Dad, I’m Sorry

Dad, I’m Sorry

Year: 2021

Runtime: 128 mins

Language: Vietnamese

Director: Vũ Ngọc Đãng

Echo Score: 65
DramaComedyFamily

This film follows Ba Sang, the second of four siblings, as he consistently intervenes in the lives of his family. Known for his meddling ways and overly kind nature, Ba Sang often makes sacrifices for his relatives, whether they desire them or not. The story also introduces Quan, Ba Sang's son, a modern young man who's a YouTuber. The narrative explores the dynamics within this family and the impact of Ba Sang's actions on those around him.

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In a crowded, hard‑scrabble corner of Saigon, a man named Ba Sang holds his family together as a single father, raising two kids while navigating the pressures of debt, loyalty, and love. His older son, Quắn, is a young, ambitious content creator who makes a living from YouTube views and has a soft spot for collecting fancy branded items, a habit that rubs some relatives the wrong way. Living nearby is Cẩm Lệ, a warmhearted woman who runs a tailor shop and who often lends a hand to Sang’s little clan. The neighborhood is also watched over by Hai Giàu, a formidable matriarch whose words carry weight and whose presence looms over family decisions. Tension, drama, and small acts of kindness intertwine as everyday life in this close-knit block unfolds.

During a party celebrating her son Bình Lợi’s promotion, [Hai Giàu] speaks sharply in a way that unsettles Quắn, revealing how fragile relationships can be when money and reputation are at stake. The night spirals as Út Quý appears drunk and a heated confrontation leads to a broken bottle crashing down on [Ba Sang]’s head, setting off a chain of consequences that will test every bond in the family. After that incident, the trio of late-night dramas continues: the next day, Sang and Bù Tọt visit Tư Phú’s home for a drink, where thím Ánh challenges Sang’s decision to take care of Bù Tọt, stirring up old arguments and shifting loyalties. Nearby, [Cẩm Lệ] keeps watch, offering guidance but also frustration as the situation grows more complicated. The family’s fragile harmony is underlined when [Hai Giàu] reminds Sang to settle a debt and even suggests selling the house, pushing Sang toward a tough choice that could change everything.

To help in a moment of need, Quắn brings a stack of money to satisfy the demanding creditors, hoping to shield his father from ruin. Yet life grows more precarious when loan sharks return at midnight, dragging [Út Quý] to Sang’s doorstep with threats that push the family to their limit. Sang manages to scrape together ₫10 million, but the shadow of debt lingers over every decision they make. A few days later, Bình Lợi gently nudges Quắn toward buying an apartment to make a fresh start, sparking a quiet disagreement about what “moving up” really means for a family whose fortunes have always hung by a thread.

The first day in the new apartment becomes a flashpoint: a family gathering reveals a rift as Quắn suspects [Út Quý] of stealing ₫30 million, triggering a clash with Aunt Ánh and [Hai Giàu]. The tension shows how quickly trust can erode when money, pride, and fatigue collide. In the midst of these scrapes, a woman arrives claiming to be Bù Tọt’s biological mother, and online rumors explode when she postulates that [Quắn] and Bù Tọt share a child. The public scandal forces Quắn to confront the real cost of fame, and Sang’s world abruptly shifts as he contemplates selling the house to cover the fallout. He uses part of the proceeds to comfort [Cẩm Lệ] with a pair of earrings, a gesture that reveals the tenderness beneath the friction.

As the pieces of the family puzzle fall into disarray, Quắn discovers the harsh truth: Sang’s health is failing, diagnosed as end‑stage kidney failure, and a life‑saving transplant becomes a desperate option. Quắn, torn between love and career, offers to donate his own kidney to his father, but Sang, grappling with heart disease, resists the idea. In a moment of resolve, [Út Quý] returns to the scene, determined to help in whatever way he can, and agrees to donate a kidney to Sang. Just before the surgery, Sang confesses his feelings to [Cẩm Lệ], who responds with quiet, unwavering support. The plan to save Sang hinges on a risky transplant, a decision that tests the family’s loyalty to each other and to the truth they’ve kept hidden.

Tragedy strikes when a group of strangers ambushes [Út Quý], ending his chance to give Sang life. The revelation escalates into a bitter argument between Quắn and Sang over the kidney transplant, forcing Sang to leave home and take refuge in a pagoda as he wrestles with the fear of leaving his family behind. As he prepares for the end, Sang buys a coffin and records a memorial photo, a poignant ritual that echoes the reality that time is finite for parents and children alike.

Meanwhile, Quắn raises Bù Tọt on his own, while continuing to run his YouTube channel and seeking forgiveness from his father in the only way he knows how: by speaking to the world. On a live broadcast, Quắn opens up about his family, sharing his regrets, and offers his first public apology to [Ba Sang] in a moment that reaches viewers and touches the heart of the man he loves most. The moment is heard across the phone screen, and Sang—moved by his son’s honesty—decides to return for the transplant. The operation, however, proves unsuccessful, and [Ba Sang] does not survive. In the wake of the loss, Quắn and Bù Tọt learn to navigate life together in a world forever altered by his father’s absence.

The film closes on a note of enduring love and hard‑won wisdom: a reminder that time with parents is precious and finite. In a final reflection on the fragility and beauty of family, the closing line lands with quiet power:

“We have a lot of time, but our parents do not, choose to love while you still can!”

Last Updated: November 29, 2025 at 00:47

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