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Release, runtime and language
2019 · 109 min · English
Echo score 64
Starring
Jim Gaffigan, Logan Miller, Samantha Mathis, Alex Karpovsky, Michelle Hurd, Anna Gunn
Budget
$48K

A teenager's plans for a carefree spring break take an unexpected turn when he discovers his controlling father is leading a double life in a secluded lake town. Philip grapples with the dilemma of exposing his father’s deception or embracing the surreal situation to learn more about family and self-discovery. The revelation challenges his understanding of his father and forces him to confront unexpected truths about identity and the complexities of family relationships.

On this page (6)
  1. 1 Where to watch
  2. 2 Events in order (15)
  3. 3 Timeline questions answered
  4. 4 Movie threads
  5. 5 Movies like Being Frank
  6. 6 Every angle

Where to watch

Where to Watch Being Frank (2019)

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15 events in order · contains spoilers

Being Frank Timeline: Events in Chronological Order

Every key event of Being Frank (2019) in order, scene by scene, with when and where it takes place. Use it to untangle flashbacks, time jumps and parallel storylines, to refresh your memory before the sequel or to find the exact scene you are thinking of.

  1. Philip's Aspirations

    Seventeen-year-old Philip is nearing the end of his high school years and harbors dreams of becoming a musician. His father, Frank, has other plans, insisting Philip spend his summer interning at their family's ketchup factory and pursuing a state college education.

  2. The Festival Request

    Feeling nostalgic about his high school life, Philip approaches his mother, Laura, to request permission to attend the Starling Festival at the lake. Despite Laura’s fond memories of the festival, she denies Philip's heartfelt plea, leaving him feeling hopeless and defeated.

  3. Acceptance Letter

    Philip receives an acceptance letter from NYU, igniting hope for his dreams. However, his father Frank's immediate reaction is dismissive, crushing Philip's aspirations without discussion.

  4. Sneaking Out

    With his father away on a trip to Japan, Philip decides to sneak out after being advised by his friend, Lewis. The two boys set out towards the lake, seeking an escape from their complicated home lives.

    Where
    Philip's home
  5. Unexpected Destination

    Rather than arriving at a luxurious lakeside cabin, Philip and Lewis find themselves at Ross’s modest home, which adds a twist to their getaway. As they spend the day lounging by the pool, Philip’s attention shifts to his high school crush, Allison.

    Where
    Ross's home
  6. Discovery of Frank's Infidelity

    Philip and Lewis unexpectedly spot Frank at the pool with a young waitress, igniting their curiosity. They follow him to her home and uncover the shocking truth that Frank has another family, revealing his secret life.

    Where
    Pool
  7. Assuming a New Identity

    The next day, Philip cleverly assumes the identity of Richie's son, allowing him to connect with Frank's other children without revealing the truth. This deception leads to an unexpected warmth from his newfound half-siblings.

    Where
    Ross's home
  8. NYU Tuition Negotiation

    When Frank returns from Japan, a tense evening results in Philip convincing his father to finance his NYU tuition. This moment solidifies a temporary bond as they share stories and connect as a family.

    Where
    Ross's home
  9. Laura's Concern

    Laura, worried about Philip's absence, consults with Lewis' mother who inadvertently reveals that Philip is at the lake. Realizing the urgency, Laura and Lib decide to search for him, leading to potential chaos ahead.

  10. Preparing for the Festival

    Amidst family disarray and anticipation for the festival, Frank tries to concoct a story to justify his absence from Japan. Both families frantically prepare, blissfully unaware of the looming chaos that awaits them.

  11. Race against Time

    On the morning of the festival, Frank feels an urge to escape Bonnie's cabin and rush to meet Laura's family. His hasty decision leads to a chaotic intertwining of both families at the festival venue.

    Where
    Bonnie's cabin
  12. The Festival Collision

    As Philip and Frank arrive at the festival, everything seems to unravel as both families converge unexpectedly. Philip tries to reach Laura while wrestling with unexpected romantic attention from his half-sister Kelly.

