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Amanda (2023) Timeline Explained – Every Event in Order

Release, runtime and language
2023 · 93 min · Italian
Echo score 73
Directed by
Carolina Cavalli
Starring
Benedetta Porcaroli, Fabian Gibertoni, Galatéa Bellugi, Giovanna Mezzogiorno, Margherita Missoni, Michele Bravi
Budget
$850K

Amanda explores the life of a 24-year-old woman navigating complex relationships. Raised in a privileged environment, she finds herself in a cycle of unsatisfying connections with men who are emotionally distant. Seeking a deeper connection, she unexpectedly reconnects with a childhood friend, hoping to revive a bond that might lead to genuine human connection and a journey of self-discovery.

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  1. 1 Events in order (14)
  2. 2 Timeline questions answered
  3. 3 Movie threads
  4. 4 Movies like Amanda
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14 events in order · contains spoilers

Amanda Timeline: Events in Chronological Order

Every key event of Amanda (2023) in order, scene by scene, with when and where it takes place. Use it to untangle flashbacks, time jumps and parallel storylines, to refresh your memory before the sequel or to find the exact scene you are thinking of.

  1. Amanda's aimlessness and alienation

    Amanda is a 25-year-old Italian woman who feels estranged from her wealthy family, especially her mother and older sister. After finishing school in Paris, she struggles to form meaningful social connections. She roams the city, frequents the cinematheque and raves, and stays in a hotel funded by her parents while searching for friends.

    When
    early 2000s
  2. Mother's suggestion to reconnect with Rebecca

    At her mother's urging, Amanda visits Rebecca, the daughter of Viola and a childhood friend she hasn't seen in years. Rebecca is a reclusive former athlete who rarely leaves her room and attends psychotherapy sessions at home. Amanda learns from Viola that she and Rebecca were inseparable as toddlers before Amanda's family moved away.

    When
    early 2000s
    Where
    Rebecca's house
  3. First tense meeting: the door slam

    When Amanda tries to enter Rebecca's room, Rebecca slams the door on her without saying a word. This cold reception makes Amanda believe they could have been best friends all along. Viola explains the long-ago friendship that once connected them.

    When
    first visit
    Where
    Rebecca's room
  4. Persistence pays off

    After repeated attempts to force entry, Rebecca finally lets Amanda in and the two begin to warm up to each other. The rekindled connection hints at a long-lost friendship finally finding its footing.

    When
    a few days later
    Where
    Rebecca's room
  5. The rave encounter

    At a rave, Amanda meets a boy she suspects is a drug dealer, but he clarifies that he hands out free condoms at raves. The two talk and he invites her to his upcoming birthday party, saying she can bring someone. Amanda saves his contact as 'My Boyfriend' on her phone.

    When
    night of the rave
    Where
    Rave
  6. Invitation to the party

    The boy invites Amanda to his birthday party and she invites Rebecca to accompany her. As they spend more time together, Amanda grows closer to Rebecca. The plan to attend the party solidifies their budding connection.

    When
    before the party
    Where
    City
  7. Amanda moves in with Rebecca

    As they spend more time together, Amanda moves in temporarily with Rebecca, though Amanda becomes jealous of Rebecca's therapist, Ann. The living arrangement accelerates their dependence on each other.

    When
    shortly after the party invitation
    Where
    Rebecca's house
  8. Therapist's intervention

    Ann instructs Amanda to tell Rebecca that she is leaving for Paris, declaring that Amanda's borderline traits are not good for Rebecca. This directive raises tensions and pushes Amanda toward a breaking point. It deepens the rift between her self-image and Rebecca's stability.

    When
    after moving in
    Where
    Rebecca's house
  9. Despair and the stolen horse

    In despair, Amanda flees, steals the horse, and returns to Rebecca's house with the horse, leaving it in the garden. She then goes to Rebecca's room and tries to persuade her to run away with her. The act underscores Amanda's desperation and reckless longing for change.

    When
    same night
    Where
    Rebecca's house garden
  10. The truth about manipulation

    Rebecca reveals that Viola made her befriend Amanda when they were children because people felt sorry for Amanda. Rebecca aligns with Ann's assessment of Amanda, admitting she went along with the friendship to fulfill a caregiver role. The revelation devastates Amanda and reframes their entire relationship.

