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I Give My First Love to You (2009) Timeline Explained – Every Event in Order

Release, runtime and language
2009 · 122 mins · Japanese
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Directed by
Takehiko Shinjo
Starring
Masaki Okada, Masataka Kubota, Yôko Moriguchi, Tetta Sugimoto, Mao Inoue, Sea Kumada

Takuma knows his remaining time is tragically short and senses his death drawing near. To protect the girl he loves, he intentionally withdraws, believing that letting go will allow her to move forward with ease. He doesn’t realize, however, that she is far stronger and more determined than he gives her credit for.

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  1. 1 Where to watch
  2. 2 Events in order (13)
  3. 3 Timeline questions answered
  4. 4 Movie threads
  5. 5 Movies like I Give My First Love to You
  6. 6 Every angle
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13 events in order · contains spoilers

I Give My First Love to You Timeline: Events in Chronological Order

Every key event of I Give My First Love to You (2009) in order, scene by scene, with when and where it takes place. Use it to untangle flashbacks, time jumps and parallel storylines, to refresh your memory before the sequel or to find the exact scene you are thinking of.

  1. Childhood friendship and a fateful vow

    Mayu and Takuma become friends at age eight. Takuma suffers from a heart condition and is treated by Mayu's father, a cardiologist. They overhear that Takuma may not live past twenty, and they vow to marry when they turn twenty.

    When
    Age eight
    Where
    Hospital/clinic
  2. A plan to distance himself

    As years pass, Takuma learns his days may be numbered and resolves to distance himself from Mayu after his last day of junior high. He hopes to spare her pain by stepping away and pursues a future elsewhere.

    When
    End of junior high
    Where
    Town
  3. High school debut and a heated confrontation

    Mayu enters an elite high school and shines as the first-year student body representative. In the school hall, she scolds Takuma, insisting that his plan to abandon her cannot succeed. Their relationship becomes a visible, whispered romance among the students.

    When
    Early high school
    Where
    Elite high school hall
  4. Lovers recognized at school

    Despite his intention to withdraw, Mayu and Takuma’s bond remains strong, and they are soon known around the school as a couple. They share quiet moments that reinforce their commitment. The school community watches their romance with a mix of awe and tension.

    When
    Early high school
    Where
    High school grounds
  5. Kou's interest and Teru's arrival

    Kou confesses interest in Mayu and asks her to be his girlfriend, but she declines. Meanwhile Takuma meets Teru, another heart patient, and Mayu grows jealous as Teru spends more time with Takuma.

    When
    Mid high school
    Where
    School; hospital visits
  6. Kou, Teru, and a dying wish

    Kou asks Takuma to step aside, but Takuma refuses. To honor Teru's dying wish, Takuma shares a kiss with Teru, which triggers a temporary rift between him and Mayu. Their bond endures despite the tension.

    When
    During Teru's illness
    Where
    Hospital
  7. Teru's death and its impact

    The day after the kiss, Teru dies, leaving Takuma shaken and more determined to protect Mayu's happiness. He carries Teru's memory as a quiet weight. Mayu's jealousy softens in the wake of Teru's loss.

    When
    The day after Teru's kiss
    Where
    Hospital
  8. A race and a train tragedy

    Takuma challenges Kou to a 100-meter race and wins, sparking a renewed rivalry. On the same day, Kou leaves the school with Mayu and Takuma and is struck by an oncoming train. The accident profoundly alters the course of their lives.

    When
    Same day as the race
    Where
    School track / railway crossing
  9. The donor twist and a family's decision

    Takuma learns there is a suitable donor heart available. Mayu discovers the donor is brain-dead Kou and tries to shield Takuma from the truth. Kou's family, moved by tears, refuses the donation, hoping for a miracle instead.

    When
    Shortly after the train incident
    Where
    Hospital
  10. A heart attack and a miraculous reprieve

    Takuma suffers a heart attack and medical odds look bleak. In a miraculous moment, he prays for more time and unexpectedly recovers. He later takes Mayu on a honeymoon across various places to celebrate life.

    When
    After the donor-related events
    Where
    Hospital, then various places
  11. The will and the field moment

    During the honeymoon, Takuma expresses gratitude and happiness with life, handing Mayu his written 'will.' They revisit the field where they first kissed to mark the moment and seal their renewed bond.

    When
    End of honeymoon
    Where
    Field; various places
  12. The final heart ache

    Back at the hospital, Takuma suffers another heart attack and dies despite the doctors' best efforts. Mayu is left to cope with the loss and the weight of their shared promise.

    When
    Immediately after the field moment
    Where
    Hospital
  13. A wedding with the urn and a circular memory

    Mayu reads Takuma's final letter on the hospital rooftop, then goes to a church with his urn to perform a symbolic wedding. The ending flashes back to the first moment they met in the hospital when they were eight, completing the circle of their story.

    When
    After his death
    Where
    Rooftop; church

Last updated: October 05, 2025 at 12:09

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Timeline questions answered

I Give My First Love to You Timeline Explained: Your Questions Answered

When does it happen, and why in that order? The questions people ask about the chronology of I Give My First Love to You (2009): time jumps, flashbacks, cause and effect between scenes and the correct order of events, each answered with spoilers.

Q1

Why does Takuma try to distance himself from Mayu?

Takuma knows from childhood that his heart condition may cause him to die before turning twenty. Believing his time is limited, he tries to push Mayu away at the end of junior high because he wants to spare her the pain of loving someone who will die young. He hopes that if he distances himself, she can move on easily and build a future without him.

Foreshadowing: As children, they overhear doctors say Takuma may not live past twenty, planting the seed of his sacrifice.