    Where
    Festival venue
  13. The Car Incident

    In a moment of chaos, Frank pushes Philip out of harm's way when a car speeds towards them. They narrowly escape injury but end up at the hospital due to Frank’s injuries, complicating their already strained relationship.

    Where
    Hospital
  14. Emotional Confrontation

    While recovering in the hospital, the emotional fallout unfolds. Laura leaves abruptly, signifying the fracturing of her marriage with Frank, while Bonnie confronts Frank about his choices, leading to a devastating sense of exhaustion for everyone involved.

    Where
    Hospital
  15. A New Beginning

    Months later, Philip settles into his dorm and surprises Kelly, who will be living next door. In an emotional gesture, Frank gifts Philip his father's guitar, symbolizing a new path forward for Philip to pursue his musical dreams.

    Where
    Dorm Room

Last updated: November 18, 2024 at 20:44

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Timeline questions answered

Being Frank Timeline Explained: Your Questions Answered

When does it happen, and why in that order? The questions people ask about the chronology of Being Frank (2019): time jumps, flashbacks, cause and effect between scenes and the correct order of events, each answered with spoilers.

Q1

Why does Philip pretend to be Richie's son?

Philip assumes the identity of Richie's son to gain access to Frank's secret family without revealing his true identity. The name "Richie" carries significant meaning for Frank, it's revealed that Richie was Frank's own father who abandoned him, making the claim particularly powerful. By presenting himself as Richie's son, Philip evokes an emotional response from Frank, allowing him to connect with his half-siblings Kelly and Eddie while keeping his true relationship hidden.

  • philip
  • richie
  • identity
  • frank
  • half-siblings
Q2

How does Philip find out about his father's secret family?

Philip and Lewis spot Frank at the pool with a young waitress and follow him to her home. There, Philip discovers that his father has been living a double life, Frank has another wife named Bonnie and two children, Kelly and Eddie, living at the lake house. This shocking revelation occurs when Philip and Lewis peer through the window and witness the secret family together.

  • frank
  • secret family
  • bonnie
  • discovery
  • lake
Q3

What causes the car accident at the festival?

During the chaotic festival scene, as Philip tries to reach his mother Laura, Kelly confesses her feelings and attempts to kiss him. When Frank intervenes, he admits his infidelity publicly. In the resulting chaos, a car comes barreling towards them. Frank instinctively pushes Philip out of the way, sacrificing himself. Both survive but end up in the hospital, Philip with minor injuries and Frank with broken ribs.

  • car accident
  • festival
  • frank
  • philip
  • hospital
Q4

Why does Frank give Philip the guitar at the end?

At the end of the movie, Frank visits Philip in his dorm and gives him his father's guitar. This gesture symbolizes Frank finally relinquishing his control over Philip's life and accepting his son's dreams of becoming a musician. The guitar represents Philip's freedom to pursue his passion for music, something Frank had previously dismissed when he forced Philip to choose between NYU and the ketchup factory.

  • guitar
  • frank
  • philip
  • dreams
  • music
  • nyu
Q5

What happens to Frank and Laura's marriage after the truth comes out?

After the car accident and the revelation of Frank's infidelity, Laura's reaction is cold and final. She leaves the hospital without confronting Frank, symbolizing the near-end of their marriage. The film doesn't show a full reconciliation between them, suggesting their relationship is severely damaged or potentially over by the time Philip starts college.

  • laura
  • frank
  • marriage
  • infidelity
  • divorce
Q6

Why does Kelly try to kiss Philip at the festival?

Kelly tries to kiss Philip because she doesn't know they're half-siblings. When Philip assumes the identity of Richie's son, he gains warm acceptance from Kelly and Eddie without revealing the truth about being their half-brother. Kelly develops genuine romantic feelings for Philip during their time together at the lake, not realizing he's actually her brother until the chaotic festival scene.

  • kelly
  • philip
  • kiss
  • half-sister
  • confusion
Q7

Why does Frank have a secret family at the lake?

