The Opposite Sex and How to Live with Them

The Opposite Sex and How to Live with Them

Year: 1992

Runtime: 86 mins

Language: English

Director: Matthew Meshekoff

ComedyRomance

David becomes smitten with Carrie, a witty and affluent woman, after an awkward first meeting where he inadvertently offends her in a Boston bar. Their paths cross again; despite her lingering disdain, David’s persistence and charm gradually win her over, leading to an unexpected romance.

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1

Chance encounter at the bar

David and his friend Eli are at a bar trying to pick up girls. Carrie enters and catches their eye, but neither immediately acts due to reluctance. A twist of fate sets up a second encounter soon after at a baseball game.

Bar
2

Reunion at the baseball game and number exchange

The two cross paths again at a baseball game. Zoe, Carrie's friend and roommate, helps by giving David Carrie's number. David musters the courage to ask her out, and the two begin dating.

Baseball game
3

Dating begins and emotional connection grows

Their relationship grows from cheap dates to spending nights at each other's places. They form a deep emotional connection as they learn more about each other. Throughout, characters occasionally break the fourth wall to reveal their inner thoughts.

Various
4

Sexual encounter and moving in pressure

A sexual encounter at Carrie's workplace leads them to move in together under the belief they are growing closer. They confess their love for each other, which also unsettles their friend Eli who fears losing his childhood friend.

Carrie's workplace
5

Moving in and parents' interrogation sessions

Soon after moving into David's apartment, both families escalate things with rigorous meetings and what feel like interrogations from each other's parents. The sessions test boundaries and reveal expectations and fears about marriage. The sense of pressure hints at the looming commitment.

David's apartment and the parents' homes
6

Eli's call about FOMO and commitment

Eli calls David one night and talks about FOMO and commitment fears. The conversation strains Carrie and David's relationship, and they drift apart, ultimately leading to a breakup.

Phone call
7

Dating others to find the perfect match

Following the breakup, both date other people they hope are their perfect match but quickly realize the disconnect. They learn more about themselves but still compare to what they had with each other.

8

Realization of missing each other and patch-up

They realize how much they miss each other and their love; this prompts a patch-up and renewed commitment.

9

Nightmare about marriage and decision to propose

They are being compared to older married couples, which fuels David's nightmare about Carrie marrying another man. In the nightmare, he sees a future where she is with someone else and feels compelled to act.

Bar where they first met
10

Proposal in the bar

David decides to propose in the bar where they first met. The moment marks a firm commitment and signals the next chapter for them.

Bar where they first met
11

Wedding day conversations reveal doubts and reassurance

Two heart-to-heart conversations occur on the wedding day between the bride, groom, and their friends. Carrie expresses doubts about identity after marriage; Zoe reassures her with stories from her own life. David and Eli discuss their fears and desires to marry someday, revealing underlying tensions.

Wedding day Wedding day venue
12

Interfaith wedding ceremony

The ceremony ends with Carrie and David's wedding overseen by officiants of both Christian and Jewish faiths. The couple commits to a life together, honoring traditions from both faiths.

Wedding day Wedding ceremony

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