Surprised by Oxford

In this faithful adaptation of Carolyn Weber’s memoir, Caro Drake arrives at Oxford University in the early 1990s to chart a path driven by intellect and ambition. The opening moment drops a heavy shock on young Caro: her father has been living a double life, a truth that forces her mother to raise her largely on her own. This upheaval seeds a fierce independence in Caro and jars her trust in faith, nudging her toward a life where academic rigor often seems to outrun spiritual questions. The story begins with a stark question: can reason and belief ever truly intersect for a modern student?

The film traces how Caro embraces rigorous scholarship, a path that earns her an undergraduate scholarship and later a PhD program at Oxford. As she settles into this new world, she meets Kent Weber, a sensitive and openhearted fellow student who is openly devout. Their conversations—often brief at first—spark curiosity in Caro. She is intrigued by Kent’s honesty about his beliefs, even as she remains wary of how faith might shape or limit a life dedicated to knowledge. The campus becomes a stage for lively debates, where a broad cast of professors and peers challenge her assumptions about faith, reason, and the meaning of life. Among them are Professor Rutledge and Professor McTeague, voices that push Caro to examine what she has long taken for granted and to consider perspectives she previously dismissed.

As the bond with Kent deepens, Caro finds herself drawn to the warmth of his approach to life, even as she continues to doubt the value of religion. Their growing friendship grows into something more intimate, a contrast that forces her to weigh her intellectual commitments against the pull of genuine, compassionate connection. Kent’s patience and openness invite Caro to reconsider what truly matters, though she remains cautious about changing the core of her beliefs. The more she grapples with these questions, the more the campus conversations about faith versus reason begin to feel personal.

Problem emerges when Caro’s focus on her studies threatens her scholarship. Her grades slip, and she fears losing the financial support that funds her place at Oxford. In a bid to preserve her academic career, she pulls away from Kent, cutting off social contact and retreating into solitary study. The emotional strain mounts when she learns Kent is dating someone else, a development that unsettles her and tests the boundaries of their fragile connection. The stress of these choices lands her in a moment of crisis in the library, where she violates the policy against using an inkpen, the librarian’s admonishment turning into a symbolic blow that culminates in Caro being barred from the library.

A turning point arrives when the Provost, Regina Knight, invites Caro to spend a weekend as her guest. In this intimate encounter, Knight shares her own life lessons and urges Caro to rethink her priorities, including the possibility of mending fences with Kent. The chance to step back from the academic pressure helps Caro gain perspective on what she wants from life. Upon her return to Oxford, she and Kent rekindle their feelings, even as Kent delivers bittersweet news: after completing his studies, he will move to Washington, DC for work, and he must depart that very evening. In a poignant moment, Caro chases his taxi through the rain, but the vehicle does not stop, leaving her soaked and uncertain.

The story leaps forward two years, and Caro has completed her studies and begun teaching at Oxford. A note arrives in the mail, and she makes her way through a crowded campus to find Kent. Their embrace signals a new chapter: the film’s closing guidance notes that they married, and Caro continued to build a flourishing career while balancing faith, love, and scholarship.

Overall, the film presents a nuanced, introspective look at a young woman negotiating faith and intellect, love and ambition, within the venerable walls of Oxford. The characters—Caro, Kent, and the professors who challenge them—are portrayed with sensitivity and depth, offering a thoughtful meditation on how personal convictions can evolve when confronted with genuine human connection and the pull of a larger life.

Last Updated: October 01, 2025 at 10:23