How to Be a Good Wife

How to Be a Good Wife

Year: 2020

Runtime: 108 mins

Language: French

Director: Martin Provost

Echo Score: 64
Comedy

Following the death of her husband, Paulette Van Der Beck finds their housekeeping school in Bitche, Alsace, facing bankruptcy. Determined to save it, she takes over, preparing the teenage students for a televised housekeeping competition. However, the societal upheaval of May 1968 sparks a questioning of traditional roles, and with the help of her eccentric stepsister Gilberte, a strict nun, and a rekindled romance, Paulette encourages the girls to challenge their subservient status and embrace liberation.

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1

New school year opens

In late 1967, Paulette oversees the start of a new school year at Van der Beck's School of Housekeeping and Good Manners in Alsace. She and her colleagues inspect the incoming women and notice one red-headed applicant, a detail that sparks rumors that the year could be jinxed.

late 1967 Van der Beck's School of Housekeeping and Good Manners, Alsace
2

Rabbit dinner tragedy

During a dinner prepared by the girls, a rabbit dish is served and Robert chokes on a bone, dying soon afterward. His death exposes the fragile finances of the school and leaves Paulette facing the consequences of his mismanagement.

late 1967 School dining hall
3

Bank records reveal bankruptcy

Paulette and Gilberte sort through Robert's belongings and uncover letters showing the school is on the brink of bankruptcy. They realize the institution's finances are in ruin and fear for its future.

late 1967 School offices
4

Bank proposes loan with transfer idea

At the bank, Paulette and Gilberte learn that Robert borrowed beyond the school's means. The bank manager, André Grunvald, suggests transferring the school into Paulette's name to secure another loan.

late 1967 Bank
5

Grunvald asks to meet Paulette

After the meeting, Grunvald calls Paulette and asks to meet him in 15 minutes. She slips away from the school, meeting him outside where he presses for another conversation.

later that day Outside the bank/school
6

Grunvald's past and their reunion

During their talk, Paulette learns that Grunvald and she were lovers before the war. He explains his life since then and reveals that his wartime letters never reached her, hinting at a long-vanished closeness.

late 1967 Somewhere outside the bank/school
7

Suicide attempt by a student

Back at the school, a young woman learns she is to marry a man her father’s age. In despair, she attempts suicide by hanging, but the other students intervene just in time to save her.

late 1967 School dormitory
8

Paulette contemplates cancelling the Paris trip

The suicide scare plunges Paulette into gloom and makes her question the school's mission. She considers cancelling the Paris housekeeping fair, but ultimately decides to take the women there.

after the suicide attempt Paulette's room / School
9

Grunvald reaches Paulette's room

Grunvald climbs the piping to reach Paulette’s bedroom and asks to be with her. She agrees only after forcing him to promise to help with cooking and to reveal the details of an apple strudel.

night of confrontation Paulette's bedroom
10

Paulette and Grunvald's liaison and Paris trip

Paulette and Grunvald have sex in her room. Afterwards, Paulette joins the bus with the staff and students as they depart for the Paris trip.

same night Paulette's room; bus departure
11

Radio reports riots in Paris

On the bus, they hear a radio report that student riots are shutting down Paris. The mood shifts as the reality of the city’s upheaval becomes imminent.

late 1967 / early 1968 On the road toward Paris
12

Roadblocks force a new plan

As they near Paris, the roads are blocked by a massive traffic jam. Paulette refuses to turn back, choosing to disembark and walk toward the city with the young women.

early 1968 Outskirts of Paris
13

Women march toward Paris

The women begin marching toward Paris, singing and asserting themselves as part of the broader women's liberation movement amid the riots. Their journey becomes a statement against the school’s restrictive ideals.

early 1968 Highway toward Paris
14

A turning point in Paris

The group’s actions culminate in a turning point as they join the public demonstrations in Paris, embracing a new path beyond the school’s gatekeeping traditions.

early 1968 Paris streets

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