My Family

My Family

Year: 1995

Runtime: 128 mins

Language: English

Director: Gregory Nava

ComedyDrama

Spanning three generations, the film follows an immigrant family that settles in East Los Angeles. Maria and Jose arrive in the 1930s, marry and battle deportation before raising children Chucho, Paco, Memo, Irene, Toni and Jimmy, who confront 1950s youth culture and police harassment. In the 1960s the story centers on Jimmy, his marriage to Salvadoran refugee Isabel, their son, and Jimmy’s effort to become a responsible parent.

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1

José's year-long journey to Los Angeles and a new ally

José Sánchez undertakes a year-long journey on foot from Mexico to Los Angeles. On the road he forms a fast friendship with El Californio, a man born in what was then Mexico. The two men settle together and build a corn farm on the outskirts of Los Angeles.

one-year journey Mexico to Los Angeles; El Californio's farm near Los Angeles
2

El Californio's death and tombstone vow

El Californio nears death and asks that his tombstone carry a lasting reminder of his homeland. He shares in José the idea that, although borders change, the land remains Mexico where his body lies. José promises to honor that wish as a testament to memory and place.

years after meeting El Californio's farm near Los Angeles
3

José marries María, the American citizen

José meets María, an American citizen, and they fall in love. They marry and begin a life together in Los Angeles, bridging two cultures. María's status marks the family's ongoing connection to both sides of the border.

after meeting El Californio Los Angeles
4

María deported and returns with Chucho two years later

María is deported during a mass roundup by the U.S. government. She endures a long, arduous journey to return, finally arriving two years later with their newborn son, Chucho. The family must endure a painful separation and an emotional reunion.

two years after deportation Los Angeles / border
5

1958/1959: Irene's wedding and the growing family

Twenty years pass, and Irene is getting married in the late 1950s. Chucho and Paco are grown, and new relatives Toni, Memo, and Jimmy have joined the family. The wedding signals a shift in family dynamics as the next generation steps forward.

1958/1959 Los Angeles
6

Chucho's knife fight with Butch Mejia

At a dance hall, Chucho is taunted by rival Butch Mejia. A bloody knife fight erupts, and Chucho kills Butch in the melee. The incident forces Chucho into a fugitive existence from the police.

the night of the fight Dance hall, Los Angeles
7

Chucho is shot dead by the LAPD

Chucho is shot dead by the Los Angeles Police Department in front of Jimmy. The ambulance arrives as the family rushes to the scene. Paco narrates that Chucho's life had always seemed to be lived on borrowed time.

shortly after the fight On the street in Los Angeles
8

Jimmy's return from prison and his violent past

Jimmy completes a prison sentence and returns home, but his years behind bars have hardened him. It is revealed that after Chucho's death twenty years earlier, he became a fugitive, carrying anger and a sense of grievance. The family begins to see the toll of his past on subsequent generations.

late 1950s–1960s Los Angeles
9

The third generation faces acculturation in the 70s and 80s

Across the 1970s and 1980s, the third generation confronts acculturation and family history. Memo grows up to become a lawyer and pursues a relationship with Karen from Bel-Air. The ongoing tension between tradition and assimilation tests the family bonds.

1970s–1980s Los Angeles
10

Toni and David Ronconi marry and aid refugees

Toni and David Ronconi marry, and they devote themselves to helping political refugees. Their activism brings the family into contact with Isabel, a Salvadoran refugee in danger of deportation. The couple's partnership widens the Sanchez circle to grassroots aid.

late 1970s–1980s Los Angeles
11

Isabel's pregnancy and Carlitos's birth, followed by tragedy

Isabel becomes pregnant but dies after giving birth to Carlitos. Jimmy blames the attending doctor and is arrested, beginning a new chapter of consequences for the family. Carlitos is left to be raised by José and María.

birth and aftermath Los Angeles
12

Jimmy's release and the early rift with Carlitos

Four years later, Jimmy is released from prison and hopes to care for his son. However, Carlitos resents him, thinking his real father is a Texas cowboy. The rift highlights the enduring struggles of belonging and family legacy.

four years after Isabel's death Los Angeles
13

Memo's life and a tense family reunion

Memo's life as a lawyer and engagement to Karen from Bel-Air underscores the clash of cultures. The first family meeting between Memo and Jimmy's world starts well but soon spirals into tension. Memo challenges Jimmy's past and helps push the family toward a new path.

late 1970s–1980s Bel-Air / Los Angeles
14

Reform and a new start in Texas

Jimmy makes a decisive choice to reform. Carlitos eventually accepts him, and they move to Texas where Jimmy has a solid manufacturing job in San Antonio. The move symbolizes a fresh start and the continuity of family ties across borders.

late 1980s–1990s San Antonio, Texas
15

The ending: reflection and a view over Los Angeles

Jose and Maria reflect on the long arc of their lives and acknowledge how luck and faith shaped their family. The film ends with a panoramic shot of Los Angeles as they look back. The legacy of resilience and immigration threads through the generations.

final scene Los Angeles

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