    When
    confrontation
    Where
    Rebecca's room
  11. Return home and family repair

    Devastated, Amanda leaves and moves back into her family's villa. Over time, her relationship with her mother and sister gradually improves as she steps away from Rebecca's orbit. The family dynamics begin to heal in parallel with Amanda's growing self-awareness.

    When
    after the incident
    Where
    family villa
  12. Viola's plea and the cinematheque promise

    Viola asks Amanda to reunite with Rebecca. Amanda tells Viola that Rebecca can be found at the cinematheque, but Rebecca never shows up. The absence marks a quiet stalemate in their fragile reconciliation.

    When
    later period
    Where
    Viola's house and cinematheque
  13. The accusation and the realization

    The boy from the rave accuses Amanda of crashing his party and setting off firecrackers, but she denies it. She realizes that Rebecca was behind the chaos, reframing the events as part of Rebecca's retaliation. The accusation seals the sense that Amanda remains entangled in Rebecca's schemes.

    When
    night of the accusation
    Where
    Boy's living room
  14. A tentative reconciliation and the search for the horse

    Amanda goes to Rebecca's house to thank her, and Rebecca confesses she rode to the party on horseback, but the firecrackers scared the horse. They set off to search for the horse together, signaling a tentative but hopeful reconciliation between them.

    When
    following the accusation
    Where
    Rebecca's house

Last updated: June 01, 2026 at 10:11

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Timeline questions answered

Amanda Timeline Explained: Your Questions Answered

When does it happen, and why in that order? The questions people ask about the chronology of Amanda (2023): time jumps, flashbacks, cause and effect between scenes and the correct order of events, each answered with spoilers.

Q1

Why is Amanda so determined to reconnect with Rebecca?

Amanda becomes determined to reconnect with Rebecca after learning from Viola (Rebecca's mother) that they were inseparable as toddlers before Amanda's family moved away. Amanda believes they could have been best friends all along and sees their reunion as a chance to form a genuine connection that she's been missing in her life.

Foreshadowing: The film hints at Amanda's desperate need for connection early on, as she drifts through the city searching for friends at raves and through video chats.

  • rebecca
  • childhood friend
  • viola
  • reconnection
  • friendship
Q2

Why does Rebecca slam the door on Amanda during their first meeting?

Rebecca slams the door on Amanda without saying a word because she has become a reclusive person who rarely leaves her room. She's skeptical of Amanda's sudden reappearance in her life after years of distance and initial resistance to rekindling their connection.

Foreshadowing: This cold reception foreshadows the complexity of their relationship and hints that Rebecca's involvement is not purely genuine.

  • rebecca
  • door slam
  • first meeting
  • reclusive
Q3

Why does the boy from the rave stop texting Amanda?

The boy from the rave stops texting Amanda because he's dating another girl. He tells her to stop texting him, leaving her heartbroken when she realizes their connection was one-sided.

Foreshadowing: Earlier, Amanda had saved his contact as 'My Boyfriend' on her phone, showing her hopeful attachment to someone she barely knew.

  • rave boy
  • text
  • dating
  • heartbreak
  • party invitation
Q4

What does Rebecca reveal about their childhood friendship?

Rebecca reveals that Viola (her mother) forced her to befriend Amanda when they were children because people felt sorry for Amanda. Rebecca admits she went along with the friendship to fulfill a caregiver role, not because she genuinely wanted it. This devastating revelation reframes their entire relationship as manipulated rather than authentic.

Foreshadowing: Rebecca's initial coldness and reluctance to reconnect becomes clearer after this revelation, showing she was aware of the forced nature of their original bond.

  • viola
  • manipulation
  • childhood
  • forced friendship
  • caregiver role
Q5

Why does Amanda steal the horse?

Amanda steals the horse in a moment of despair after learning that Rebecca was behind the rendezvous with the rave boy that led to her heartbreak. Desperate and feeling betrayed, Amanda takes the horse and returns to Rebecca's house, trying to persuade her to run away as an act of desperate escape from her emotional pain.

Foreshadowing: The horse had appeared earlier as a symbol of Amanda's unsettled mood and the gaps she's trying to fill in her life.

  • horse
  • theft
  • despair
  • run away
  • betrayal
Q6

Why does Rebecca's therapist tell Amanda to leave?

