Going the Distance

Going the Distance

Year: 2010

Runtime: 102 min

Language: English

Director: Nanette Burstein

Budget: $32M

ComedyRomance

Erin's wit and honesty charm Garrett during lively evenings and playful morning competitions, sparking a passionate summer romance. However, when Erin plans to move west while Garrett remains in the east, they question if their whirlwind romance can last. As the distance between them increases, they discover their connection is deeper and more meaningful than they initially thought, leading them to reconsider their separate paths.

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1

Erin meets Garrett and begins a casual arrangement

Erin, a graduate journalism student interning in New York City, meets Garrett at a bar after he interrupts her Centipede game. They drink together and end up at his place, where they smoke marijuana and have sex while Garrett's roommate Dan DJs their hookup. The morning after, Erin agrees to breakfast and they decide to keep the relationship casual since she is in the city for six weeks.

First weeks of internship New York City bar
2

Erin earns praise for a piece and a potential future

Erin and Garrett's feelings deepen as she writes a well-received article for the paper. She is told to contact the newsroom in January about possible openings, signaling a potential permanent position. The balance between romance and career begins to complicate their lives.

During internship New York City newspaper office
3

Garrett dislikes his job at the record label

Garrett is assigned to manage a band he dislikes, which fuels his growing resentment toward his job. The relationship with Erin becomes more intense, even as work stress strains him. He starts to question his path while trying to maintain the romance.

During internship Record label office
4

Six-week internship ends; goodbye at the airport

Erin finishes her six-week internship and Garrett drives her to the airport for departure. In a tearful moment, he confesses he is crazy about her and wants a long-distance relationship. Erin agrees to try despite the distance.

End of six-week internship Airport
5

Thanksgiving reunion and a fevered night at Corinne's

Over the following months, they struggle to stay connected, but Garrett surprises Erin with a Thanksgiving visit. After an emotional reunion, they go to Erin's sister Corinne's house, where they have passionate sex on the dining room table, interrupted when Corinne walks in. The moment cements the intensity of their relationship.

Thanksgiving Corinne's house
6

Boxer Rebellion concert and jealousy

The next day they attend a Boxer Rebellion concert, and Garrett grows jealous of Erin's friendship with Damon, a handsome bartender. The tension from jealousy strains their relationship as Garrett ultimately has to return to NYC. The distance complicates their efforts to stay close.

Shortly after Thanksgiving Concert venue
7

January's disappointments and late-night awkwardness

In January, Erin calls her former newsroom to check for openings but there are none. She ends up getting drunk with Damon and almost kisses him, but goes home. Her professor recommends her for the San Francisco Chronicle, and she goes for an interview; Garrett tries a phone-sex call, but it comes across as awkward and embarrassing.

January New York City
8

Chronicle offer and a blindsiding reunion

A month later, Erin is offered a job at the Chronicle. She returns to NYC to tell Garrett in person, blindsiding him with the news. A tense reunion leads to a fight, and Erin spends the night with a friend to sleep things off.

One month after January New York City
9

Decision to move forward spurs a painful airport farewell

They reconcile and he suggests Erin move to NYC to live together, but a visit to San Francisco to sort things out makes Garrett realize he shouldn’t be the reason she turns down the job. They share a long, emotional hug before parting at the airport.

During SF visit San Francisco and airport
10

Six months later: career success and a move toward reunion

Six months later, Erin has her first front-page story and is thriving. Garrett has not dated anyone since her and quits his job to manage The Boxer Rebellion. He sends Erin tickets to their show, and she attends, unaware that he is the band's manager.

Six months later Los Angeles
11

A reunion at Corinne's and a chaotic ending

After the show, Garrett reveals he has moved to Los Angeles and the two decide to try again. They return to Corinne's house, interrupting Corinne and Phil dry-humping on the dining room table. Erin's niece Maya enters and everyone shouts 'Maya! Statue!' to freeze the moment in the family chaos.

Late night Corinne's house dining room

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