Humor Me

Humor Me

Year: 2018

Runtime: 93 min

Language: English

Director: Sam Hoffman

Echo Score: 63
Comedy

A man nearing retirement finds himself emotionally detached from his family, struggling to connect with his adult son. Their relationship feels stagnant, leaving both feeling adrift and yearning for a deeper bond. Through humorous situations and heartfelt moments, they navigate the challenges of disconnection and the desire for understanding, hoping to find a way to move forward together.

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1

Nate moves in with his father after losing everything

Nate Kroll, a playwright, loses his job, his wife Nirit, and his home. With little option left, he moves into his father Bob's retirement-community. The upheaval sets the stage for a clash between old routines and new ambitions.

Beginning of the film Bob's retirement community
2

Nate starts a job in the retirement home laundry but is fired

Bob lands Nate a job in the retirement home's laundry. Nate is immediately marked for trouble when Ellis, his retired military boss, fires him shortly after. The setback pushes Nate toward the community’s social world and the theater project.

Within the first day Retirement home laundry area
3

Nate encounters the Cranberry Bog Players planning The Mikado

While wandering the facility, Nate discovers the Cranberry Bog Players, a small group planning to stage The Mikado. He senses an opportunity to channel his talents as a director. This discovery plants the seed for his future involvement.

Shortly after starting work Common area of the retirement home
4

Connie's conversation about chemo and a directing chance

Connie explains she started using to cope with chemotherapy, and she recounts Bob’s weekly volunteering in the cancer ward. She proposes that Nate direct the Mikado, inviting him into the project. The conversation links Nate to the residents’ struggles and to the coming production.

Early in his stay Connie's space near the cancer ward
5

Preliminary meeting and Allison's introduction

At the preliminary meeting, four women attend and Dee’s daughter Allison stands out. Allison invites Nate to dinner at Dee’s home. She reveals she’s detoxed, is a musician, and is considering moving to Seattle to teach music.

Soon after the Mikado plan Cranberry Bog meeting space
6

Nate's relationship dynamics: Helen and Ellis chase

Helen takes an interest in Nate, but he skillfully dodges her. Ellis chases after them on a golf-cart while Nate and Allison slip away. Nate convinces Helen to consider giving Ellis a chance for the play to work.

Early in rehearsal phase Around the community area
7

Nate grows closer with Allison and begins rehearsals

Nate begins walking with his father during power-walk sessions and starts sharing his manuscript with Allison for proofing. Rehearsals progress, and Nate’s collaboration with the cast deepens. He also has nightly Skype calls with his son Gabe in France.

Over several days Bob's walking path and rehearsal space
8

Video of Nate's screenplay causes a crisis; hospital coma

The Cranberry Bog Players discover a video of Nate’s successful screenplay and arrange a viewing at Bob’s. Bob loses his temper and shuts the video off, then suffers a medical crisis and slips into a coma. The hospital drama forces Nate to rethink his priorities.

During the viewing Bob's home; hospital
9

Connie passes Nate the key to his mother's storage

Connie hands Nate the key to a storage locker filled with his mother’s belongings. The discovery promises to reveal family history that could influence the show.

After the coma, during hospital waiting Bob's home / storage locker
10

Allison confronts Nate about quitting and the unfinished script

Allison confronts Nate about quitting; she says the new screenplay is good but unfinished and implies his withdrawal affected it. The confrontation pushes Nate to examine his commitment to the project.

After viewing Allison's home
11

Nate and Connie visit Bob in hospital; jokes aid recovery

At the hospital, Nate and Connie tell jokes to Bob, and he starts responding. The bedside humor helps keep him conscious, and soon he begins to wake from the coma. The moment reinforces the connection between humor, family, and healing.

During Bob's coma recovery Hospital room
12

Nate returns to the home and recommits to the show

Nate returns to the home and asks to come back, agreeing to make adjustments to the show. He reintegrates with the cast and moves the project forward. The production gains momentum and a new tone emerges.

After Bob wakes Bob's home & rehearsal space
13

Opening night: the show embraces bold new humor

Opening night arrives and the revised Mikado receives praise from a producer who had pulled out earlier. The performance blends clever slapstick with sexual innuendo, winning the audience’s approval. The success validates Nate’s renewed commitment.

Opening night The home’s communal theater
14

Connie arrives with Gabe; divorce remarks and new family dynamics

Connie arrives backstage with Gabe and discusses divorce plans, including joint custody. She mentions money earned in France and outlines the new terms for their family. Gabe’s introduction to Allison expands Nate’s circle of support.

After the show Backstage / nearby area
15

Closing montage: future of the show and the community

The film closes with a playful montage: a playbill for Nate’s opening show, Gabe taking piano lessons with Allison, dress rehearsals near the pool, and Bob, Nate, and Gabe cannonballing into the water. It marks a new sense of belonging and shared joy within the community.

End Home, rehearsal spaces, and pool area

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