaf and mute tailor. His quiet kindness, patience, and practical decency offer her comfort and stability after the trauma of her separation. She marries him not out of passion, but out of gratitude and the need for security.

Foreshadowing: Earlier, the summary notes that Umberto's steady presence contrasts with the upheavals of her past, providing the foundation for their relationship.

  • Marisa marries Umberto
  • deaf tailor
  • comfort after heartbreak
Q3

Why does Marino confront Marisa about Guido Scortichini?

A jealous landlady who fancies Marino resentfully suggests that Marisa spent a night with Guido Scortichini, a man in their social orbit. The rumor inflames Marino's jealousy, and despite the lack of any solid evidence, he confronts Marisa directly. Heartbroken by his distrust, Marisa leaves him and heads to Rome, ending their relationship at that time.

Foreshadowing: The landlady's motive is established early: she resents Marisa's place in Marino's life and uses insinuation to drive them apart.

  • Guido Scortichini
  • jealous landlady
  • rumor
  • Marino jealousy
Q4

How does Marino become wealthy after the lottery win?

While hospitalized after his New Year's suicide attempt, Marino shares a bed with a fellow patient who helps him devise a lottery number scheme. Their shared moment of luck leads to a lottery payoff, transforming Marino from penniless wanderer to wealthy man. This sudden wealth changes his demeanor and gives him the confidence to reenter Marisa's life.

Foreshadowing: The summary notes that Marino hits rock bottom before this turn of fortune, making the lottery win a dramatic reversal of his circumstances.

  • lottery win
  • Marino wealth
  • hospital bedmate
Q5

Why do Marino and Marisa plan to kill Umberto?

After rekindling their love while Marisa remains married to Umberto, Marino and Marisa devise a plan to remove Umberto from their path. They stage a gas explosion in Umberto's tailor workshop, hoping the accident will kill him so they can finally be together without the obstacle of her marriage. The plan represents the story's darkest moment, where desperation overrides morality.

Foreshadowing: The presence of Umberto, kind, patient, and loyal, has complicated their rekindled passion throughout this section of the story.

  • gas explosion
  • murder plot
  • Umberto Ciceri
Q6

How does Umberto survive the gas explosion and regain his hearing?

The gas explosion fails to kill Umberto in a dramatic reversal of luck. More remarkably, he regains his ability to hear and speak, miraculously recovering senses he lost before. He explains that he had made a vow on his mother's deathbed: if he ever regained his senses, he would become a monk. This vow ultimately reframes the trio's relationships.

Foreshadowing: The plan backfires precisely when Umberto's fortunes change most dramatically, setting up the film's final twist.

  • gas explosion
  • Umberto recovers hearing
  • monk vow
Q7

Why does Umberto bless Marino and Marisa's relationship?

After surviving the murder attempt and revealing his monk vow, Umberto chooses to bless their union rather than seek revenge. His decision stems from his vow made on his mother's deathbed, if he regained his senses, he would become a monk. By blessing them, he honors his own path toward religious devotion while freeing Marisa to be with Marino. His kindness persists even after their betrayal.

Foreshadowing: Umberto has consistently been characterized as patient, generous, and soft-hearted throughout the narrative.

  • Umberto blessing
  • monk vow
  • sacrifice
  • forgiveness
Q8

What happens to Marino on New Year's Eve in Rome?

After months of searching for Marisa in Rome, ending up penniless and despondent, Marino hits rock bottom and decides to end his life by leaping into the Tiber River from the Cavour Bridge on New Year's Eve. A figure named Mr. Okay intervenes, saving him and bringing him to a hospital. This rescue marks a turning point from despair to fragile hope.

Foreshadowing: The summary establishes Marino's desperate state after his fruitless search, making this suicide attempt the logical culmination of his despair.

  • New Year's suicide
  • Tiber river
  • Mr. Okay rescue
Q9

Why does Marisa's father oppose their relationship?

Marisa's father is openly opposed to her relationship with Marino, viewing the barber as an unsuitable match for his daughter. This stern disapproval casts a long shadow over their budding romance and represents the class and family obstacles they must overcome. His death later removes this key barrier to their union.

Foreshadowing: The opposition establishes the social constraints that drive the couple toward desperate measures.

  • Marisa father disapproval
  • class obstacle
  • family opposition
Q10

How does Marino eventually find Marisa in Rome?

After discovering the landlady's lie about Marisa's infidelity, Marino begins a frantic, frustrating hunt through Rome, following scattered clues but finding no solid lead. His search ends with no clear resolution in the summary text, it's only later, when he becomes wealthy, that he finds her again at Umberto's tailor workshop. The earlier search establishes his desperation and the difficulty of finding someone in the vast city.

Foreshadowing: The search represents Marino's lowest point before his fortunes change with the lottery win.

  • Marino searches Rome
  • finding Marisa
  • penniless search
Q11

Why does Marino become arrogant after winning the lottery?

After his sudden wealth from the lottery win, Marino returns to Marisa's life with a new sense of confidence and entitlement. He seeks to toy with her again, displaying arrogance rather than humility for his past failures. This changed demeanor tests the boundaries of their relationship and creates tension when he encounters Umberto in his own workshop.

Foreshadowing: The lottery win is described as changing Marino's outlook, elevating his self-possession in ways that complicate reconciliation.

  • Marino arrogance
  • lottery wealth
  • reborn confidence

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  • romantic
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  • yearning
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  • hopeful
  • nostalgic
  • Tone: bittersweet, dramatic, hopeful
  • Pacing: steady, character-driven
Why these movies?

The story pattern: These narratives typically follow a couple's intense romance that is immediately or gradually threatened by significant obstacles—often a combination of family disapproval, class differences, and damaging miscommunication. The story arc involves a painful separation, a period of longing and personal growth, and culminates in a fate-driven reunion that proves the enduring power of love, albeit often with scars.

Why they belong together: Movies are grouped here because they share a core focus on a central romantic relationship subjected to severe melodramatic trials. They balance heartwarming connection with heartbreaking drama, resulting in a bittersweet emotional tone and a pacing that allows the weight of separation and the joy of rediscovery to resonate deeply.

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  • bittersweet
  • melancholic
  • hopeful
  • dramatic
  • yearning
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  • Tone: bittersweet, melancholic, humane
  • Pacing: steady, patient
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The narrative pattern involves characters pursuing a central goal, typically love or connection, which is met with a series of realistic and often harsh setbacks. The journey is as important as the destination, focusing on personal growth through adversity. The conclusion acknowledges the pain endured while finding a glimmer of hope, resulting in an ending that feels true to the struggles faced.

Why they belong together: These films are grouped by their shared ability to blend light and dark emotions seamlessly. They avoid being overly saccharine or utterly bleak, instead presenting a nuanced view of life where love survives but not without cost, and endings provide closure that is hopeful yet realistically tempered by past sorrows.

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