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The Ex (2007) Plot Summary Explained

Release, runtime and language
2007 · 89 min · French
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Directed by
Jesse Peretz
Starring
Amanda Peet, Charles Grodin, Zach Braff

Rémy and Sandra, a couple struggling to conceive, discover they have a unique condition called "Past Love Syndrome." To address this, they hilariously embark on a journey, revisiting former relationships and rekindling old flames. Through these awkward encounters, they hope to overcome their fertility challenges and find a second chance at love and family.

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  1. 1 Where to watch
  2. 2 What happens: full plot
  3. 3 Plot questions answered
  4. 4 Movie threads
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Full plot summary · contains spoilers

What Happens in The Ex: Full Plot Summary

The whole story of The Ex (2007) explained, from the opening scene to the final frame: every key event, every twist and what it all adds up to. Read it as a quick recap before the sequel, to check a scene you missed, or to finally understand what really happened.

Living in Manhattan, Tom is a cook who has difficulty keeping a steady job. His wife, Sofia, is an attorney. When their first child is born, they agree that she will be a full-time mom and he will work hard to get promoted.

When Tom is fired after defending his friend Paco, he takes a job in Ohio at the advertising agency where his father-in-law is the assistant director. He is assigned to report to Chip, a strict and hard-working paraplegic who is Sofia's ex from high school. Chip is still obsessed with Sofia, and he schemes to make Tom's work life miserable. As Tom's frustrations mount, he begins to sway Sofia to his side.

Tom starts to suspect that Chip isn't handicapped after all and goes through his desk. He finds a photo of him playing tennis and rushes to his in-laws' house to see his wife and show her the picture. He finds Chip having dinner with Sofia and her parents, and holding his child. Tom tries to prove that Chip isn't actually paralyzed by dragging him up a flight of stairs and then throwing him, hoping he will stand up to avoid a fall.

Chip doesn't stand (the photo is actually his late twin brother) and Tom is humiliated in front of his family. Later, he confronts and attacks him, where Chip reveals that he really can walk, but can't fight outside of his chair. Sitting back down, Chip beats him severely, and then, to Tom's increasing rage, reveals that he plans to have sex with Sofia again.

When Chip gets a call from the ad agency boss in Barcelona offering him a move to Spain to become the agency's creative director, he asks Sofia to come with him. Tom pleads with her to believe him that Chip has been faking his paralysis. When she rejects Chip, he angrily tells his new "boss" he'll only need one ticket — as it's revealed that Paco is on the other end of the phone call. Chip tells Sofia he >faked his orgasm< before getting out of his chair and storming out. Continuing to mock the couple, Chip is hit by a bus.

Tom and Sofia have moved out of Ohio, and her dad is helping him start his own ad business. Now, the couple have swapped roles, Tom becoming a stay-at-home dad while Sofia returns to practicing law full time. During the credits, Chip is shown in Barcelona in a wheelchair with two broken legs, and the once-effective passive-aggressive routine that worked so well in Ohio is ignored in Spain. Still insisting he works there, Chip is tossed out of the ad company, and later Tom's friend sees him on TV in the middle of the running of the bulls.

Last updated: November 22, 2025 at 15:58

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Plot questions answered

The Ex Plot Explained: Your Questions Answered

The questions people ask most about The Ex (2007): what happens in the confusing scenes, why the characters do what they do, the twists, hidden details and what the ending means. Each answer contains spoilers.

Q1

Why was Tom fired from his Manhattan job?

Tom was fired after defending his friend Paco during a workplace incident. This firing disrupted their financial stability and forced Tom to take a job in Ohio, which set the entire conflict with Chip in motion.

Foreshadowing: Earlier in the film, Tom's inability to keep a steady job establishes his character as impulsive and loyal to friends.

  • tom fired
  • paco
  • manhattan
  • job loss
  • workplace incident
Q2

Why does Chip hate Tom so much?

Chip is Sofia's ex-boyfriend from high school and is still obsessed with her. When Tom arrives at the ad agency, Chip sees him as a rival and uses his position to sabotage Tom's work life, hoping to drive a wedge between Tom and Sofia so he can win her back.

Foreshadowing: Chip's bitterness toward Tom is established early when he's described as strict and hard-working specifically toward Tom, while being cordial to others.

  • chip
  • tom
  • rivalry
  • sofia
  • ex-boyfriend
  • obsession
Q3

Is Chip actually paralyzed in The Ex?

No, Chip is faking his paralysis. He can walk but only while in his wheelchair and cannot fight outside of it. The photo Tom finds of Chip playing tennis is actually Chip's late twin brother, which is why Tom's attempt to prove Chip was faking fails spectacularly.

Foreshadowing: Tom becomes suspicious of Chip's handicap after noticing inconsistencies in his behavior and decides to search his desk.

  • chip paralyzed
  • fake disability
  • twin brother
  • tennis photo
  • deception
Q4

Who is Chip's twin brother in the movie?

Chip has a twin brother who has died. The photo Tom finds showing Chip playing tennis is actually a picture of his late twin brother, which is why the photo exists and why Chip remains seated when Tom tries to force him to stand.

