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Release, runtime and language
2023 · 89 mins · Norwegian
Echo score 35
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Directed by
Petter Holmsen
Starring
Jonas Strand Gravli, Marit Andreassen, Mads Sjøgård Pettersen, Veslemøy Mørkrid, Ida Ursin-Holm, Kanan Gill

To celebrate their engagement, Thea takes Jashan home — but his Indian roots and her family’s Norwegian traditions clash in a chaotic Christmas.

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  1. 1 Where to watch
  2. 2 What happens: full plot
  3. 3 Plot questions answered
  4. 4 Movie threads
  5. 5 Movies like Christmas As Usual
  6. 6 Every angle
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What Happens in Christmas As Usual: Full Plot Summary

The whole story of Christmas As Usual (2023) explained, from the opening scene to the final frame: every key event, every twist and what it all adds up to. Read it as a quick recap before the sequel, to check a scene you missed, or to finally understand what really happened.

On December 1 in Los Angeles, Jashan Joshi proposes to Thea Evjen. She accepts and invites him to spend Christmas Eve with her family in Telemark. Unsure how they will react, as Jashan is a Hindu and Indian, Thea decides to share the news in Norway.

Upon their arrival, Anne-Lise Evjen is taken aback, not expecting to meet an Indian. Jashan Joshi tries to compliment the house and decorations, which he also manages to foul up slightly. Saying goodnight, he calls Anne-Lise Evjen mamma, which she dislikes; after she rejects the Indian term auntie, he settles on mamma.

Thea Evjen is up early, so her mother tells her that Jørgen Bruun misses her. Anne-Lise points out that Jashan's culture is very different from theirs, having done some online research. Uncomfortable with her mother's response so far, as there is a culture clash, Thea convinces Jashan to put off announcing the engagement until she finds the right moment.

On the morning of Tiny Christmas (December 22), Thea's brother Simen Evjen arrives with his pregnant wife Hildegunn Evjen and daughter Ronja Evjen. Also surprised, he questions the relationship, even more so once she excitedly shows them the ring. Jashan manages to choke down the unfamiliar food, makes an Indian snowman and goes with them to Thea's father's grave.

Thea suggests to Jashan they make dinner special, referring to announcing their engagement. He, on the other hand, believes the food, so prepares a huge curry dinner. The Norwegians are appalled, as each day up to Christmas is meticulously planned already. However, they sit down to try and eat it.

Just as Thea begins to share about the engagement, Simen, Ronja and Anne-Lise start to have a strong reaction to the spices, as they are unused to truly hot ones. Hildegunn is fine, having spent some months in India in her youth. She shows Thea and Jashan the tattoo she got then, which she believes says inner peace. He reveals that it really says white girl, leaving her without words.

On the 23rd, Tiny Christmas, they all head out on cross-country skis. Jashan is disappointed that their lunch spot is just a place to cook meat on a stick and NOT a restaurant. He and Thea hold back to spend time alone. As dusk approaches, Jørgen Bruun nears them with a snowmobile, upon Anne-Lise's request. Jashan happily accepts, unaware he is her ex of five years and former neighbor.

The next day, now aware of Jørgen's past connection with Thea, Jashan jumps into the ice bath to save face. However, he catches cold, inadvertently interrupting Ronja Evjen's solo at church. Dinner's main course is crispy pig fat, which both Jashan and Ronja have difficulty choking down. He tries to mask the flavor with bottles from the kitchen of dried garlic and Indian chili which have labels, “Hindu” and “Black Boy.” Jashan feels insulted by Norway as a whole due to the spice labels.

Jørgen Bruun shows up, dressed as Father Christmas, to deliver people's presents. As Ronja is sitting on one knee, he convinces Thea to sit on the other. Jashan protests, so Jørgen goes to leave, whispering something in his ear on his way. Jashan, drunk from potato liquor, gets into a fight with him and they knock over the Christmas tree.

After Jørgen leaves, Jashan also chooses to go, as he has gone through a roller coaster of emotions because Thea did not help him. He heads to the airport by taxi. Ronja asks for him, calling him “cool.” She goes on to say she knew it was Jørgen in the red suit, that he obviously is still in love with her and Jashan had not ruined the Christmas carol solo as she felt obligated.

