Annie Hargrove, played by Cameron Diaz, is a thirty-something blogger who begins her latest post with a provocative question about the first time their partner saw them completely undressed. She reflects on the passionate early years she shared with her boyfriend, Jay, portrayed by Jason Segel, when their intimacy knew no bounds, often occurring in public or less-than-ideal situations. Their wild love life took a turn when Annie became pregnant, leading to their marriage and the arrival of their two children. As parenthood sets in, the spark of their romantic connection dims, leaving even Annie hesitant at the sight of her husband unclothed. She wonders loudly how they can reignite the passion that once defined their relationship.
Fast forward to the present, and Annie and Jay are navigating the chaos of parenting their mischievous son Clive and their youngest daughter Nell. The couple's stagnant home life is apparent, even to their children. When Jay heads to his job at a radio station, he confides in his friend Max about the peculiar nature of their relationship and discusses their intimate exchanges, which include him sending Annie explicit pictures. A comedic twist occurs when Jay receives two iPads from their assistant, which he ends up giving away, not realizing the chaos that will stem from that decision.
Annie’s ambitions lead her to a meeting with Hank Rosenbaum, a future collaborator from the Piper Brother company, played by Rob Lowe. Despite the candid content of her blog, including mentions of their private life, Hank shows keen interest in hiring her. To celebrate an upcoming opportunity, Annie calls her mother, Linda, to babysit for Clive and Nell, hoping to reclaim some adult time with Jay. She surprises him with a playful outfit, but their attempts at rekindling the romance prove futile and clumsy.
In a moment of wild spontaneity after some tequila, the couple decides to film their own intimate video, following inspiration from the book "The Joy of Sex." Their lighthearted fun turns to panic the next day when Jay receives a text suggesting that their leaked sex tape has been disseminated. The couple hastily realizes they share the same iPads as their friends and family, igniting a frantic race against time to retrieve all the devices.
Their first stop is their friend Robby, played by Rob Corddry, and his wife Tess, who end up embroiling themselves in the couple’s madcap mission to recover the tape. The situation escalates humorously as they confront various people who have unwittingly accessed the tape, including the bumbling Hank, all while their lives become further intertwined with mischief and misunderstandings.
The anxiety peaks when they find themselves in a mad dash to the electronic headquarters of YouPorn to delete the video, culminating in a whirlwind of chaotic antics including a brush with the site’s manager, humorously played by Jack Black. After a series of unforeseen events, they agree to destroy the tape for good. However, just as they seem to regain control, their son Clive presents a video at his graduation that sends Jay spiraling into panic about the old tape surfacing once again.
Through all the blending of comedy and poignant moments, the couple finds themselves reassessing their love and partnership while navigating the trials and tribulations of modern parenting. They ultimately learn that perhaps the most intimate aspects of their relationship are worth preserving—albeit minus the explicit details. In the end, they rediscover their love while sharing laughter, and even a touch of embarrassment, managing to reclaim the joy they once had together.
