The Idea of You

In the end, Soléne and Hayes part ways after a tumultuous relationship that spanned several years. Their breakup is sparked by a humiliating incident at a vacation party, where Hayes’s bandmate Oliver insults Soléne’s age publicly, embarrassing her in front of everyone. This cruel jab reminds Soléne of her past heartbreak and inflicts enough pain for her to realize she cannot continue the relationship while her daughter suffers from the fallout. She breaks up with Hayes and returns to LA, feeling hurt and betrayed. Despite their breakup, Hayes’s feelings for Soléne remain, and he spends the following days trying to reconnect, even going so far as to appear at her house. Their farewell is emotional, filled with mutual love and a promise to revisit their relationship in five years, when circumstances might be different.

Years pass, and Soléne is living a quiet life, managing her gallery and raising her daughter, Izzy. One night, she sees Hayes perform on a TV show, where he dedicates a song to her, revealing that he still cares deeply. The final scene shows Hayes unexpectedly arriving at her gallery — a gesture that confirms his genuine feelings. The film closes with a sense of hope and the recognition that societal double standards often unfairly judge women’s happiness. Despite the cheesiness and cliché, the story emphasizes that love and vulnerability can survive societal judgment. The ending suggests that although their relationship was unconventional and complicated, genuine connection can persist across time, acknowledging that society often resents women who have their own happiness separate from societal expectations. Hayes’s visit signifies that their bond, though tested, isn’t entirely broken and that love can endure beyond societal boundaries.

Last Updated: June 25, 2025 at 09:02