Thea realizes she made a terrible mistake, so hurries off to the airport with her mother driving and everyone else in the back. She bypasses security to declare her love to Jashan and propose. However, security catches up with them and escorts them out of the terminal.

One year later, Thea and Jashan return to Norway for Christmas. This time they have mixed the two cultures together, in customs, food and dress. At midnight, they go outside, count down to midnight and shout Happy Christmas as Jashan's family does in India. The happy couple lets it slip that their upcoming marriage is going to be held in India, to the Norwegians' surprise.

Last updated: March 05, 2026 at 18:39

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Plot questions answered

Christmas As Usual Plot Explained: Your Questions Answered

The questions people ask most about Christmas As Usual (2023): what happens in the confusing scenes, why the characters do what they do, the twists, hidden details and what the ending means. Each answer contains spoilers.

Q1

Why does Thea decide to delay announcing her engagement to Jashan?

Thea delays announcing the engagement because she senses her mother Anne-Lise is uncomfortable with Jashan being Indian. After seeing her mother's guarded reaction upon their arrival and hearing her mention that she researched Indian culture online, Thea wants to find the right moment to share the news without causing conflict.

Foreshadowing: Early tension is introduced when Anne-Lise is visibly surprised to meet an Indian fiancé.

  • engagement announcement
  • culture clash
  • Thea
  • Anne-Lise
Q2

What does Jørgen whisper to Jashan before the fight?

The exact words Jørgen whispers are never revealed on screen. However, the context suggests he likely reminded Jashan about his past relationship with Thea, as Jashan had just learned that Jørgen was his ex-girlfriend and former neighbor. This provocation, combined with Jashan's intoxication from potato liquor, triggers the fight.

Foreshadowing: Jørgen's arrival as Father Christmas and his request for Thea to sit on his knee already hints at lingering feelings.

  • Jørgen
  • Jashan
  • fight
  • provocation
  • whisper
Q3

Why does Jashan jump into the ice bath on Christmas Eve?

Jashan jumps into the ice bath after learning that Jørgen was Thea's ex-boyfriend and neighbor for five years. He feels embarrassed and attempts to prove himself by showing he can handle the extreme cold, trying to save face in front of the family. However, he catches a cold from the experience.

Foreshadowing: Jørgen's arrival on the snowmobile at dusk and his lingering connection to Thea plant seeds of insecurity in Jashan.

  • ice bath
  • Jashan
  • Jørgen
  • jealousy
  • cold
Q4

Why does Jashan feel insulted by the spice labels in Norway?

Jashan finds two spice bottles in the kitchen labeled "Hindu" and "Black Boy." These labels offend him because they reduce his religious identity and skin color to stereotypical descriptors. The incident makes him feel disrespected and contributes to his growing frustration with Norwegian culture during the trip.

Foreshadowing: Earlier scenes already show cultural friction around food, with Norwegians struggling to eat Jashan's curry.

  • spice labels
  • Hindu
  • Black Boy
  • offense
  • culture
Q5

Why does Jashan say Hildegunn's tattoo actually says 'white girl'?

Hildegunn got a tattoo in India during her youth that she believed said "inner peace." When Jashan reads the Hindi, he reveals it actually translates to "white girl", a mistranslation that highlights the cultural misunderstandings and superficial engagement with Indian culture that some characters display.

Foreshadowing: This moment connects to earlier mentions of Hildegunn having spent time in India.

  • tattoo
  • Hildegunn
  • translation
  • misunderstanding
  • India
Q6

Why does Thea rush to the airport after Jashan leaves?

Thea realizes she made a terrible mistake by not supporting Jashan throughout the cultural misunderstandings and the confrontation with Jørgen. Overcome with regret, she rushes to the airport to stop Jashan from leaving and to declare her love for him, attempting to propose to him at the airport security area.

Foreshadowing: The fight with Jørgen and toppling of the Christmas tree marks the breaking point after mounting tensions.

  • airport
  • Thea
  • Jashan
  • proposal
  • regret
Q7

Why does Anne-Lise dislike Jashan calling her mamma?

