Ordinary People

Set in Lake Forest, a quiet, affluent suburb just north of Chicago, this story follows the Jarrett family as they try to pick up the pieces after two separate, tragic blows. The older son, Buck, dies in an accident, and his younger brother, Conrad, survives a suicide attempt, leaving a heavy, unspoken strain hanging over the house. Conrad has just returned home after four months in a psychiatric hospital, and he arrives carrying the weight of survivor’s guilt, the tremors of trauma, and a search for something resembling normalcy.

Conrad is enveloped in a web of confusion and distance. He seeks help from a psychiatrist, Dr. Tyrone Berger, who begins to untangle the complex emotions tied to the sailing accident that claimed Buck. The session work is not about forgetting the past but learning to live with it, to acknowledge pain without letting it completely define him. Conrad carries visible signs of post-traumatic stress, and his path toward healing is framed by cautious steps, small victories, and ongoing struggles to express what he feels.

At home, Calvin, the father, makes a steady effort to reconnect with his surviving son and to understand his wife’s evolving grief. He wants to bridge the gap that has formed between them, hoping to restore a sense of family cohesion. Beth, the mother, is determined to preserve the appearance of perfection and normality, even as she denies the magnitude of her own loss. She often appears emotionally distant, a choice that seems to shield the family from discomfort but ultimately creates a barrier between her and Conrad. Her stance hints at a booming, lingering favoritism toward Buck, and this hardened stance deepens Conrad’s sense of isolation.

Despite the tension, Conrad begins to find a foothold. He continues working with Dr. Berger and gradually learns strategies to cope with his emotions rather than trying to master them through denial or suppression. He also begins dating a fellow student, Jeannine, whose companionship offers him renewed hope and a sense that life can still hold bright moments. Yet his progress is uneven, and he remains challenged by communication gaps with his parents and peers.

Family life becomes a delicate balance of negotiation and contention. Beth and Conrad spar as Calvin acts as a mediator, often taking Conrad’s side out of concern that a harsher stance might push him toward another crisis. The holiday season intensifies the strain: during Christmas, a moment of anger erupts when Conrad lashes out at Beth for resisting a photo with him in front of their grandparents. The conflict escalates as Beth discovers that Conrad has been lying about his after-school whereabouts, prompting a tense confrontation in which he accuses her of never visiting him in the hospital. Her sharp reply—that Buck would never have ended up in the hospital in the first place—serves as a painful blow that hardens the rift.

The family travels to Houston, where Calvin presses Beth about her evasive behavior as they visit Beth’s brother Ward. The trip becomes a lens through which the cracks in the marriage are laid bare, revealing differences in how each parent chooses to cope with grief.

A devastating turn arrives when Conrad learns that Karen, a friend from the psychiatric hospital, has taken her own life. This loss becomes a catalyst for a late-night breakthrough, a cathartic moment with Dr. Berger that helps Conrad stop blaming himself for Buck’s death and begin to accept his mother’s fragility as part of the human condition. Still, affection from Beth remains elusive, leaving Calvin to challenge her once more about the possibility of true love within the family. The moment is sobering and intimate, and it culminates in Beth packing her bags and returning to Houston, signaling a real shift in the family dynamic.

In the end, Calvin and Conrad are left to navigate a new, more fragile equilibrium. The film closes on a note of cautious honesty and renewed paternal bond, with the two men acknowledging that their relationship—built on perseverance, patience, and a willingness to face painful truths—has become their shared path forward. The Jarretts are not cured, but they are closer to a fragile, enduring understanding of what it means to love one another through broken pieces and the possibility of healing.

Last Updated: November 22, 2025 at 15:59