The Guide to the Perfect Family

In the end, the film reveals how the relentless pursuit of perfection and high expectations can when left unchecked, cause immense damage to both parents and children. Rosa’s mental health struggles were a clear indicator that her father’s obsession with success had become burdensome, leaving her feeling overwhelmed and trapped. Her final act of attempting suicide was a heartbreaking acknowledgment of her distress, and it served as a wake-up call for Martin. Through this crisis, he finally sees that supporting his daughter’s dreams and accepting her for who she is matters far more than her grades or societal standards of success. The closing scene, where Martin, Rosa, and Mathis enjoy simple pleasures like ice-cream in the park, symbolizes a return to a more genuine, caring family dynamic. It underscores that sometimes, the most important thing is to let children grow naturally, without the constant pressure to be perfect. Martin’s journey from rigidity to acceptance highlights the importance of understanding, compassion, and the realization that being “average” can be enough. Ultimately, the film emphasizes that true happiness and fulfillment come from embracing who we are and supporting those we love, rather than chasing an illusory ideal of perfection.>

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