  • takuma
  • mayu
  • heart condition
  • sacrifice
  • push away
Q2

How does Mayu end up at the same elite high school as Takuma?

Takuma plans to attend an elite high school thinking Mayu cannot enter such a prestigious institution. However, Mayu works hard and succeeds in passing the entrance exam, even becoming the first-year student body representative. When she confronts him in the school hall, she proves she will not be pushed away and refuses to let his plan succeed.

Foreshadowing: Their childhood vow to marry at twenty shows Mayu's determination to stay in Takuma's life.

  • mayu
  • elite high school
  • student representative
  • determination
Q3

Who is Teru and why does Takuma kiss her?

Teru Uehara is another heart patient who reconnects with Takuma at the hospital. She has the same terminal heart condition and is dying. Before she passes away, Teru makes a final wish to experience her first kiss. Takuma honors this dying wish and kisses her, which causes temporary tension with Mayu despite understanding Teru's circumstances.

Foreshadowing: Takuma meeting another patient with his condition foreshadows the reality of his own fate.

  • teru
  • heart patient
  • dying wish
  • kiss
  • hospital
Q4

What happens to Kou and why is his death significant?

Kou Suzuya is a classmate who expresses interest in Mayu and asks Takuma to step aside. After Takuma wins a 100-meter race against him, Kou leaves school alongside Mayu and Takuma but is struck by an oncoming train at a railway crossing. His death is tragic but becomes crucial because he is registered as an organ donor, potentially giving Takuma a chance at life through a heart transplant.

Foreshadowing: Kou's earlier suggestion that Takuma give Mayu to him hints at his unresolved feelings.

  • kou
  • train accident
  • death
  • donor
  • heart transplant
Q5

Why does Mayu hide that Kou is the heart donor?

After Kou becomes brain-dead from the train accident, Mayu discovers he is the donor heart available for Takuma. She chooses to hide this information because she knows Takuma would never accept a heart from someone he considers a rival or potential threat to their relationship. She wants to spare him the emotional burden of knowing his potential savior is Kou.

Foreshadowing: Mayu's protective nature throughout the film explains her decision to shield Takuma from painful truths.

  • mayu
  • donor
  • kou
  • hide truth
  • heart transplant
Q6

Why does Takuma initially refuse the heart transplant?

Takuma eventually learns the donor heart comes from Kou and refuses the transplant. He cannot accept an organ from someone who pursued his girlfriend and whom he viewes as a rival. Additionally, Takuma has made peace with his fate and believes he should not take another person's heart, especially from someone whose family might still be grieving.

Foreshadowing: Kou's family's initial refusal reflects the same moral conflict Takuma experiences.

  • takuma
  • refuse transplant
  • kou
  • heart
  • donation
Q7

Why does Kou's family initially refuse the donation?

Despite Kou being registered as an organ donor, his family initially refuses to allow the heart transplant when they learn the recipient is Takuma. They are moved to tears seeing Kou's emotional attachment to Mayu and hope for a miracle that might save him. Their refusal comes from grief and inability to accept Kou's death so suddenly, even though he had previously chosen to be a donor.

Foreshadowing: Kou's registered donor status shows his generous nature, contrasting with his family's initial reaction.

  • kou family
  • refuse donation
  • grief
  • organ donor
Q8

How does Takuma survive his first heart attack?

After refusing the transplant and suffering a severe heart attack, doctors give Takuma very slim chances of recovery. In a poignant moment of faith and will to live, Takuma prays for even a little more time. Miraculously, he pulls through and recovers, which allows him to spend precious additional time with Mayu before eventually returning to the hospital.

Foreshadowing: The film establishes Takuma's resilience and the power of his love as central themes.

  • takuma
  • heart attack
  • survive
  • miracle
  • recovery
Q9

What is the significance of the will Takuma gives Mayu?

During their honeymoon trips, Takuma gives Mayu a handwritten will he wrote when they were eight years old. This document represents his lifelong commitment and his acceptance of his fate. By passing it to Mayu, he ensures his love and wishes remain with her, symbolizing that even from childhood, he intended to leave everything to her.

Foreshadowing: The will connects back to their childhood vow made at age eight in the hospital.

  • will
  • handwritten
  • childhood
  • love
  • honeymoon
Q10

Why does Mayu have a symbolic wedding with Takuma's urn?

After Takuma dies from a second heart attack, Mayu reads his final letter on the hospital rooftop. She then takes his urn to a church to perform a symbolic wedding, fulfilling the promise they made as children to marry when they turn twenty. This act represents her commitment to their vow and her way of honoring their love even after his death.

Foreshadowing: The childhood vow to marry at twenty directly leads to this final act of devotion.

  • mayu
  • wedding
  • urn
  • promise
  • symbolic
  • church
Q11

What does the final flashback reveal about their story?

The film ends with a flashback to when Takuma and Mayu first met at age eight in the hospital. This circular structure emphasizes how their entire relationship began with his heart condition and how their love developed from that initial meeting. The ending reinforces the film's meditation on love, memory, and the fragile nature of life.

Foreshadowing: The opening scene establishes the hospital as the place where their story begins and ultimately concludes.

  • flashback
  • childhood
  • hospital
  • first meeting
  • memory
Q12

What changes Kou's family's mind about the donation?

After initially refusing, Kou's family eventually allows the heart transplant. Moved by signs of emotion they see in Kou, perhaps through his interactions with Mayu and his apparent feelings for her, they reconsider and honor his registered donor wish. This decision reflects their recognition of Kou's generous nature and their acceptance that his death can give life to another.

Foreshadowing: The family's change of heart parallels Takuma's own journey toward accepting survival.

  • kou family
  • change mind
  • donation
  • heart transplant

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