Men Don’t Tell

Men Don’t Tell

Year: 1993

Runtime: 95 mins

Language: English

Director: Harry Winer

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This movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible–the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.

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Ed MacAffrey, a loving husband and father, is terrorized by the violent behavior of his wife Laura MacAffrey. He tolerates this not only because he loves her and is concerned over the welfare of his children, but also because men are traditionally regarded as weaklings if they allow themselves to be battered by their wives. After one of [Laura MacAffrey]’s destructive tantrums draws the attention of the police, Ed is suspected of being the aggressor.

Not long after, [Laura MacAffrey] goes too far when she physically assaults the couple’s young daughter, Cindy (who did nothing more than tell Laura to stop yelling), and Ed intervenes to protect her — whereupon [Laura MacAffrey] crashes through the front window of her home and is rendered comatose. As a result, Ed is arrested for domestic violence and attempted murder.

As he is interrogated, he recounts years of abuse and explains how he once tried to seek help by calling a domestic violence hotline, only to be scorned and hung up on. The interrogation lasts all night, conducted by highly skeptical police. Meanwhile, his children have been taken to the home of his father, Jack MacAffrey, a retired police officer, to spend the night. In the morning, Cindy, who had kept silent for years due to humiliation and shame, asks her grandfather if her mother was in trouble. This shocks [Jack MacAffrey], who asks why she would think her mother could be in trouble. She responds with a chilling line about the abuse: she says, “For being so mean to Daddy all the time, and yelling, and breaking things, and hitting us and stuff.”

Shock sweeps over [Jack MacAffrey], and he brings Cindy to the police station, where she tells the arresting officers everything. Ed is released from custody, while [Laura MacAffrey] herself is charged with assault and battery.

Not long after [Laura MacAffrey] awakens from the coma, Ed serves as best man for the wedding of his best friend, Chuck. After delivering his toast, Ed is approached by Laura, who learns that he and the kids have moved in with Jack, and she tries to justify her past behavior. He makes it clear that his priority is protecting their children, even if it means confronting a painful truth. When confronted with what he will tell others about the split, he responds with quiet resolve and steps away.

“the truth”

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