Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?

Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?

Year: 2017

Runtime: 25 mins

Language: English

Director: Jacob Turrentine

DramaThriller

In 1966, fifteen-year-old Connie experiences a typical summer until a mysterious stranger named Arnold Friend disrupts her life. While her family is out, Arnold’s persistent and unsettling attention throws Connie's world into disarray. As he manipulates her with flattery and false promises, she finds herself in a disturbing encounter that challenges her understanding of danger and control. The film explores themes of adolescence, vulnerability, and the unsettling nature of predatory behavior.

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1

Connie's home life and self-consciousness

Connie is a self-conscious 15-year-old living with a jealous, appearance-obsessed mother and a distant, busy father. The mother constantly compares her to her plain, hardworking sister, fueling Connie's sense of insecurity. This tense family dynamic forms the backdrop for Connie's yearning for independence and excitement.

Connie's home
2

Outing with friends to mall and drive-in

Connie enjoys going out with friends to the mall and to a drive-in restaurant where older kids hang out. She savors the feeling of being alive and connected to youth culture. This day sets the stage for her encounter with Arnold.

Daytime Mall and drive-in restaurant
3

First sighting of Arnold Friend

While at the drive-in, Connie first sees Arnold Friend, a stranger in a gold convertible covered with cryptic writing. He targets her, muttering 'Gonna get you, baby' as she turns away. The unsettling impression he leaves foreshadows the danger to come.

Daytime Drive-in parking lot
4

Sunday barbecue and Connie's solitude

A while later, Connie's family goes to a Sunday barbecue, leaving her home alone. She relishes the solitude, listening to music and savoring the feeling of simply being alive. The house becomes a stage for what will unfold next.

Sunday afternoon Connie's home
5

Arnold arrives at the driveway

A car pulls up on the driveway and Arnold Friend arrives, inviting Connie to come along with him and a friend. He asserts that her family won't be home for a while, signaling a breach of safety and privacy. Connie is initially unsure, sensing something off.

Sunday afternoon Connie's driveway
6

Age uncertainty and his bold claims

Connie asks how old he is; he deflects, finally claiming he is 18, though she suspects he could be much older. He says he has been asking around about her, and that her family’s absence makes the ride possible. This exchange heightens Connie's fear and doubt.

Sunday afternoon Driveway
7

Lover declaration and threat of departure

Arnold declares he is her lover and refuses to leave until she agrees to come with him. He makes it clear that resistance will have consequences and that she should come with him. Connie tells the men to leave and threatens to call the police, but the danger keeps growing.

Sunday afternoon Driveway
8

Inside the house, a failed call for help

Connie retreats inside her house and tries to call the police, but a strange 'wailing' overwhelms her and prevents her from dialing. The ominous voices outside persist, closing the gap between safety and harm. The moment marks a turning point where fear overrides action.

Evening Inside Connie's house
9

Threats escalate and fear tightens grip

Arnold repeats his threats, implying he would hurt Connie's family if she refuses to go with him. He uses a calm, menacing tone to blur the line between coercion and romance. The tension tightens as Connie feels trapped.

Evening Driveway
10

Connie feels overwhelmed and yields

Overwhelmed with emotion, Connie stops resisting and seems to surrender to the situation. She begins to accept what is coming rather than fighting back. The submission is chilling, underscoring the predatory nature of Arnold's manipulation.

Evening Front of house/ Driveway
11

Connie steps into the car

Connie finally exits the house and approaches the waiting car with Arnold and his friend. She feels nothing as she steps into the vehicle, her sense of self dulled by fear and coercion. The scene marks the turning point from concern to a literal abduction.

Evening Driveway
12

The ride begins and the danger deepens

Connie climbs into the gold convertible and joins the two men, stepping into a new world of danger. The car and Arnold's unsettling calm convey the looming threat, while the cryptic writings on the car serve as a chilling symbol of control. The summary ends as she enters the vehicle.

Evening Outside Connie's home; on the road

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