Instant Family

Instant Family

Year: 2018

Runtime: 118 mins

Language: English

Director: Sean Anders

Echo Score: 78

Budget: $48M

DramaComedyCrude humor and satireMoving relationship storiesRelationship comedy

Embarking on the journey of starting a family, Pete and Ellie explore foster care adoption and anticipate welcoming one child into their home. However, their plans change dramatically when they unexpectedly find themselves parenting three siblings, including a teenage girl with a defiant streak. Navigating the challenges and joys of instant parenthood, they quickly learn what it means to build a family and embrace the chaos, laughter, and love that comes with it.

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1

Pete and Ellie join a foster care network and meet Lizzie and siblings

Pete and Ellie, facing infertility, decide to pursue fostering and are introduced to Lizzie, a 15-year-old, along with her siblings Juan and Lita. Social workers Karen and Sharon explain the siblings' difficult background and the need for a stable home. The encounter plants the first seed of possible adoption, even as uncertainties remain.

Before Thanksgiving Foster care fair / Orientation meeting
2

First meeting yields no instant bond

At the initial meeting, there is no immediate chemistry between the Wagners and Lizzie and her siblings; the kids test boundaries and the couple reevaluate whether fostering will work. The professionals emphasize patience and persistence over quick certainty.

Shortly after the fair Foster care meeting
3

Thanksgiving doubts about adoption

During Thanksgiving with Ellie's family, Pete and Ellie tell everyone they have decided not to pursue adoption. Relatives acknowledge the skepticism about it ever working out, signaling a tougher road ahead. The conversation leaves a lingering sense that the possibility remains alive, even as doubts persist.

Thanksgiving Ellie's family home
4

Decision to officially pursue adoption

After the family gathering, Pete and Ellie decide to officially pursue adoption, choosing to make Lizzie and her siblings a permanent part of their lives. They commit to the harder path despite concerns from relatives and social workers. The decision marks a turning point in their willingness to fight for these children.

After Thanksgiving Wagner home
5

The kids move in; life becomes hectic

Lizzie, Juan, and Lita move into the Wagner house, and life becomes chaotic: Lita has tantrums, Juan is emotionally fragile, and Lizzie resents Ellie's parenting. The couple seeks support from a foster parent group to navigate new challenges. The home both fills with love and strains under the weight of new responsibilities.

Soon after Wagner home
6

Six Flags outing and a testing moment

Sandy, Pete's mother, wins the kids over by taking them to Six Flags, providing a rare moment of joy amid adjustment. Lizzie sneaks away with friends and returns late, prompting Pete to ground her and reassert boundaries. The incident tests the family's ability to set limits and protect one another.

Shortly after move-in Six Flags
7

Nail gun accident and a turning moment

The next day, a crisis arises when Juan accidentally shoots a nail into his foot with a nail gun. Pete and Ellie rush the injured boy to the hospital, where they comfort both Juan and Lita. Lizzie steps up by taking the blame in front of social worker Karen, signaling a softening of her resistance.

The day after the Six Flags trip Hospital
8

Vent session and gradual reconciliation

After a heated argument sparked by suppressed emotions, Pete invites Lizzie to vent by demolishing the kitchen in the house being renovated. The release leads to a genuine apology from Lizzie and a healing moment between her and Ellie. The incident marks a turning point in their relationship.

Shortly after Renovated kitchen
9

A small sign of belonging at soccer practice

Lita calls Pete 'Daddy' after he fixes her doll during Lizzie's soccer practice, a small but meaningful moment of trust-building. Ellie witnesses the moment with warmth, and the children begin feeling more secure with their foster parents. The scene underscores the gradual shift toward family belonging.

During Lizzie's soccer practice Soccer practice field
10

Nighttime bonding strengthens the family

One night, Ellie comforts Juan in his room after a nightmare; he whispers 'Good night, Mommy,' and Ellie is overjoyed. The tender moment deepens the maternal bond and reinforces the sense that the Wagners are becoming a real family. It marks a quiet but powerful step in their unity.

Night Juan and Lita's room
11

Carla returns and disrupts the household

Carla, the children's birth mother, is released from prison and returns to visit, disrupting the household as the kids become more unruly. Pete and Ellie voice their concerns to the support group, but the social workers explain that the system prioritizes keeping families together, even at the risk of returns to birth parents.

Soon after Carla's release Wagner home; foster parent support group
12

Lizzie's troubling discovery and seeking support

Seeking guidance after a troubling discovery, the Wagners learn Lizzie has been exchanging naked pictures with her school boyfriend Jacob. They reach out to the Fernandez family for support, only to learn Brenda has fallen back into rehab. The couple is reminded that hard things matter and that healing is ongoing.

After Carla's disruptions Fernandez family home
13

School confrontation leads to legal trouble

At school the next day, a student named Charlie reveals that Jacob, a 22-year-old janitor, has been spending time with Lizzie. Pete and Ellie confront Jacob, and the confrontation escalates into violence; Jacob is arrested along with Pete and Ellie, and Juan and Lita are left unattended in the car. They post bail as Sandy urges them to reassure Lizzie.

The next day School / courthouse
14

Court hearing and the truth about Carla

During the children's court hearing, the judge reads a statement from Lizzie that casts Pete and Ellie in a negative light and prevents Ellie from reading her own statement. The children are returned to Carla, and Juan and Lita resist leaving the Wagners, while Lizzie is eager to go back. Karen and Sharon later reveal that Carla never picked up the kids, and that Carla is using drugs again.

The next day Children's court
15

Final adoption after months of waiting

Four months later, a second court hearing finalizes the adoption of Lizzie, Juan, and Lita. Lizzie calls Ellie and Pete 'Mom' and 'Papá,' and they celebrate with a family photo including the judge and their extended foster network. The Wagners have transformed from hesitant foster parents to a fully adopted family.

Four months later Courtroom / Wagner home

Last Updated: October 01, 2025 at 13:04

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