The Holly and the Ivy

Across the frost-kissed lanes of rural Norfolk, the sprawling Gregory family returns home for Christmas to the parsonage in the quiet village of Wyndenham. The film opens by introducing most of the clan, while the youngest daughter, Margaret Gregory Margaret Leighton, remains largely unseen for much of the first half. At the center of the story is Jenny Gregory Celia Johnson, who tends to her aging father, Reverend Martin Gregory Ralph Richardson, the village parson whose compassion for his parishioners often leaves his own family feeling secondary.

Jenny hopes to marry engineer David Paterson John Gregson, who is bound for five years in South America after his national service, yet she cannot leave her father without someone from the family stepping in to look after him. The siblings’ lives are tangled by their father’s devout faith and the unspoken fear that any move away from his strict sense of duty will be met with disapproval rather than support. The tension is sharpened by Martin’s son Michael Denholm Elliott, who harbors a growing resentment toward religion and resents the plan to send him to university after his service in the Royal Artillery. Michael’s restlessness mirrors a broader drama about freedom, responsibility, and the cost of staying true to one’s path.

Margaret arrives late to the gathering and makes it clear to Jenny that she has no intention of remaining in the parsonage or giving up her life as a London magazine writer. The conversation peels back a layer of quiet pain: Margaret is becoming an alcoholic, and she confesses in private that she has been an unmarried mother whose four-year-old son died of meningitis, a tragedy that has driven her toward drink as a way to cope. The siblings’ struggles are not merely personal; they are questions about how to reconcile affection with honesty, and how to pursue happiness without breaking the ties that bind them to their father’s world.

The family’s dynamic is further complicated by two aunts who represent different generations and coping styles—Aunt Bridget [Maureen Delaney] and Aunt Lydia [Margaret Halstan]—who watch, wonder, and sometimes intervene as best they can. The essential issue remains: none of the children can approach Martin with ease about the choices that define their lives, because they fear his perceived rigidity and his reputation as a man of deep religious conviction. This fear has been a barrier between him and his children, even as he has spent years listening to people in need and wrestling with his own sense of vocation in the process.

On Christmas Eve, all the underlying pressures bubble to the surface as Margaret and Michael decide to leave the house together, ostensibly to catch a film. In truth, they drift toward the pub, where drink loosens their tongues and ignites a confrontation that echoes the tenure of their unspoken fears. When they return, the tension in the parsonage crackles and a scene is set for the morning to come. By Christmas morning, Margaret declares that she is leaving, and Michael challenges his father in a way that shakes the room as he questions the existence of God.

What unfolds next reveals a man far more understanding than his reputation suggests. Martin is not a tyrant nor merely a stern moralist; he has lent aid to many who faced similar crises and has wrestled with doubt himself on the road to his religious calling. In intimate, candid conversations with Michael and Margaret just before the morning service, he voices his regrets that they have felt him to be unapproachable and distant. These exchanges allow the siblings to glimpse the gentler, more compassionate side of their father—the side that has listened, advised, and supported others without forcing his own beliefs on them.

With the truth laid bare, the paths before them begin to realign. Michael softens his stance about university life, and Margaret agrees to retreat from the London world she secretly detests in favor of living with Martin, which in turn opens the door for Jenny’s plan to marry David and to travel to South America. The house—once a pressure cooker of unspoken expectations—begins to breath again as a family reconciles with authenticity and care. The resolution culminates in a quiet, hopeful harmony, as the entire family gathers for the Christmas morning service, where faith, love, and forgiveness find their shared ground.

In the end, the film leaves us with a comforting sense of belonging and renewal. The parsonage in Wyndenham remains a place of refuge, where even the most anxious questions about faith and duty can be spoken openly and met with patience, understanding, and a willingness to adapt. The Gregory clan steps forward into the new year not as a single, flawless unit, but as a family that has learned to listen, support, and love each other more honestly than before.

Last Updated: October 09, 2025 at 14:07