In Lieu of Flowers

In Lieu of Flowers

Year: 2013

Runtime: 90 mins

Language: English

Director: William Savage

DramaRomanceComedy

Most love stories are about losing love or finding it. This is a story about what happens in between.

Melancholic
Unclear ending
Moderately emotional
Low intensity
Slow pacing
Moderate complexity

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Timeline & Setting – In Lieu of Flowers (2013)

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Location

Sag Harbor, NY, New York City, NY

The film unfolds across a windy Long Island coast in Sag Harbor and scenes inside the city, anchored by a memorial at a church. Beach moments and small-town routines contrast with urban encounters, highlighting the characters' emotional journeys. The settings function as quiet backdrops to grief, connection, and secrecy.

🌊 Coastal 🏙️ Urban 🗺️ Setting

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Main Characters – In Lieu of Flowers (2013)

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Eric (Josh Pence)

A lethargic, grieving man who channels pain into relentless running. He struggles to move past Gretchen, avoids discussing his past with others, and is drawn to the Lazarus Lives support group as a way to find footing in life again.

💔 Grief 🏃 Runner 🗝️ Denial

Rachel Austin (Spencer Grammer)

An elementary school teacher carrying her own quiet grief after her husband’s death. She moves through her days with a stubborn resilience, hosts an engagement party, and forms a tentative connection with Eric that tests her boundaries.

💔 Grief 👩‍🏫 Teacher 🌊 Resilience

Gretchen (Bonnie Swencionis)

Eric’s late girlfriend whose memory lingers in his mind and conversation. Her absence is felt through flashbacks and the sense that her choices affected Eric's current life.

💔 Lost Love 🌫️ Memory

Tony (Nate Corddry)

Eric's roommate and friend who challenges him to reveal the truth about Gretchen. He provides blunt, sometimes skeptical, support as Eric navigates his feelings and future.

🤝 Friend 💬 Frankness 🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Support

Dr. Rice (Tom Bloom)

A dermatologist who reveals that Eric’s recent skin growths stem from an STD. He also has a personal connection to Rachel, as the doctor’s daughter appears in the story without Eric realizing it.

⚕️ Doctor 🩺 Medical

Carrie (Melissa Rauch)

A person who leaves a voicemail for Eric asking him to pick up his things from Gretchen’s apartment, signaling the practical, unsettling reminders of loss that punctuate Eric’s days.

☎️ Voicemail 🕊️ Support

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Major Themes – In Lieu of Flowers (2013)

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🕊️ Grief & Healing

The narrative centers on two people navigating loss after a partner’s death. Eric and Rachel attend a bereavement support group, sharing memories and silences that reveal the slow, non-linear path toward acceptance.

💔 Love & Loss

Romantic impulses collide with unresolved pasts as Eric’s grief affects his new connection with Rachel. The story explores how sorrow reshapes desire, trust, and the possibility of rebuilding a life with someone new.

⚕️ Secrets & Truths

Hidden pasts and fragile disclosures shape the evolving relationships. Eric’s evasions about Gretchen and the revelation that Rachel is connected to the doctor create tensions that test honesty and trust.

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