The Diary of a Big Man

The story unfolds primarily in Hong Kong, a bustling, neon-drenched metropolis. It also relocates to Paris and the United States, providing romantic backdrops for the two wives and their different lives. These locations are used to stage the film's farcical misdirections and chase-comedy, highlighting the contrast between local urban life and Western romance.

💍 Bigamy and Deceit

The central premise revolves around Chow's attempt to juggle two wives through elaborate schedules and lies. The humor and tension stem from increasingly improbable schemes that unravel under close scrutiny. The theme shows how deceit corrodes trust and disrupts personal lives, despite outward confidence.

🎭 Identity and Masks

Chow and Chi-hung frequently adopt false identities to shield the truth, turning social roles into movable masks. The plot stages a series of disguises, excuses, and mistaken assumptions that expose the fragility of personal truth. The interplay of performance and reality questions what constitutes genuine relationships.

👭 Female Solidarity

Sally and Joey, initially unaware or skeptical, ultimately confront Chow together, transforming rivalry into a shared stand against deceit. Their alliance demonstrates strength, wit, and independence as they navigate the deception. The culmination reinforces that women can unite to reclaim agency in a chaotic situation.

🏨 Comic Chaos

The film leans into farce: misdirection, slapstick, and over-the-top set pieces in hotel rooms and public spaces. Each escalation heightens the absurdity while driving the characters toward a purer, more human resolution. The chaotic energy underlines the entertainment value of a romantic comedy built on lies.