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What’s After the Movie tells a heartfelt story about Lily Trevino, a young woman navigating the complexities of her life and relationships. Lily, played by Lauren ‘Lolo’ Spencer, is a living-in aide who finds herself at a turning point after receiving a text message from her boyfriend that was meant for another woman. This incident prompts her to confront her feelings and her past, especially surrounding her difficult childhood and her strained relationship with her father, Bob Trevino, portrayed by John Leguizamo.

In an attempt to connect with her father, Lily tries to reach out to him emotionally through poetry, but he dismisses her, showing a misogynistic attitude by showing off photos of women at his retirement village instead. Feeling hurt and misunderstood, she seeks support from a counsellor, who is deeply affected by Lily’s recounting of her abusive childhood and her mother’s abandonment. Lily’s kindness and vulnerability bring the counsellor to tears, revealing her genuine desire to heal.

Lily then embarks on a series of personal attempts to build her confidence, including going on a date with one of her father’s girlfriends. However, misunderstandings occur when the woman mistakes her for someone else, prompting her to leave the date prematurely. Her father further distances himself, abandoning her after she tries to apologize. Desperate to reconnect with him, Lily finds a Facebook friend request from a Bob Trevino — but to her surprise, it’s not her father, but a construction manager based in Indiana.

This Bob seems to lead a lonely life similar to Lily’s, with few friends and a genuine kindness that sparks a budding online friendship. His wife, Jeannie, is initially wary, suspecting Lily might be a “Catfish,” but she eventually agrees to let her husband meet Lily in person. Their first face-to-face encounter occurs when Daphne, Lily’s wheelchair-using client, accidentally causes a toilet overflow, and Lily calls Bob — whom she mistakenly refers to as “Dad” — for help. Bob quickly realizes how unprepared Lily is for everyday tasks and generously buys her tools, showing his concern.

A poignant moment occurs when Lily confesses her fears that Bob will abandon her, especially after she openly calls him “Dad” to Daphne, leading to an emotional episode where she tells him he can leave. Instead, Bob reassures her that they can work through anything, and they share an honest, touching conversation about their past. It’s revealed that Bob and his wife lost a child at a young age, which has haunted them both.

Over the coming weeks, Lily and Bob grow closer, sharing interests and meaningful experiences. Bob takes her to his rural property where they watch the Perseids meteor shower, a cherished tradition for him since the death of his own son. He introduces her to scrapbooking activities that his wife became passionate about as a way of coping with their grief, eventually showing Lily her own scrapbook dedicated to their lost child. Lily shares her fears about animals, stemming from a childhood incident where her father took away her dog after a misunderstanding. This leads Bob to take her to a rescue shelter, where Lily, hesitant at first, holds a dog for the first time since childhood, marking a significant step in her healing process.

Meanwhile, Bob’s relationship with his wife, Jeannie, deepens as she begins to understand the pain behind his stoic exterior, especially when he finally views the scrapbook dedicated to their son. Their bond is reinforced during this emotional moment. Lily and Bob further solidify their bond, planning to meet again, but Lily’s biological father unexpectedly calls, demanding to meet urgently. Suspecting trouble, she cancels her plans, only to discover that her father is more interested in money than reconnecting — he leaves empty-handed, fueling Lily’s resolve to find her own strength.

Inspired by her feelings, Lily writes a poem for Bob, expressing her gratitude and hopes for the future. Meanwhile, Bob faces a professional crisis when an inspector arrives late and causes an accident, leading to a lawsuit against him. In response, Bob shows proof of his diligent work and expenses, but during a conversation with his wife, he suffers a heart attack.

Lily, worried about his silence, visits his house and attempts to break in, only to be arrested. She learns that her father has cut her out of the family photo album to impress a woman he recently bought a dog for, and she is devastated to discover that he has forgotten her own childhood pet. Enraged and heartbroken, she leaves him, realizing the depth of their disconnection.

Despite the setbacks, Lily begins to improve her life—buying a car, spending more time with Daphne, and reconnecting with her counsellor, who is impressed with her resilience. She continues to write to Bob, sharing her progress and expressing hope that he is safe.

Tragically, Bob’s health declines — he survives a second heart attack but ultimately succumbs. Jeannie informs Lily of his passing, and she attends his funeral alongside Daphne. During the ceremony, Jeannie shares that Bob had read Lily’s poem and opened up about their friendship while in the hospital, revealing the profound impact they had on each other. Jeannie gifts Lily a scrapbook filled with messages, photos, and the poem, symbolizing their shared journey through grief, healing, and friendship. The story closes on a note of hope and remembrance, emphasizing that even in loss, new connections and healing can emerge.

Last Updated: July 28, 2025 at 06:17