Anne-Lise is uncomfortable with Jashan using the Norwegian term "mamma" (mom) because she feels the relationship is too new and formal for such an intimate address. She initially rejects his attempt to use the Indian term for auntie as well, establishing early cultural friction between them.

Foreshadowing: This awkward exchange happens on their first evening together.

  • Anne-Lise
  • mamma
  • cultural
  • discomfort
  • address
Q8

Why does the curry dinner cause such a problem?

Jashan prepares a huge curry feast thinking it would be special for announcing the engagement. However, the Norwegians are appalled because their Christmas Eve is meticulously planned with specific foods for each day. Additionally, the spice level is overwhelming for those unused to hot food, creating an uncomfortable situation.

Foreshadowing: This clash reflects the broader theme of incompatible holiday traditions.

  • curry
  • dinner
  • spice
  • Norwegian
  • Christmas food
Q9

Why does Jashan interrupt Ronja's church solo?

Jashan catches a severe cold from jumping into the ice bath earlier that morning. When Ronja performs her Christmas solo in church, Jashan's uncontrollable coughing disrupts her performance, inadvertently ruining the moment despite his attempts to hold it in.

Foreshadowing: Jashan's ice bath decision directly leads to this consequence.

  • Ronja
  • church
  • solo
  • cold
  • coughing
Q10

How do Thea and Jashan blend their cultures by the end of the movie?

One year later, Thea and Jashan return to Norway having combined Norwegian and Indian traditions in their customs, food, and dress. At midnight on Christmas Eve, they count down and shout "Happy Christmas" as Jashan's family does in India. They also reveal their wedding will take place in India, showing their commitment to merging both cultures.

Foreshadowing: The earlier conflicts and misunderstandings pave the way for this reconciliation.

  • blend
  • cultures
  • India
  • Norway
  • wedding
  • traditions

Movie threads

More Movies Like Christmas As Usual, by Mood & Story

Curated lists built around what makes Christmas As Usual tick: the same mood, the same kind of story or the same emotional payoff. Each list explains why these movies belong together.

Movies like Christmas As Usual: Holiday Family Meet-Up Comedies

Couples navigating comedic chaos when meeting family over the holidays. If you loved the chaotic charm of Christmas As Usual, you'll enjoy these movies that feature couples trying to survive the holidays with their partner's family. These comedies blend romance, cultural clashes, and laugh-out-loud moments for a feel-good experience.

  • comedic
  • awkward
  • heartwarming
  • romantic
  • chaotic
  • family-oriented
  • Tone: light, comedic, heartwarming
  • Pacing: steady, event-driven
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The narrative typically follows a couple, often newly engaged or in a serious relationship, as they visit one partner's family for a holiday celebration. The plot revolves around the comedic and awkward situations that arise from cultural or personality clashes, building to a resolution where love and understanding triumph.

Why they belong together: Movies in this thread share a core premise of holiday-induced family chaos, focusing on the universal anxieties of making a good impression and the humor found in misunderstanding. They blend light romantic comedy with specific cultural or traditional elements.

Movies similar to Christmas As Usual: Lighthearted Cross-Cultural Romances

Heartwarming stories where love bridges cultural divides with humor. Fans of Christmas As Usual will appreciate these movies that feature couples from different cultures navigating their relationship with humor and heart. These stories focus on the comedy and connection that comes from blending worlds, perfect for a feel-good watch.

  • romantic
  • comedic
  • heartwarming
  • cultural clash
  • awkward
  • hopeful
  • Tone: light, romantic, comedic
  • Pacing: steady
Why these movies?

The story pattern: The narrative follows a couple as their relationship is tested by the realities of their differing cultural upbringings. Conflicts arise from well-intentioned but misguided family members or social faux pas, but are resolved through communication and a shared commitment, resulting in a positive ending that celebrates their unique blend.

Why they belong together: These films are grouped by their central theme of a romance flourishing despite—and often because of—cultural differences. They maintain a light tone, using cultural contrasts as a source of comedy rather than serious drama, and ultimately affirm the idea that love can transcend background.

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