The Messenger

The Messenger

Year: 2009

Runtime: 113 min

Language: Polish

Director: Oren Moverman

Budget: $6.5M

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Returning from deployment in Iraq, soldier Will Montgomery is assigned to the difficult task of notifying families of fallen soldiers. Partnered with Tony Stone, he carries the heavy responsibility of delivering these life-altering notifications. While navigating his mission, Will seeks comfort back home, but his emotional state is challenged when he meets Olivia, a woman grappling with her own profound loss. Through his experiences, the film explores themes of grief, resilience, and the enduring power of human connection.

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1

Will returns home on leave from Iraq

Will Montgomery returns on leave from the Iraq War, carrying a commendation for his heroism. Yet he is haunted by PTSD and a chronic left-eye injury that reminds him of combat. He struggles with what comes next and clings to the memory of his fiancée, Kelly, even though she is engaged to someone else.

Pre-discharge Home
2

Casualty notification training with Captain Stone

Will is dispatched as a casualty notification officer, paired with Captain Tony Stone who mentors him. Stone explains the protocol—no hugging, no fraternizing, and strict professional boundaries. Will begins to grasp the gravity of delivering devastating news and enforcing military decorum.

On assignment Military base
3

First casualty call to grieving family

Their first report to a bereaved family ends in chaos as the mother and the deceased's fiancée react in tears. The mother slaps Stone, illustrating the raw, immediate pain that accompanies military losses. Will realizes the limits of protocol when faced with real heartbreak.

Early in assignment Family home
4

Dale Martin confrontation

The team visits Dale Martin, a man who angrily hurls objects at Will. The confrontation underscores the volatility surrounding casualty notifications. Stone remains composed while Will grapples with the hostility.

Day 1-2 Dale Martin's home
5

Visit to a secretly married enlisted woman

They visit a woman who secretly married an enlisted man, hinting at the hidden lives behind casualties. The encounter adds a personal layer to the tragedy, showing the emotional aftermath in ordinary people. Will listens as the family explains their complex situation.

Early assignment Private home
6

Translator delivers tragic news to a Mexican man

A Mexican man receives the news of his daughter's death through a translator. The scene highlights the cultural and linguistic barriers faced by families receiving casualty reports. Will observes the translator's careful delivery and the family's quiet devastation.

During first rounds Community center/translator's setup
7

Mall encounter with Olivia and rescue of a recruiter fight

In the mall, Will sees Olivia with her young son and breaks up a fight with Army recruiters. He offers Olivia a ride home and later helps fix her car, forming a quiet bond. This connection begins to pull Will toward a life beyond the casualty-work routine.

Same day as initial rounds Mall
8

Will's anger at Kelly voicemail

Will receives a voicemail from Kelly about her upcoming wedding and storms around the house, punching a hole in the wall. The outburst reveals the depth of his unresolved longing and the fragility of his emotional control. Tony watches, sensing the widening rift between duty and longing.

Evening after mall encounter Will's apartment
9

Olivia's confession and Will's restraint

Will comforts Olivia as she moves belongings and reveals more about her husband’s abuse toward her and her son. When Will tries to get physically closer, Olivia hesitates, explaining her fear and pain. Despite the tension, their care for each other deepens.

Evening after previous Olivia's house
10

Grocery store confrontation and Will defies Stone

In a grocery store, Stone berates Will for becoming emotionally involved with the families. Will pushes back, calling Stone by his first name to challenge his authority. The moment marks a turning point in their mentor-mentee dynamics.

Following Olivia arc Grocery store
11

Lakeside cabin and the push-pull of desire

Will and Tony retreat to a lakeside cabin for a few days. Stone brings two women; he pressures Will to join in, but Will declines. The trip intensifies their bond while illustrating different coping methods.

During leave Lakeside cabin
12

Wedding reception disruption

They attend Kelly's wedding reception, becoming intoxicated and creating a scene during the toasts. The event underscores Will's unresolved love and the unsteady line between professional duty and personal pain. Tony's presence adds complexity to his relationship with Will.

Evening during the wedding Kelly's wedding reception
13

Parking lot wake-up and reconciliation

The two men play-fight in a parking lot and wake up after having passed out. Dale later apologizes to Will and Tony for his earlier rants. The sequence provides a uneasy sense of camaraderie amid the tension.

Following the wedding night Parking lot
14

Revealing the Iraqi friend and contemplating suicide

Back at Will's apartment, Will confesses to Tony about a friend who died in Iraq and an eye injury that left him scarred. He admits that at one point he contemplated suicide but found resolve at sunrise. Tony breaks down in tears, revealing his own vulnerability.

Night after previous Will's apartment
15

Olivia's move and Will's possible path forward

The next day, Will meets Olivia as she loads her belongings and tells him she is moving to Louisiana with her son. He tells her he is considering staying in the Army and asks for her new address, hoping for a future. Olivia asks him to come inside to write it down, leaving their future open.

Next day Olivia's house and then Will's apartment

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