Dinner with Friends

Dinner with Friends

Year: 2001

Runtime: 94 mins

Language: English

Director: Norman Jewison

ComedyDramaMoving relationship storiesPassion and romanceTouching and sentimental family stories

Four Friends. Two Marriages. One Divorce. A husband and wife reevaluate their marriage after their closest friends, another couple decide to split up after twelve years.

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1

Dinner confession and Beth's claim

Beth reveals to Gabe and Karen that Tom is leaving her for a flight attendant, presenting it as a divorce. She recounts an incident at a movie theater where Tom allegedly tried to have sex with her. Gabe listens and tries to offer understanding, while Karen immediately questions Beth's version and frames Tom as the villain.

Evening (dinner) Gabe and Karen's home
2

Fallout between Gabe and Karen

After Beth leaves, Gabe and Karen discuss what Beth shared. Karen accepts Beth's account at face value and disparages Tom, while Gabe defends him and cautions against rushing to judgment. The disagreement strains their friendship, and Karen declares that Tom is no longer her friend.

Immediately after Beth's departure Gabe and Karen's home
3

Tom returns and confrontation

Tom arrives home after his flight is canceled and confronts the group about the news, feeling biased against him. He and Beth have a terse exchange before they unexpectedly reconnect and make love. Tom then decides to travel to Gabe and Karen's to explain his side.

Night of the dinner Tom and Beth's home
4

Tom's explanation to Gabe and Beth

Tom travels to Gabe and Karen's home to tell his side, describing feeling unloved by Beth and seeking intimacy elsewhere. He explains that Beth's rejection of closeness drove him toward the travel agent, Nancy. Karen refuses to hear his account while Gabe listens, asking questions in hopes of clarity.

Later that night Gabe and Karen's home
5

Therapy and final stance

Gabe asks whether Tom and Beth planned to attend therapy; Tom says no, not wanting Gabe's opinion, only understanding. The exchange underscores the growing distance between the couples and Tom's sense of isolation. The night ends with Tom deciding to pursue his own path.

Late night Gabe and Karen's home
6

Flashback to 1988: Vineyard introduction

A flashback to 1988 on Martha's Vineyard shows Gabe and Karen introducing Tom to Beth at their summer home. Tom is initially wary, recalling a drunken dancing incident at the wedding and their awkward first talk, but the four gradually warm to one another. The memory foreshadows the later entanglement of their lives.

1988 Martha's Vineyard
7

Tom leaves Beth's home

In the present, Tom packs his belongings and leaves Beth's home, marking a turning point toward formal divorce. He resolves to live independently, creating distance from the shared circle. The move also foreshadows growing strain between Tom and Gabe and Karen.

Following the flashback (present timeline) Tom and Beth's home
8

Beth and Tom's dating lives

Months pass as Beth begins dating David and Tom maintains a relationship with Nancy. Karen expresses shock at Beth's choices, while Beth insists she intends to marry David. The shifting dynamics deepen the rift within the group.

Months after the divorce Various (present)
9

Happiness and the forge of a new family

Beth accuses Karen of not wanting her to be truly happy so she can feel superior. Karen explains she hoped to forge a new family within their circle, but Beth counters that perfection isn't possible. The exchange highlights the fragility of their friendship.

Months after divorce Karen's home
10

Unspoken unhappiness and the shared dream

Tom tells Gabe that he was unhappy during the marriage and spent much of it pretending to be content. Gabe feels this personally, since their lives had always been intertwined, and reflects on the dream of growing old together. Tom clarifies he hid his unhappiness to avoid causing trouble.

Months after divorce Gabe and Karen's home
11

Beth-David affair revealed

Tom reveals to Gabe that Beth and David had an affair earlier in their marriage. Gabe shares this with Karen when they return to Martha's Vineyard, changing her view of the divorce and making her feel betrayed. The revelation reshapes understandings of trust within the group.

After Tom's disclosure Gabe and Karen's home; Martha's Vineyard (later)
12

Return to the Vineyard and a new evolution

Gabe and Karen return to Martha's Vineyard and confront the altered dynamics, realizing they no longer feel as close to their friends. That night, Karen recounts a dream of making love with Gabe beside another couple who are also them, and Gabe teases before kissing her, signaling a new evolution in their relationship.

Night Martha's Vineyard

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