Wilbur Wants to Kill Himself

Wilbur Wants to Kill Himself

Year: 2004

Runtime: 109 min

Language: English

Director: Lone Scherfig

DramaComedy

As the weight of their mother's passing settles on them, two brothers - one determined to hold it together, the other clinging to the abyss of despair - must navigate a new wave of loss when their father suddenly exits their lives. Amidst the grief and uncertainty, they find solace in an unexpected love story and a chance at redemption.

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Timeline – Wilbur Wants to Kill Himself (2004)
Trace every key event in Wilbur Wants to Kill Himself (2004) with our detailed, chronological timeline. Perfect for unpacking nonlinear stories, spotting hidden connections, and understanding how each scene builds toward the film’s climax. Whether you're revisiting or decoding for the first time, this timeline gives you the full picture.
1

Wilbur Leaves the Hospital

Wilbur, portrayed by Adrian Rawlins, leaves the hospital after another suicide attempt. The hospital staff urges his brother Harbour to take him in, highlighting the family's struggle with mental health.

Hospital
2

Brothers Move to Childhood Apartment

Wilbur and Harbour settle into their childhood apartment located above the family bookshop. This environment stirs memories of their past, adding to the emotional complexity of their current lives.

Childhood Apartment
3

Wilbur's Disinterest in the Bookshop

While Harbour dedicates himself to managing the family bookshop, Wilbur prefers to work at a nursery. His indifference towards the bookshop symbolizes his struggle to engage with familial responsibilities.

Bookshop
4

Harbour Meets Alice

Harbour meets Alice, a hospital cleaner played by Shirley Henderson, who brings him books from her workplace. Their bond starts to form, adding a layer of romance amidst their challenging lives.

Bookshop
5

Alice Visits Harbour

After losing her job due to tardiness, Alice visits Harbour to explain her absence. This encounter deepens their connection as they share their struggles while navigating the complexities of their lives.

Bookshop
6

Harbour Proposes to Alice

Taking a tip from Wilbur, Harbour boldly proposes to Alice during a dinner at an Asian restaurant. This moment provides both a romantic turning point for their relationship and an opportunity for Wilbur to interact with Alice's former colleague, Sophie.

Asian Restaurant
7

Wilbur's Dark Turn

In a moment of despair, Wilbur retreats to the bathroom with suicidal thoughts. Thankfully, Harbour arrives just in time with Alice's help, preventing a tragedy from occurring.

Restaurant Bathroom
8

Harbour Reveals Family Secrets

During a heartfelt conversation with Alice, Harbour reveals Wilbur's deep-seated guilt over their mother's death. This revelation sheds light on the emotional turmoil Wilbur grapples with throughout the story.

9

The Birthday Gathering

The group attempts to celebrate a birthday, resulting in comedic chaos. Wilbur's awkwardness culminates in an embarrassing incident where he vomits on a little girl's dress, showcasing the difficulty they face in creating normalcy.

Bookshop
10

Wilbur's Leap of Desperation

Tension rises as Wilbur makes a desperate attempt to leap from a building. However, at the last moment, he realizes he is not ready to end his life, highlighting his ongoing struggle with mental health.

Building
11

Complications in Relationships

Wilbur awkwardly pursues a relationship with Moira as a distraction from his feelings for Alice. This complicates the dynamics in their close-knit group and causes further tension between the characters.

12

Harbour's Health Deteriorates

Harbour receives troubling news about his health but chooses not to enter the hospital. His struggle to balance treatment with family duties reveals the heaviness of his situation as it weighs down the family.

Hospital
13

Christmas at the Bookshop

As Harbour's health declines, the family unites to celebrate Christmas at the bookshop. The atmosphere merges warmth with poignant reflections of their struggles as they create lasting memories together.

Bookshop
14

Wilbur Takes Over the Bookshop

With Harbour's declining health, Wilbur steps in to manage the family bookshop. This shift represents his growth as he takes on more responsibility and strives to support Alice and Mary.

Bookshop
15

Harbour's Tragic Decision

In a heartbreaking conclusion, Harbour decides to take his own life, leaving a heartfelt request for Wilbur to care for Alice and Mary. The film ends poignantly with the three of them standing at Harbour's grave, united in their grief.

Graveyard

Last Updated: November 08, 2024 at 03:02

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