We All Loved Each Other So Much

Three former Resistance fighters—Gianni Perego Vittorio Gassman, Antonio Ricci Nino Manfredi, and Nicola Palumbo Stefano Satta Flores—try to build new lives in a Rome that is recovering from war. Antonio becomes a dedicated nurse who falls in love with Luciana Stefania Sandrelli, a woman he meets in the city. Gianni starts out as an assistant in a law firm whose head, La Rosa, is mounting a political bid on the Socialist ticket. Nicola takes up teaching at the high school level, marries, and has a son named Tommasino. The trio believes they are shaping their own destinies, even as the shadows of the past linger.

Three years after the war, the friends gather in a restaurant to reminisce, and an unspoken truth begins to surface: Luciana and Gianni are falling in love. When they finally confess their affair to Antonio, he confronts Gianni with a blow, shattering the fragile balance of their fragile postwar camaraderie. Meanwhile, Nicola’s life begins to unravel when a violent argument with a superior over the fate of the film Bicycle Thieves costs him his job, prompting him to leave his wife and child and move to Rome.

As time passes, Gianni and Luciana carry on living together, and Gianni’s career advances as he becomes a lawyer. He is asked to defend a corrupt real estate developer, but he refuses, later insisting that his refusal was rooted in moral principles rather than any political alliance—though the implication lingers that the firm’s entanglements with power may have affected him. Elide, the daughter of the client, develops feelings for Gianni, and the movie gently hints that Gianni may have accepted a bribe. Nicola, meanwhile, tries to reinvent himself as a film critic and to launch a film magazine, but his venture falters.

Years drift by, and Antonio, Nicola, and Luciana share a drunken night in which old resentments flare. Antonio argues with Luciana, who dreams of stardom; the moment passes, but the tension remains. Sometime later, Gianni receives news that Luciana may have attempted suicide. He finds her at a hotel, and in a tense scene she asks whether Antonio knows about their past. Nicola’s temper flares again, and he slaps her; she apologizes, and Antonio begins another quarrel with Nicola. Luciana recovers, and the trio parts once more, while Gianni watches from afar, unable to summon the courage to approach.

A further montage ages the characters: Gianni has married Elide Giovanna Ralli and built a comfortable, prosperous life with two children, while Tommasino grows toward adulthood. Nicola resurfaces on a television quiz show about Italian cinema, answering every question correctly and winning a substantial prize, which he uses to reconnect with his wife. On the next episode, a misstep about Bicycle Thieves costs him the winnings, underlining how memory and pride continue to tug at the group.

In 1959, at the Trevi Fountain, Antonio spots Luciana again, now an alcoholic actress who is hard to reach, and an impresario’s demands keep them apart. A decade later, Gianni’s countryside mansion and his ongoing estrangement from Elide reveal a man who is powerful yet emotionally isolated. When a quarrel with his father-in-law gives him real power over a business project, Elide confesses she has met another man, a revelation that devastates him and drives her toward suicide.

Antonio has remarried, and he and his new wife encounter Luciana again—now working as an usher with a young son. At a village festival, Vittorio De Sica Vittorio De Sica shares an anecdote that supports Nicola’s infamous quiz-show win, and the adults’ world-scrapings collide with a quiet truth: the younger generation has inherited a legacy of compromises. On a late-night drive back to Rome, Antonio happens upon Gianni, who pretends to be broke. They arrange to meet with Nicola, now a stringer for a newspaper, and the three old friends converge once more in the familiar restaurant.

The reunion is bittersweet and revealing: Gianni declares that they are a generation who did not fulfill the hopes they once had for a better world, a charge they level at one another in a drunken, cathartic brawl. When the dust settles, Nicola reveals that Tommasino is getting married, and the news brings an emotional release. They visit Antonio’s wife together, and Gianni finally confesses that he has always loved Luciana, while Luciana insists she never thought of him in those terms. After Gianni leaves, Nicola realizes he forgot his driver’s license, which becomes a small symbol of the ways time steals certainties. The next morning, the group returns the license to Gianni’s door and departs with a renewed sense of disagreement, yet something resembling lingering affection as they drift apart once again. In the end, the film leaves us with a quiet sense of memory, loss, and the stubborn endurance of friendship across the decades.

Last Updated: October 09, 2025 at 11:13