Rebecca's therapist Ann instructs Amanda to tell Rebecca that she is leaving for Paris, declaring that Amanda's borderline traits are not good for Rebecca. Ann sees Amanda's presence as unhealthy for Rebecca's stability and takes steps to separate them, causing tension between Amanda and Rebecca.

Foreshadowing: Earlier, Amanda had become jealous of Ann's influence over Rebecca, foreshadowing the therapist's eventual intervention in their relationship.

  • ann
  • therapist
  • intervention
  • paris
  • borderline traits
Q7

What is the firecrackers incident at the party about?

The boy from the rave accuses Amanda of crashing his party and setting off firecrackers in his living room, but she denies it. Amanda realizes that Rebecca was behind the chaos. Rebecca later confesses she rode to the party on horseback, but the firecrackers frightened the horse away, causing it to run off.

Foreshadowing: This incident reveals the extent of Rebecca's manipulation, showing she orchestrated events to control Amanda's experiences.

  • firecrackers
  • party
  • horse
  • accusation
  • revenge
Q8

How does Amanda's relationship with her family change?

After leaving Rebecca's house following the devastating revelation about their manipulated friendship, Amanda moves back into her family's villa. Over time, her relationship with her mother and sister gradually improves as she steps away from Rebecca's orbit and begins to find some stability closer to home.

Foreshadowing: Early in the film, Amanda feels detached from her wealthy family, preferring to drift through the city rather than engage with them.

  • family
  • mother
  • sister
  • villa
  • reconciliation
Q9

How do Amanda and Rebecca end up reconciling?

Amanda goes to Rebecca's house to thank her after realizing Rebecca was behind the firecrackers incident. Rebecca confesses she rode to the party on horseback but the firecrackers scared the horse away. The two set out to search for the horse together, signaling a tentative reconciliation and the possibility of rebuilding their damaged friendship despite all the manipulation and hurt.

Foreshadowing: Earlier, Amanda had visited the horse at a farm as a symbol of her own restlessness and need for connection.

  • horse search
  • reconciliation
  • tentative friendship
  • moving forward

Movie threads

More Movies Like Amanda, by Mood & Story

Curated lists built around what makes Amanda tick: the same mood, the same kind of story or the same emotional payoff. Each list explains why these movies belong together.

Melancholic character studies like Amanda

Atmospheric films about lonely souls searching for meaning in their isolation. If you liked the quiet, introspective mood of Amanda, you might enjoy these other movies about lonely souls searching for connection. This collection features atmospheric dramas with a melancholic tone and a focus on character-driven stories of emotional isolation.

  • melancholic
  • atmospheric
  • introspective
  • lonely
  • yearning
  • quiet
  • Tone: melancholic, introspective, tense
  • Pacing: slow, atmospheric
Why these movies?

The story pattern: These stories typically follow a protagonist's internal journey as they navigate a world that feels emotionally distant. The plot is often secondary to the exploration of their loneliness, with key moments arising from tense interpersonal conflicts or fleeting glimpses of connection that ultimately remain unfulfilled.

Why they belong together: Movies are grouped here for their shared focus on melancholic, atmospheric storytelling, slow pacing that emphasizes mood over plot, and protagonists defined by a deep sense of loneliness and a quiet, often unsuccessful, search for meaningful connection.

Bittersweet stories of reconnection like Amanda

Stories where revisiting the past leads to complicated healing and growth. Movies like Amanda that explore the complicated emotions of reconnecting with someone from your past. These films often feature nuanced character dynamics, themes of self-discovery, and endings that are hopeful yet realistically bittersweet.

  • bittersweet
  • yearning
  • unsettled
  • introspective
  • tense
  • emotional
  • Tone: melancholic, bittersweet, tense
  • Pacing: slow to steady
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The narrative follows a protagonist, often from a place of privilege or emotional stasis, who seeks meaning by revisiting a significant relationship from their past. This reconnection forces them to confront unresolved issues, manipulative dynamics, and their own flaws, leading to a journey of self-discovery that culminates in a realistically ambiguous or bittersweet resolution.

Why they belong together: These films are grouped for their shared focus on the narrative pattern of reconnection, their exploration of complex and often manipulative interpersonal dynamics, their moderate complexity in character development, and their consistent delivery of a bittersweet emotional resolution.

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