  • twin brother
  • photo
  • chip family
  • deceased brother
Q5

Why did Tom drag Chip up the stairs?

Tom dragged Chip up the stairs hoping to force him to stand and reveal his deception in front of Sofia and her parents. Tom believed that if Chip tried to avoid falling, he would instinctively stand up, proving he wasn't really paralyzed.

Foreshadowing: Tom's suspicion builds after finding the tennis photo in Chip's desk, leading him to rush to his in-laws' house with what he believes is conclusive evidence.

  • tom vs chip
  • stairs
  • confrontation
  • proof
  • humiliation
Q6

How could Chip beat Tom if he's in a wheelchair?

Chip reveals that while he can walk, he cannot fight outside of his wheelchair. Once seated again, Chip brutally beats Tom while taunting him about Sofia, using his physical advantage while restrained in the chair.

Foreshadowing: Chip's mysterious physical limitations are hinted at when he refuses to leave his chair during the confrontation.

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  • fight
  • wheelchair
  • physical fight
  • sofia
Q7

Why does Chip ask Sofia to go to Barcelona with him?

Chip receives a job offer from a Barcelona ad agency offering him the position of creative director. He asks Sofia to come with him as a final attempt to steal her away from Tom, promising her a life in Spain away from her current situation.

  • barcelona
  • chip
  • sofia
  • job offer
  • creative director
  • spain
Q8

What did Chip mean by 'faked his orgasm'?

When Chip says he 'faked his orgasm,' he's using a crude metaphor to tell Sofia that he was faking his affection and intentions the entire time. He's indicating that everything he told her about wanting her to come to Barcelona was a lie, just like his pretended orgasm reference, empty and insincere.

  • faked orgasm
  • chip
  • insult
  • metaphor
  • barcelona offer
Q9

What happens to Chip at the end of The Ex?

After storming out of the house and continuing to mock Tom and Sofia, Chip is hit by a bus. During the credits, he's shown in Barcelona still in a wheelchair with two broken legs, trying to work at the ad company, but he's tossed out. A friend later sees him on TV during the running of the bulls.

Foreshadowing: Chip's arrogance and continued mocking of the couple leads to his downfall as he walks into traffic without looking.

  • chip hit by bus
  • barcelona
  • broken legs
  • running of the bulls
  • fate
Q10

How do Tom and Sofia's roles change by the end of the movie?

By the end, Tom and Sofia have completely reversed their original dynamic. Sofia returns to practicing law full-time while Tom becomes a stay-at-home dad. Additionally, Sofia's father helps Tom start his own advertising business, giving him the success and stability he was seeking.

  • tom stay at home dad
  • sofia lawyer
  • role reversal
  • new business
  • ad agency

Movie threads

More Movies Like The Ex, by Mood & Story

Curated lists built around what makes The Ex tick: the same mood, the same kind of story or the same emotional payoff. Each list explains why these movies belong together.

Lighthearted comedies of marital reconnection like The Ex

Couples navigate hilarious situations to find their way back to each other. If you liked the comedic journey of the couple in The Ex, you'll enjoy these movies about partners who find their way back to each other through humorous situations. These films blend romance and comedy with a steady pace, focusing on the awkward yet heartwarming path to rediscovering love.

  • lighthearted
  • comedic
  • heartwarming
  • awkward
  • cathartic
  • playful
  • Tone: light, playful
  • Pacing: steady, character-driven
Why these movies?

The story pattern: Stories in this thread typically follow an established couple whose relationship is tested by an external problem or internal stagnation. The plot revolves around their shared, often clumsy, efforts to overcome this obstacle, using situational humor and light conflict to explore their dynamics, leading to a reaffirmed, happier union.

Why they belong together: These movies are grouped together because they share a light tone, a focus on relational humor over high-stakes drama, and a core belief in the resilience of love. They offer a comforting and amusing view of partnership, where challenges are met with comedy and result in cathartic, happy endings.

Movies with situational farce from an intruder like The Ex

A disruptive force enters a stable life, causing a cascade of awkward and funny chaos. Fans of The Ex will enjoy these comedies where a chaotic character disrupts the protagonist's life. These films build humor from escalating awkward situations and a frustrating rivalry, culminating in a satisfying and cathartic conclusion where the peace is won back.

  • frustrating
  • awkward
  • suspenseful
  • cathartic
  • comedic
  • playful
  • Tone: light, frustrating
  • Pacing: steady, escalating
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The narrative pattern involves a protagonist (or couple) whose contentment is challenged by a new, disruptive presence—be it a rival, a relative, or a friend. This antagonist masterfully creates awkward and frustrating scenarios, building a steady pace of comedic tension until the protagonist finally confronts them and reclaims their life.

Why they belong together: These films are united by their use of a specific comedic antagonist to drive the plot, creating a mix of laughter and mild suspense from the resulting chaos. They share a medium intensity driven by situational conflict rather than deep drama, and a lighthearted tone that ensures the stakes never feel truly dire.

Categories

Movie Lists Featuring The Ex

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