The Son (2022) Timeline Explained – Every Event in Order

Nicholas was struggling with severe depression and had dropped out of school. His mother Kate, recognizing she couldn't reach him alone, brought him to Peter hoping that having his father in his life might help. Peter agreed to take him in, driven by a desire to be the father his own father never was. However, the years of absence had created a vast emotional distance between them that neither knew how to bridge.

Foreshadowing: Peter's history of being absent from Nicholas's life mirrors his own father's absence, creating a painful cycle.

• nicholas
• peter
• father-son
• depression
• absent father

Nicholas's suicide attempt stems from deep depression compounded by feeling like a burden to both his parents. He had dropped out of school and was struggling emotionally, unable to feel connection with anyone. The pressure of trying to fit into a new family dynamic with Peter, Beth, and the newborn Theo, while dealing with his parents' failed marriage, became overwhelming.

Foreshadowing: Early scenes show Nicholas withdrawing and struggling to engage with the family.

• nicholas
• suicide attempt
• depression
• mental health

Nicholas's apparent improvement was surface-level. When he returns from the treatment facility, he makes tea and talks about watching a movie together, a desperate attempt to feel like a normal family. However, this moment of forced normalcy couldn't address the deeper emotional wounds. The tragedy reveals that external improvement doesn't equal internal healing, and the family failed to recognize he was still in crisis.

Foreshadowing: The timeline notes the 'undercurrents of unresolved hurt remain just beneath the surface' before the suicide.

• nicholas
• suicide
• false hope
• family
• tragedy

Peter's father Anthony was cruel and often absent, leaving deep emotional scars that Peter has spent years trying to overcome. He desperately wants to be different, to be the father Anthony wasn't. Yet despite his good intentions, Peter struggles to actually connect with Nicholas. The irony is that Peter's fear of repeating his father's mistakes actually prevents him from being present, as he avoids confronting his own pain, which limits his ability to truly reach his son.

Foreshadowing: The timeline establishes Peter's 'fraught relationship with Anthony' as shadowing his efforts with Nicholas.

• peter
• anthony
• father
• trauma
• parenting

Peter's affair with Beth while still married to Kate created a painful rupture in the family. Nicholas witnessed his parents' marriage collapse, which contributed to his sense of instability and abandonment. While Peter's infidelity isn't the sole cause of Nicholas's depression, it added to the feeling that the adults in his life were unreliable and that his world was fundamentally unstable.

Foreshadowing: Peter 'struggles to acknowledge the hurt he caused when he cheated on Kate' early in the story.

• peter
• affair
• kate
• divorce
• family breakdown

Peter genuinely tries to bond with Nicholas by inviting him into family life, but he fundamentally fails because he cannot be emotionally honest. He avoids addressing his own mistakes, including the affair and his years of absence. This emotional wall prevents Nicholas from feeling truly connected to his father. Peter's efforts are sincere but superficial, he creates activities without creating the vulnerable, honest connection Nicholas desperately needs.

Foreshadowing: The timeline shows Peter making earnest efforts while simultaneously 'avoiding his own hurt.'

• peter
• nicholas
• connection
• emotional wall
• failure

The scene where Nicholas makes tea and talks happily about watching a movie together represents his final desperate attempt to belong. He's trying to create the family connection he craves, perhaps hoping that if things could just feel normal, the pain might stop. This makes the subsequent suicide even more devastating, it shows that even when Nicholas reached for hope, the underlying depression was too powerful to overcome.

Foreshadowing: The 'fleeting sense of normalcy' and 'fragile hope' in the timeline signals this is a tragic false dawn.

• nicholas
• tea
• family
• hope
• normalcy

Peter is consumed by guilt and imagines alternate realities where Nicholas lived, what conversations they might have had, what kind of man Nicholas would have become. He tortures himself with the question of what he could have done differently. Beth remains his steady support, but the weight of failure and the sense that his own choices contributed to the tragedy never leaves him.

Foreshadowing: This directly follows from Peter's failure to connect with Nicholas throughout the film.

• peter
• guilt
• grief
• loss
• what if