The film doesn't explicitly explain Frank's motivation for creating a secret family, but it's implied he wanted a different life away from his controlled existence with Laura. The duality suggests Frank created a separate family to escape the expectations of his primary marriage and pursue a different identity, something the film ties to his own difficult relationship with his father, Richie, who abandoned him.

  • frank
  • secret family
  • bonnie
  • motivation
  • lake house
Q8

Why does Frank push Philip out of the way of the car?

Frank instinctively pushes Philip out of the way when the car comes speeding toward them. This moment represents Frank's genuine love for his son despite his controlling behavior and infidelity. Earlier in the film, Philip recalls Frank once making a reckless comment about risking his life, suggesting Frank has always had a self-sacrificing side that emerges in critical moments.

  • frank
  • philip
  • car
  • sacrifice
  • fatherhood
Q9

Does Philip end up going to NYU?

Yes, Philip ends up attending NYU. Earlier in the film, Philip convinced Frank to pay for his NYU tuition by exploiting the secret family situation. The check Frank writes becomes Philip's ticket to pursue his dreams of becoming a musician. The ending shows Philip settling into his dorm room at NYU, finally free to pursue his passion.

  • philip
  • nyu
  • college
  • music
  • dreams
Q10

What happens to Philip's plans to work at the ketchup factory?

Philip's plans to work at the family's ketchup factory are abandoned by the end of the movie. When Frank gives Philip his guitar and blesses his musical dreams, it's clear Philip is no longer expected to follow the predetermined path Frank originally laid out, summer internship at the factory followed by state college. Philip gets to pursue his own dreams instead.

  • ketchup factory
  • philip
  • frank
  • college
  • control
Q11

Why does Laura go to the lake to find Philip?

Laura becomes worried about Philip's extended absence while he's supposed to be with Lewis. She consults Lewis' mother, who inadvertently reveals that Philip is at the lake. Realizing the situation could be dangerous or inappropriate, Laura and Lib decide to travel to the lake themselves to find Philip, leading to the chaotic convergence of both families at the festival.

  • laura
  • lake
  • philip
  • find
  • search

Movie threads

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Curated lists built around what makes Being Frank tick: the same mood, the same kind of story or the same emotional payoff. Each list explains why these movies belong together.

Movies about awkward family secrets like Being Frank

Stories where domestic comedy arises from deeply buried family truths. If you enjoyed the blend of comedy and uncomfortable revelations in Being Frank, explore other movies like it. These films feature similar stories of family deception, where the humor is found in the awkward fallout of long-buried secrets coming to light.

  • awkward
  • comedic
  • revelatory
  • confrontational
  • heartfelt
  • quirky
  • Tone: bittersweet, awkwardly comedic
  • Pacing: steady, character-driven
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The narrative typically follows a protagonist who stumbles upon a shocking secret that recontextualizes their entire family dynamic. This discovery sets off a chain of awkward, often farcical events, forcing characters to confront uncomfortable truths and ultimately leading to a new, more complicated understanding of their relatives.

Why they belong together: Movies are grouped here for their shared tone that balances heartfelt emotion with situational, often cringe-inducing, comedy. They explore the theme of fractured identities within a family unit and the bittersweet journey of rebuilding relationships on a foundation of newly revealed truths.

Bittersweet father-son stories like in Being Frank

Emotional journeys where a son's discovery about his father forges a new connection. For viewers who liked the father-son dynamic in Being Frank, this collection features similar movies about paternal secrets and complex bonding. These stories capture the messy, bittersweet process of a son truly getting to know his father, flaws and all.

  • heartfelt
  • confrontational
  • reflective
  • revelatory
  • bittersweet
  • coming of age
  • Tone: bittersweet, reflective
  • Pacing: steady
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The story arc begins with a son's idealized or strained view of his father, which is shattered by a major discovery. This leads to a period of conflict and disillusionment, but through shared experience and forced confrontation, a more honest and nuanced relationship emerges, often marked by a bittersweet acceptance.

Why they belong together: These movies share a focus on the father-son relationship as a crucible for identity and maturity. They are united by a bittersweet emotional journey, a steady narrative pace that allows for character reflection, and a central theme of reconciling parental imperfections with personal growth.

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