Montages of a Modern Motherhood

After six long years of waiting for a child, Jing finally holds her infant daughter, Ching, in her arms, shared with the steady support of her husband, Wai. The adoration is real, but so are the mounting pressures of balancing work, motherhood, and the expectations that often come with both. When Jing returns from maternity leave to her job as a pastry chef at a bakery, the routine she once trusted is now tempered by new responsibilities and a sense of vulnerability she’s only just beginning to understand.

Back home, Jing’s mother-in-law steps in to help during the day, a gesture meant to ease the transition but which quickly reveals tensions that simmer beneath the surface. One day, Jing arrives early from work and discovers that the grandmother has bathed Ching with a charm paper water, claiming it will make the baby healthier. The moment feels almost banal in its ritual, yet it bites deep because it signals a larger pattern: an insistence that Jing’s parenting instincts aren’t enough, and that “better” methods must come from outside inputs. Worse still, Jing uncovers a troubling absence of care in the most intimate measure of a mother’s work—her breast milk has been discarded in favor of powdered milk, with the grandmother justifying it by saying Jing’s milk isn’t good enough and that Ching is lighter than other babies her age. The discovery forks Jing’s trust and patience into a sharp, jagged doubt, and the confrontation that follows leaves both women entrenched in a stubborn, hurtful stand-off.

Ching’s nights become a chorus of cries, a small, persistent pressure that demands Jing’s attention while Wai, by contrast, seems removed and distant. He speaks of sleep deprivation and tells stories of nearly having an accident while working as a truck driver during the day, which reads as a defense for his own fatigue rather than a plea for shared responsibility. The imbalance gnaws at Jing, who begins to suffer from insomnia and starts slipping at work, making mistakes that attract her boss’s disapproval. The atmosphere at the bakery grows tenser, and Jing finds herself navigating a delicate tension: she wants to prove she can carry both motherhood and a career forward, yet the external pressures and a lack of real support push her toward breaking points she had not anticipated.

To ease her burden, Jing looks for daytime help and eventually meets Fanny, a retired woman whose family has already migrated overseas. Fanny’s presence offers a quiet relief: a capable, steady routine that allows Jing to focus more on her responsibilities while continuing to pursue her own ambitions. But the arrangements remain precarious. Jing battles with the physical side of motherhood—pumping milk proves difficult, and a visit to a doctor reveals mastitis that requires medical treatment. While Jing fights through the discomfort, Wai steps in with patience and promises to support both her and the baby, yet the promise feels hollow at moments when Jing’s independence and professional identity cry out for recognition.

Jing wants to work and sustain her independence, fueled by the belief that women deserve financial means and personal autonomy. This conviction leads her to apply to more bakeries, seeking a place where motherhood is not a border but a balance she can manage. Yet rejection comes from many corners, a reflection of the era’s lingering attitudes toward new mothers in the workforce. The household frictions intensify as Fanny announces she will migrate to Canada at the end of the month, signaling another impending shift in Jing’s support network and forcing Jing to confront the practical reality that she must find another nanny at short notice.

Formula prices climb again, a small but persistent reminder of the fragility of Jing’s budget and the family’s plans. She returns to Wai, asking for more money for the household, and his response lands with a mixed message: he agrees to the extra support but suggests Jing consider staying home full-time until Ching grows older. The suggestion lands like a chill on Jing’s hopes for a thriving, independent career. The clash between them—his push for economic security and her push for personal and professional fulfillment—highlights a broader question about who shoulders the work, and when, in a modern family.

A party at their home, hosted by Wai to introduce friends to their newborn, becomes a revealing snapshot of their dynamics. Ching soils her diaper, a perfectly ordinary event in the life of a small child, and Wai remains with his friends, leaving Jing to tend to the infant’s needs on her own, a moment that underscores the gulf between the couple’s expectations and realities. The moment also reveals that Wai is more focused on social appearances and potential new opportunities, as he discusses with a friend who has started a logistics company, hinting at hopes for a higher salary and a better future for the family.

On Fanny’s last day, Jing returns to her childhood home to talk with her own mother, but she is repeatedly interrupted by her brother’s children. The delay stretches Jing thin, and she wanders the streets, tempted by thoughts of escaping motherhood itself. Yet a nametag bearing her and Ching’s names triggers a wave of remorse, and she rushes back to Fanny’s place, where she apologizes to Ching and decides to bring her daughter home. The act marks a turning point in Jing’s inner life, a moment of recommitment to the life she’s chosen, even as the weight of the struggle remains.

To offer a moment of respite, Wai takes Jing to the beach, telling her about his transition to a new company and sharing his plan to have another child while promising to help her open her dream bakery once their children are older. The conversation is not a resolution but a pause—a possibility outlined rather than a certainty—yet it carries a strand of hope that Jing can still craft a future that respects both her family and her ambitions. The film closes with a quiet, intimate image: Jing and Ching by a riverside, a scene that crystallizes a dream she has held onto since the beginning—her daughter growing up, thriving, and perhaps someday graduating from university. It is a vision of health, happiness, and the slow, patient work of building a life that reconciles love, work, and independence.

In the end, the story remains intimate and human: a mother’s fierce devotion tested by competing demands, a partner’s evolving responsibilities, and the tremor of change as a family navigates the delicate balance between care and autonomy. It is a portrait of modern motherhood that resists easy answers, choosing instead to linger in the real questions people ask when they try to build a life that honors both a child’s future and a parent’s aspirations.

Last Updated: October 01, 2025 at 10:23